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Originally posted by Pit Chick
I know your boyfriend's brother wants to surprise his girlfriend with a pup and even if that is what she wants, she needs to be there to pick out the pup. It's going to be her dog, so she needs to choose which pup is most compatible with her. Pets are for life, not for Christmas. If that's the gift she wants, that's cool, but she needs to be prepaired, not surprised. It's still a gift if she knows about it, because he'll be paying for it. ;)
Thanks for the websites :). It's his wife, not his girlfriend and it will be his dog too. I know it's bad to give a dog as a gift, but this situation is different. My boyfriend's brother will be picking the dog based on what personality is compatible for him. His wife knows they are getting one in the near future and actually I think it's not a surprise anymore. Don't worry; there is no way this pup will need to be rehomed. It's no different than when my brother and I adopted Harley (I’m 23 and he’s 29, we are not young kids, but we both still live at home). We went to the shelter on our own and found him. I called my mom and dad and they said if we liked him we could get him. They never met him until he was home with us. I think my boyfriend's sister in law trusts her husband's decision and that's why they are doing it this way. It’s a similar situation as Robilee had when Alden gave her Tori. There have been no decisions on where they are going to get the dog from. I keep telling him everything you guys are saying, so I hope he makes the right choice. Thanks again for all the help :)