Megan, I just found this thread and now have more understanding about the one I responded to earlier. :( :(
Are you living with your mom or your dad at this point? I guess I'm asking who has the custodial rights. It sounds like you and your brother would be better off under your dad's roof 100% of the time, just finding a way to get where you need to get, than to endure the stresses of staying with your mom. I know that divorce is complicated and luckily, my daughter's dad and I have always been able to work together for her benefit, although I am the custodial parent and he lives in another town.
I just wish there was some peace for you, somewhere. I'm glad your sister is there to at least help some.
Logan
