Is there anyone here that .......

Yes.

My two aunts - One in Los Angeles and the other in Canada. My aunt in L.A married a guy she had met online & she packed up all of her things and moved out west. We never hear from her except the Holidays.. I don't have a very good relationship with her, and she completely ignored me last Christmas, and I want nothing with her.. My other aunt in Canada, I get along with her, because we both have common interests - dogs & art.

I also have a lot of cousins that are enstraged that I never see anymore.

Geez...

My family likes to complain...a lot. People get P***ed off over the dumbest things. Ever since my grandfather died, my aunt refuses to talk to my grandmother (Everyone does, she is kind of looney, my grandmother I mean). I hardly ever talk to my grandma because if I do the rest of the family gets all mad :rolleyes:. Then again she DID try to shoot my SIL...long story there. When I first got married my parents had a huge problem with my husband. They refuesed to talk to me for a month or so :(.

My Husband has a big problem with his mother. She was (and still is) very abuseive to him and to me. I said "look if she wants to be civil to me and to you she can hang around but the second she gets snippy, she is out the door!" My hubby feels the same way. She really did a lot of screwed up things, and lately although they still get into really bad arguements, things are starting to be patched up.

I'm estranged from my dad. Him and my stepmom divorced, and he got a new girlfriend. He talked to me for a while, and then he just stopped talking to me. I haven't seen him since last January, and I haven't been to his house for two years. He doesn't pay child support...My mom says she is going to go after him for that, but she never does. His gf emailed me and told me that they are going to get me a birthday present...They'll probably just drop it off at my school.

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Originally posted by PJ's Mom
I'm sorry you suffer with this. :( I'm also sorry if I sounded cruel or uncaring. I know depression is a real issue and shouldn't be taken lightly.

There have been numerous instances where she has admitted to "faking it" My dad, who was recovering from back surgery at the time had to pick her up off the bathroom floor in the hospital because she faked passing out and not being able to move her legs. :rolleyes: It's things like that that make me want to have nothing more to do with her.

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Well if she is "faking it" and doing all of this you have every right to be angry with her !!!

Hugs

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Originally posted by WolfChan
Yes, my grandfather. He is a sick child molesting f*** and he is dead to me. I deal with it by having nothing to do with him. I firmly informed everyone in my family that he is completely dead to me and even when he gets out of prison I never want to hear his name ever again.

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Justin's grandfather is a child molester too. Justin wants nothing to do with him. I've never met him and don't care to. Justin for years has had nightmares and will wake up screaming because of him.

I really don't see or talk to any of my family. I haven't seen or talked to my aunts, uncles, or cousins in years.
My grandpa is a huge jerk and although I see him once a year I'd rather not. He nearly ruined my wedding by causing a scene and picking a fight with my dad. He hates my dad because my dads parents have money. After my grandma died he wrote my mom out of their will because she is married to my dad. He is constantly insulting Justin. I could go on.

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Originally posted by WolfChan
Yes, my grandfather. He is a sick child molesting f*** and he is dead to me. I deal with it by having nothing to do with him. I firmly informed everyone in my family that he is completely dead to me and even when he gets out of prison I never want to hear his name ever again.

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My husbands step dad was/is the same way. I have no disire to meet him, thats for darn sure.

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Originally posted by WolfChan
Yes, my grandfather. He is a sick child molesting f*** and he is dead to me. I deal with it by having nothing to do with him. I firmly informed everyone in my family that he is completely dead to me and even when he gets out of prison I never want to hear his name ever again.

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Well I too have lived with this......My father & mother are child molesters their selves :mad: ....so I know exacally where you are coming from !!! Why I even worry about being estranged from them is beyond me !