"So, when are you due?"

I am so sorry to hear this happened to you. Also I am sorry that your husband wasn't as supportive as you would have liked him to be. TONS of hugs coming your way..... I am overweight as well but I know that I am still pretty, although I would like to be thinner. I never show that my weight bothers me but once I heard someone call me "big" and I just burst into tears. Anyway, I hope you feel super better soon!!!

people need to learn NOT to ask that question!!

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((hugs to you))

I did that to a lady when I was around 18. I was stupid and felt about as horrible as a person could feel when the lady told me she wasn't pregnant. I have never asked the question again.

(((HUGS))) :(

I KNOW how that question can make you feel - it has happened to me on several occasions, and my response was always "I'm not pregnant - I'm just fat" whilst trying to look like I'm not upset, but I ALWAYS cried for hours afterwards.

Of course now that I AM pregnant I am sure that people will be making comments about my due date - and assuming I am further along than I am - I am going to try not to get too upset!

Some people can be so thoughtless and stupid at times - try not to let her remark get to you.......she may be feeling even worse about it than you do ;)

"That" question and "cheer up it may never happen" should never, ever be used. I was on the end of the "cheer up" one just two days after my Dad died.......my reply cannot be repeated here!

Hope you have a really good day today :D :D

I am so sorry that your entire day was crappy. Why does everything always happen at the same time??

As for the pregnant comment, get this one! I walked into a hospital emergency room one desperately sick and the first person to greet me asked if I was in labor. :eek: But realizing that I AM indeed fat, I just let it slide and said no.

Here's hoping for a better tomorrow!