Thanks! Hehe.. so I guess it's okay to make the first move.. EVENTUALLY! It isn't easy.Quote:
Originally posted by Oggyflute
I think you should just go get him mate.:) Carole virtually had to do the same thing with me.:o :rolleyes: :D
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Thanks! Hehe.. so I guess it's okay to make the first move.. EVENTUALLY! It isn't easy.Quote:
Originally posted by Oggyflute
I think you should just go get him mate.:) Carole virtually had to do the same thing with me.:o :rolleyes: :D
I say go for it!
I had a huge crush on my best guy friend, and I actually broke him and his girlfrien up. His girlfriend happened to be Emma (Dogz, sorry emma!) On the last day of school, I was just going to ask him out. But I got so nervous and I couldnt do it! My sister was like, just ask him out! Finally after me acting stupid for an hour, he asked me out, and we have been dating for over a year :)
I say go for it, just hope that he really does like you. And if you do go out, make sure you are always really close, so you dont loose a good friend. GO FOR IT GIRL! :D
Why can't you just ask him to do something you are interested in doing? It doesn't have to be a D-A-T-E. Just two people hanging out. I think it would be fun to get a group of people together and go canoeing. Something outside, group'ish, fun, and a place to talk with no real pressures....stuff like that.
I am going to tell you to NOT push it forward. There might be a reason...maybe he is just waiting for the right moment, when he feels sure?
Right now, all I am doing is just.. hanging out with him. I left a message asking him if he wanted to go to the beach with me sometime this week, because it is pretty hot/warm outside this week. :) That's just something simple, not a date, just a hanging out sort of thing.Quote:
Originally posted by Cataholic
Why can't you just ask him to do something you are interested in doing? It doesn't have to be a D-A-T-E. Just two people hanging out. I think it would be fun to get a group of people together and go canoeing. Something outside, group'ish, fun, and a place to talk with no real pressures....stuff like that.
I am going to tell you to NOT push it forward. There might be a reason...maybe he is just waiting for the right moment, when he feels sure?
Ok, Zack and I will hang out either this weekend or next week... at the beach! I'll go for it.. make the first move. So, walk on the beach, sit on the rocks, talk, if there's a silence moment... then it's time for me to make my move, give him a kiss on the cheek or something like that, to thank him for hanging out with me, or say something funny about how people thought we looked like a serious couple at my friend's get-together (my friend did actually say that.. ) and another girl thought Zack was my boyfriend/asked if we were dating.
So My friend Andy has given me a push, by telling me this - "Some guys (myself included), but not many, might find themselves really respecting a girl and wanting to keep her, so they purposely keep the pressure off until the girl does something to show she wants it." Andy is such a good friend of mine.. :) And he also showed me this quote:
"Have you ever loved someone and they had absolutely no idea whatsoever? Or fell for youur best friend in the entire world, and then sat around and watched him/her fall for someone else? Have you ever denied your feelings for someone because your fear of rejection was too hard to handle? We tell lies when we are afraid.... afraid of what we don't know, afraid ofwhat others will think, afraid of what will be found out about us. But every time we tell a lie...the thing we fear grows stronger. Have you ever noticed that the worst way to miss someone is when they are right beside you and yet you can never have them...when the moment you can't feel them under your fingertips you miss them? Have you ever wondered which hurts the most; saying something and wishing you had not, or saying nothing and wishing you had? I guess the most important things are the hardest things to say. Don't be afraid to tell someone you love them. If you do, they might break your heart ...but if you don't, you might break theirs. Have you ever decided not to become a couple because you were so afraid of losing what you already had with that person? Your heart decides who it likes and who it doesn't. You can't tell your heart what to do. It does it on its own... when you least suspect it, or even when you don't want it to. Have you ever wanted to love someone with everything you had, but that other person was too afraid to let you? Too many of us stay walled because we are too afraid to care too much...for fear that the other person does not care as much, or that all. Life is all about risks and it requires you to jump. Don't be a person who has to look back and wonder what they would have, or could have had."
While hanging out at Starbucks, I actually said something hilarious.. I said that I was gonna wear my bathing suit top cause it'll be quite a humid weekend and next week, and I was gonna wear a shirt over it, and I said something to him, like, "Man, I'm hot, I'm gonna take off my shirt", then I realized what I said, and my friend & I started laughing so hard. Whoops! BLONDE MOMENT THERE! :p