Considering Felicia's age, I really hope you'll be able to take her with you, not only for her sake, but for your peace of mind. :) Say what ever it takes!
(((((hugs)))))
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Considering Felicia's age, I really hope you'll be able to take her with you, not only for her sake, but for your peace of mind. :) Say what ever it takes!
(((((hugs)))))
Nancy, I will be praying for you, and hoping that you find a way to take Felicia with you.
I cannot even begin to imagine how you must be feeling at the moment, but I hope that you will continue to come to PT for words of encouragement and love.
I am sure I speak for many of us here when I say that if there is ANYTHING I can do to help, you only have to ask!
(((HUGS)))
Nancy,
I am SO very sorry for what I said in my post that I have since deleted. I didn't realize Felicia's age and you're right, after 17 years of being an indoor cat, it would probably cause problems with her health. Everyone's situation is different, and I know how devastating it can be to have to make that type of very difficult decision.
I hope you can find it in your heart to forgive me. :( You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Again, please forgive me. :(
((((((HUGS))))))))
Donna
My thoughts are with you too, Nancy. I am sure you will find the best solution for you and Felicia
(((Hugs)))
I'm sorry you are not well Nancy. :( *hugs* I can't imagine being in your same situation. I hope something comes up and you're either able to keep Felicia or place her in a home.
Dear Nancy -
I am so sorry for all your troubles. This has to be a very, very difficult time in your life, with so many problems to resolve. All I can say is that I care, and I will be glad for you when you have found some resolution that will bring you as much peace as possible. Peace is possible, once you have come to a decision that you know is the best you can possibly do, given the circumstances - and *that* is what I wish for you.
Prayers for you and your health. I can't imagine the pain you are going through both physically and emotionally.
I also pray that you find the best solution for everyone involved.
Nancy, I'm so sorry to hear of your situation and poor Felicia. I am keeping my fingers crossed that you can take her to your new home so she can see out her twilight years with you or a sanctuary can provide a home for her. Sending you lots of {{{hugs}}} and hope to hear some positive news.
Oh my gosh. :( Nancy, I am SO sorry to hear you have been put in such a difficult position. I will hope and pray that everything works out and you are able to either bring Felicia with you, or at the very least find an alternate home for her. I just can't imagine the heartbreak you must have gone through to come to this decision. :(
Nancy, here are some resources that may help you to keep Felicia with you. Hope they help!
Best Friends for Life, Humane Housing for Animals and People.
This booklet is available through the website of Doris Day Animal League, http://www.ddal.org/pubs/bestfriends/
or by calling (202)546-1761, by e-mailing [email protected], and thru Massachusetts Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals by calling (617)522-7400 or faxing (617) 522-4885. -- The first book is free, additional copies are $2.95
It covers topics such as:
• How disabled individuals may be eligible to keep pets even in "no-pets" housing
• A new federal law that allows pets in federally assisted housing
• Arguments that may allow animals in "no pet" privately owned housing
• Responsible pet guardianship
• How to convince your landlord to adopt a "pets welcome" policy
• Model rental guidelines that protect the rights of renters and animals
The MSPCA produces a booklet called Pets in People Places, Responsible Pet
Ownership in Multi-Unit Housing. phone: 617-522-7400
http://www.firepaw.org/CarpLiterature.html
I'm sorry to hear that you will not be able to keep both of your cats with you.
I'm glad that Beau will have a new home and that you will be able to visit him.
I hope that you will be able to keep Felicia with you or find a good person to take care of her for you.
Sending hugs your way, I know this can't be easy for you.
Just remember that you are a part of the Pet Talk family and that we care about you and your cats here. :)
I'm so very sorry for all your troubles.Your pets are your children and I'm happy you can visit one of them.The other will be at RB watching over you and protecting you.And very happy with your desicion.At rest now and thinking of you.You made the right desicion.Believe me...I've been there and know you did right.
Nancy, Are you OK? Have you had any luck?
Oh Nancy, I'm so sorry. I missed this thread when it first appeared since I'm hit or miss on the forums these days. My heart goes out to you during this difficult time. If you need anything, please PM me and I'll do my best to find any resources or info you may need.
Thanks Jen for bumping this thread back up. Please check in if you can find a moment to let us know how you're making out.
{{{Nancy}}} Sorry this post is so late, I don't get to PT much anymore.
Sending ~~~ vibes ~~~ and hoping your health challenges improve. Congrats on rehoming Beau. Much luxk with Felicia. What a horrible predicament you face. It must make your move even harder. :( :eek:
Holding you and your family in my prayers.
Oh poor felicia!!! I will be praying for you!!! :( :( :( :( :(
I was just going to post a new thread....Nancy, how are things? What happened?
Prayers that you and your Felicia are ok!
hugs
Catty1
I haven't felt like being on Pet Talk lately.
The cats and I are still in the old apartment; the new one is being painted.
A friend (Kathryn) is going to keep Felicia for me while I move and get settled in. If I still can't keep her there, Kathryn said she will help find her a home.
Oh, that's good anyway. But we all, of course, hope Felicia can stay with you.Quote:
Originally Posted by Felicia's Mom
May the Lord help you through this difficult time in your life. And remember, we here at Pet Talk care about you. Bless your friend who will help Felicia. Take care and please try to stay in touch (we worry, you know)
Nancy,
I am glad to hear from you and am so glad Kathryn is helping you with Felicia.
{{{{Hugs}}}}
We think of you very often and keep our fingers and paws crossed- for your health and for your kitties.
Nancy, I just saw this thread - how I missed it is beyond me.
My heart goes out to you - and I hope that there will be some way that you can have Felicia with you. After all, she is not in her prime anymore and not likely to cause damage.
You will have my prayers and good thoughts that this will work out just right for everyone.
Nancy,
I'm praying that you and Felicia will be able to stay together. There's nothing more wonderful than a purring cat to help heal.
BIG (((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))
Donna
An update on my problem; I am still waiting to move. The apartment I was going to move into rented out 7-8 apartments after I told them I would take one of them.
Actually, I am not as depressed as when I first started this thread. Back then, I didn't think I had a choice. Now I am thinking that maybe the cats and I can find a place together. Examples: a one room or a basement apt.
However, I am no longer working and earning money. I am not getting my pension or social security yet and can't get on some other programs until I am 65.
If you didn't sign a lease, then you are free to look for something else.
I know you aren't well...but could you exchange anything for a low rent? Housesitting, VERY light housecleaning, that sort of thing? (Get it on paper, so you aren't taken advantage of!)
If you have a friend who is a real estate agent, they might have some ideas.
Or - perhaps there is someone else in your situation....does the roommate idea appeal? You could help each other out.
Just some thoughts
Glad you aren't feeling so down...hugs!
Catty1
This sounds like good news. Keep looking! There might be better alternatives. You will continue to be in my prayers.
Well..I know I'm responding kind of late but I hope that your health and money situation improve. I'm glad there may be another option for you and you can keep your babies!! My cats are my life and I'm sure you feel the same, especially having Felicia so long. I know it will work out for you, you are in my thoughts!! :)
I'll still be praying for all of you and that you can all stay together somehow. It's gotta happen!
I just saw this thread...I don't know exactly where you are in Iowa, but I'm in Iowa City. Is there anything I can do to help?
I am in Cedar Rapids. Thanks, but there is nothing you can do to help. I need to be able to go back to work or get money like Social Security. Because all the money I had saved is just about gone.Quote:
Originally Posted by Pembroke_Corgi