Boo Bear and Coco Puff; update 1/2; a weird update; post #41

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Originally Posted by cassiesmom

Boo Bear and meowmie, how are you today? I lit another candle for you.

Scritchies and lovies,
Elyse

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Boo bear did something strange last night. He and Coco Puff slept w/me and in the middle of the night I heard Coco cry but it was so weak that I didn't get up to check b/c it sounded like a meow when he's dreaming. Then I heard him hiss and cry and this boy isn't a hisser so that time I got up to see what was going on. Boo had mounted Coco and had his neck in his teeth just like he used to do w/Pidgie! I said "Boo Bear! I can't believe you!" and I had to pull him off Coco who was stunned. I picked him up and held him for a few minutes and he kind of whimpered. Boo just calmly walked into the guest room where the food, fountain and litterbox are, ate a little, then hopped back up into bed. He had done that to Pidge just a couple of days before she died. Then this morning, as soon as I got up, Specs attacked Boo Bear! Yet Specs was in the basement when all that transpired between Boo and Coco. Honestly, this place is a nut house right now! Thank you for the candle, Elyse. We definitely need it. :confused:

I hope your furkids get this sorted out. I feel for both Coco and Boo.:(

I sure hope that things settle back down to some reasonable normalcy very soon. All of this must be maddening. :(

Have things settled down yet Mary???

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Originally Posted by slick

Have things settled down yet Mary???

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Kinda sorta. Boo and Coco both want to sleep w/me; all the Fur Posse do but I can't have 5 cats in bed w/me. It's all I can do to get any shut eye as it is. I caught Boo ready to bite Coco on the back of the neck again and I put a stop to it. Boo has always been a needy cat but he's uber needy now so I just give him as much lovin' as he can stand. LOL He just seems so lost. I talk to him every day but I know myself that when people keep talking to me and I don't want to hear it, it's irritating and I think sometimes that I irritate him, so if I see his body go rigid, then I know he's heard enough. He just wants to be held so he's usually either on my lap or I toss him over my shoulder and I stand while I rock him back and forth. He loves that.

Mary, it's a bit late, but I found this site on grieving cats while looking for another grieving site. It might help?

http://www.messybeast.com/cat-grief.htm

I hope you and your babies are well.:love:

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Originally Posted by Catty1

Mary, it's a bit late, but I found this site on grieving cats while looking for another grieving site. It might help?

http://www.messybeast.com/cat-grief.htm

I hope you and your babies are well.:love:

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Thank you, Candace. You've been so helpful. :)

Very interesting article, Candace.