This is crazy. He's never met you and already saying he misses you. What a creep. I would definitely not meet him. Let us know the outcome!
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This is crazy. He's never met you and already saying he misses you. What a creep. I would definitely not meet him. Let us know the outcome!
It sounds scary to me. I certainly would not meet him and I think it is time you told him that you do not like the approach. He may be harmless and just lonely, but I wouldn't want to find out. Let us know how things go. Please BE CAREFUL!! He doesn't know where you live does he?
I would ditch this man very quickly. He sounds like a nut case.
Run from him.
Wow.
SAS
Thanks for your concern everyone. No, he doesn't know where I live. I talked to my friend Kara yesterday about it. She's the one who gave me his number.
She feels VERY bad about his behavior. He usually comes into her flower shop on Mondays. She's going to tell him not to call me anymore, that he got his advice on the kittens and to leave me alone. I told her it's not HER fault he's acting like such a whacko.
Carole,
I'm awake!! :eek: Davidp is a wonderful, caring man and I value his, and EVERYONE here's opinions. Too bad David doesn't live closer. :(
He sounds like a sad, lonely, clueless man.
He might be so clueless that he thinks he's flirting in an appropriate manner. :rolleyes:
His "technique" is pitiful and desperate. I'd be honest with him and tell him that his comments are inappropriate and worrisome. I wouldn't be alone with him. If you do decide to meet him, I'd do it in a group setting. Don't invite him to your house. Be careful.
Note to all men: "Do you need a man in your life?" is an awful line. No, we don't need men. But, they can be a wonderful addition to our lives.
Donna, you're not the only that wishes I were closer to Detroit!Quote:
Originally posted by moosmom
Thanks for your concern everyone. No, he doesn't know where I live. I talked to my friend Kara yesterday about it. She's the one who gave me his number.
She feels VERY bad about his behavior. He usually comes into her flower shop on Mondays. She's going to tell him not to call me anymore, that he got his advice on the kittens and to leave me alone. I told her it's not HER fault he's acting like such a whacko.
Carole,
I'm awake!! :eek: Davidp is a wonderful, caring man and I value his, and EVERYONE here's opinions. Too bad David doesn't live closer. :(
Donna,
I'm glad you're listening to your instincts...some people just don't know when to stop. :(
Be careful honey. I'm glad he doesn't know where you live. That makes me feel a bit better.
Hugs,
Kelly
He sounds like a nut case to me. I wouldn't have given him my work number at all. How can he miss you when he doesn't even know you? I would stay as far away as possible from him.
Donna and David I would not let a little geography stand in the way, hey I have been there done that, I managed a relationship from the states once, ok it did not eventually work out, but it was for the best, I mean you guy's aren't that far away in comparsion really, he he.
Glad to hear that the problem might be resolved Donna, sure sounded a bit scarey, we can't have one of our favourite PTer's in jeopardy thats for sure, take care Donna.:)
Well, he called me at work yesterday. I was VERY short with him. I told him I was very busy and please do not call me again.
Haven't heard from him since!!!
Well done, Donna! I hope you NEVER hear from that creep again!Quote:
Originally posted by moosmom
Well, he called me at work yesterday. I was VERY short with him. I told him I was very busy and please do not call me again.
Haven't heard from him since!!!
Good job! :)
:eek: What a jerk!
Geez, I've been in that situation and it is scary. But I know that you'll be direct and to the point (and it seems as if you already were ;) ) and hopefully he will get the hint.
If not, I'll drive out there and make sure he "understands" the situation!!
David, Carole, need any help lol?
We can use all the help we can get, DJF! You can come out here and "explain" it to him in words of one syllable!Quote:
Originally posted by DJFyrewolf36
:eek: What a jerk!
Geez, I've been in that situation and it is scary. But I know that you'll be direct and to the point (and it seems as if you already were ;) ) and hopefully he will get the hint.
If not, I'll drive out there and make sure he "understands" the situation!!
David, Carole, need any help lol?
LOL! I've been known to be a bit of an enforcer around here. All my friends in high school always came to me if someone was being too pushy :D I guess I'm kind of intimidating :confused:Quote:
Originally posted by david p
We can use all the help we can get, DJF! You can come out here and "explain" it to him in words of one syllable!
Is being a champion Kickboxer and Tae Kwon Do fighter scary?