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We are glad that you are going to be happier, and that things have been peacefully worked out about the kitties. A divorce is never easy, or fun, but you know in your hearts if it's the right thing.
And we are glad that David does love kitties just like you, and while that's not enough to keep you married to each other, it is at least one pleasant thing you can always discuss.
We will keep all of you in our prayers.
I have told you before Kelly, that you are wise beyond your years.
You have so many friends here on Pet Talk that love you.............and we all love you because you never play games..........you present yourself and your life events exactly as they are............and we can all sense your sincerity and honesty.
That is why all of us will reach out to you now, and be there for you. You have many friends here that have had the joy of meeting you (my neighbors call you the "cute" one - and it is true!)
No matter how you cut it............divorce is no picnic..........there are days when you feel as though you are absolutely nothing.
That's when I hope you will reach out to all of us - either through email - or phone calls or whatever means suits you best. We will be there for you.
Just know that during these next months you have my support and you can ask anything of me - I would do it for you.
In the meantime, please continue to take good care of yourself...........you have health issues that are most important to deal with.
For now, please just let me send you a GIANT HUG!
I know I don't know you that well, Kelly, but I have to say I'm excited for you. I know all too well how miserable it is to be stuck in an unhappy marraige and you're getting the opportunity to have a fresh start. It's difficult, and scary, but knowing what I know about you leads me to believe that you are a very positive, strong lady who can do anything and make it through anything. You have tons of friends, your kitties and what should only remain a good relationship with your soon-to-be ex. Given the circumstances, you can't ask for much more. :)
I wish you nothing but happiness and good luck.
Dawn~
Prayers, support and love to you Kelly!
((((HUGS))))
Kim;)
Kelly, I wish you nothing but joy and happiness. You have my full support and please remember that I'll always be there for you if you need me. I'm glad that you're in such good spirits and I hope that everything works out for you. Take care.
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Oh Kelly. I'm so sorry to hear of your impending divorce, but it does feel better to see you looking at things in a positive way. I wish you the best of luck in life and lots of happiness in your life ahead. Take care. We're all here for you at this time.
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You know how much I love you Kelly so you know that what ever you need I am here for you.
Keep you're chin up, love.
I love you guys!! Thank you so much for your replies. I'm going to get through this just fine because I have amazing people like you that are there for me.
Thank you, thank you!!!
:)
wow...divorcing nicely? I'm not good at saying the best reinforcements but I just wanted you to see what I'm going to say... that you're obviously an intelligent, wise and sweet woman I'll trust whether choices you're gonna choose for your great, bright life on good and bad paths.
just a note, my ex-boyfriend and I were together for more than 2 years and we broke up nicely. after five hours of conversation. so I know it's a good feeling, better than fighting and you probably take only 3 cats :) I'm sad those three I see often on here will be gone...? take care kelly and I'll give you a hug in person. xoxxo
Oh Kelly, I am so sorry. I know it will be so hard, but once you are settled in your "new" life, you KNOW everything will be just fine.
Let us know if you need anything.
You are quite a woman, Kelly! The way you handle this delicate mather is remarkable! I feel so sorry for you because your marriage didn't work. I'm sorry because I know how sick you have been and still are. But you seem to have thought this over very well. So, I want to wish you all the luck in the world, cause you deserve that!!!
Kelly I was very sad to read this post, but then I know that you are unhappy.
We are all here for support any time you need us, and can only wish for you the best in life, you have had a tough time with your chronic illness and even through all that you have kept your spirits up, on top of that you have been dealing with so much more, I admire your courage and strength, but also know that none of it can be easy for you, HUGS Kelly and take care of yourself, and just give us a yell if ya need us ok.:)
Dear Kelly, you seem to be looking forward to a new life and that makes things so much easier. I know I struggled for years to make my previous marriage work and that was far more stressful than just letting go. There were a few hard times but it was the best thing I ever did! Surprisingly enough my divorce did remain somewhat friendly. We didn't fight over anything since we worked it out from the beginning. Since there are no children involved it should make things go a little smoother and faster. It did for me anyway.
Please know that many of us here have experienced divorce so we know and understand what you will be going through. Those who haven't still love you and want nothing more than to offer love and support.:) You are a kind, sweet soul and I know that things will work out just great for you!:D
As far as the cats that will be staying with David, we all know how much you love and adore them and wouldn't do anything that wasn't good for them. I'm sure David will continue to love and care for them.
We love you Kelly and don't forget we're here when you need us!!
Congratulations on a brand new beginning!!!:)
Kelly (((hugs))) making these types of decision are the hardest ones to make in life but sometimes they have to be made. It's good that you are keeping a good outlook on things and while it may not be easy all the time you know that we are all here for you anytime you need us.
While I have never met you in person I have come to know you through PT and you are a kind, sweet, gentle person and I wish you the very best.
Keep a positive outlook, have faith and always know that we are here for you. Congratulations on your new life. (((hugs))) --- Meg
Kelly, we will be here for you. Divorce is never fun and/or easy, but like others have said, looking forward to your new life will get you through the tough times.
I really don't know how you stay so positive will all that is going on in your life. Must have something to do with pink. ;) :D
Good luck with everything and do not hestitate to ask for help. I have no doubt David will love and adore the kitties that are going with him. After all, he was the one that talked you into Noah in the very beginning, wasn't he? ;)
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