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First off; *HUG* *HUG* *HUG* *HUG* *HUG* *HUG*
I was going to say the same thing as Val did. I also wonder if he would ask for forgiveness without AA.
I'm sorry you are having to go through the pain again because of this. Let the lawyers handle it and I hope and pray that you never hear from this guy again.
What does your hubby say about it?
It's not up to you to help this alcolholic recover. Give it to your lawer mate and have him stop contacting you.
This is what we've decieded to do. After showing Lee a copy of the letter (I turned it over to the lawyer after work last night) We've decieded to let the lawyer handle it. He has offered to write a letter to the guy telling him to never contact me again, and that should he feel the need to try and correspond with us anymore that it is all to be directed to him and not to my work. At this time we've chosen not to respond personally to his letter and may never do so, but if we do it will be us who contact him. Should he violate this request than we will have no other action than to place a PPO (Personal Protection Order) out on him.
For what it is worth, I think that's an ideal way to handle the situation. He knows you got the letter and knows that it is inappropriate for him to contact you directly again and that there will be consequences if he does.
More **hugs**
If he gets away,scott free,then he will never learn,and there ,will be more Victims! The Fellow,has,to pay,for the damage,that he caused NOOOO!