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Yeah that's true, I guess I took it all a different way when I first read it :oQuote:
Originally posted by Moose
That's my point...yes, some Labs are very much "to the book," but there are always those that don't quite follow the "book" exactly. That's why I was saying that you can't completely cross a breed off your list because of something you read...it all depends on the individual dog.
I haven't heard of bonding periouds, but older dogs do take a bit longer, especially if they didn't have a nice owner in the past, but they do bond with you, and depend on you and learn to love you, sometimes it may take more time, but it happens ;)Quote:
Originally posted by MariaM
THanks so much for all the advice! I had another question though. I was reading on the internet about bonding with dogs when they are like 2 months old. It was saying not to get dogs under 2 months, but not much over because there is an important bonding period there. But lots of people get older dogs from shelters and they fit right in so.... I don't know what to think. :confused:
Well I was on a website someone in my Getting a Dog thread suggested. I hadn't heard of it before but they were talking about Oprah getting her dog "too late" or something. I didn't really know what to make of it because I've heard of many happy endings from shelters and all. I wanted a younger dog anyway though =) I guess we'll see, and I'll get back to you. The shelter is 25 minutes away though, so I'll have to see when we're going in.
Dogs under 2 months should still be with their mothers...if you end up getting a dog from a breeder and he/she offers to send the puppy home with you before it hits 8 weeks, I'd turn the other direction and walk away. In my opinion, I still think 8 weeks is a little young...but hey, that's just me.Quote:
Originally posted by MariaM
THanks so much for all the advice! I had another question though. I was reading on the internet about bonding with dogs when they are like 2 months old. It was saying not to get dogs under 2 months, but not much over because there is an important bonding period there. But lots of people get older dogs from shelters and they fit right in so.... I don't know what to think. :confused:
As for the age issue and when to get a dog -- I adopted Moose when he was almost 2 years old...and I adopted Zoey a little over a month ago and she is a little over *edit* 1 [sorry, it's late here! :o] *edit* year old. With Moose, there was no problem...the "bonding issue" was a snap. Although, he's a Lab...so he's totally outgoing and affectionate toward anyone. Zoey took a little more time and we are still finding out new things about her personality everyday. She's coming out of her shell and has really started to create a close bond with both myself and my fiance.
Too late? In my opinion, there's no such thing. :) Older dogs may take a little longer to get adopted since many people are out there looking for puppies and younger dogs, but given the right owner and proper care, they can become just as great of pets as any other age dog.Quote:
Originally posted by MariaM
Well I was on a website someone in my Getting a Dog thread suggested. I hadn't heard of it before but they were talking about Oprah getting her dog "too late" or something.
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Originally posted by Moose
Dogs under 2 months should still be with their mothers...if you end up getting a dog from a breeder and he/she offers to send the puppy home with you before it hits 8 weeks, I'd turn the other direction and walk away. In my opinion, I still think 8 weeks is a little young...but hey, that's just me.
As for the age issue and when to get a dog -- I adopted Moose when he was almost 2 years old...and I adopted Zoey a little over a month ago and she is a little over 2 years old. With Moose, there was no problem...the "bonding issue" was a snap. Although, he's a Lab...so he's totally outgoing and affectionate toward anyone. Zoey took a little more time and we are still finding out new things about her personality everyday. She's coming out of her shell and has really started to create a close bond with both myself and my fiance.
:eek: Brooke I didn't know Zoey was 2 years old, I thought she was a puppy! Also my aunt and uncle may be getting a dobie, it's one of their choices, any advice :p ;)
Also I agree, dogs shouldn't be taken from their mother until 8+ weeks old!
Again, thanks everyone for helping. I will keep doing research and stuff. I really hope to get a dog! I have to go to bed though, its getting late here. talk to you all later!
Jasper's breeder said to me that she lets the puppies go at 7 weeks :eek: and 8 weeks if they have to be shipped on the plane :eek:
I think it should be 8-9 weeks and 10-12 for the plane!!
MariaM I hope you find the right dog soon :D GoodNight
:o Sorry, that was a typo...she's not, lol. She's a little over a year. [Hey, give me a break...it's late here and I should be sleeping ;)].Quote:
Originally posted by DogLover9501
:eek: Brooke I didn't know Zoey was 2 years old, I thought she was a puppy! Also my aunt and uncle may be getting a dobie, it's one of their choices, any advice :p ;)
That's so great for your aunt and uncle! Of course I have some advice, but we're still learning too! :p:D
I'm have a hard time understanding what doglover is talking about but anywayss...
I say, go to the shelter.
Go often. As often as you can. Meet the different dogs, even if they're not the breed or type you're looking for. It could be a Heinz 57 mutt, and be PERFECT for your family. I'd even say don't even look at the breed or the age(unless of course, coming from a breeder, they should be 8 weeks old.) Look at the dog itself, as an individual, it's personality.
As I said go often. Pick and chose favorites of yours, and bond with them there. Maybe volunteer so you can have closer time with the animals.
Of course, dogs will be adopted out and come in alot, don't get upset if one favorite leaves, because one will eventually come in and you'll know that it's the one. Drag your mom, and dad along. Bring everyone in your family on adoption day, if you do plan on adopting. This way no one's a stranger to the dog when it comes home.
Don't give up with your parents. Don't fight or argue over it, because that will just make them angry and you upset. Prove yourself to them, maybe try helping out with a neighbors dog, if any around.
If you can't tell, I have experience with this. It took me 10 or so years to get my first dog. 5 or so to get my second.
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Originally posted by DogLover9501
Jasper's breeder said to me that she lets the puppies go at 7 weeks :eek: and 8 weeks if they have to be shipped on the plane :eek:
I think it should be 8-9 weeks and 10-12 for the plane!!
I don't think they should go on a plane at all.
Yeah lol, I shouldn't even be thinking about what breed before I know I can *actually* get one! But still, might as well think ahead and do all the research. I might take care of my friends dog for a week in the summer, but I haven't mentioned it to my parents yet. I'm sure my mom would say "Well, lets see how that goes and then we'll see" but I was hoping to get a dog before late July. But still, a late dog is better than no dog. =) Unfortunately, I can't volunteer because it is a 25 minute drive away. And even if I *did* find a way to go, the volunteer hours are on Thursday, when I go in to Yorkton for Rythmic Gymnastics. But I'll definately keep that in mind. What if I decide to get a puppy from a breeder though? Any advice for that, just in case?
I agree to go to the shelter and look around and see who you can find. :) But remember that there is a big time process involved. My city seems to be a very dog-unfriendly place, and yet there are waiting lists on every dog in the shelter with dozens of names on each of them. It might take some time, but you just have to make the shelter believe that you are the best home for that dog that you want. :D If you do some more research and your heart is suddenly set on a dog that is virtually impossible to find in a shelter, then try researching some of the "reputable" breeders in your area or around. :)
Why not? I thought that you were one of the people trying to convince Jynnelle that it was okay for Baby's old owners ship Baby to Ontario. :confused: Anyways I don't think shipping is bad. The airlines take very good measures to ensure that the dogs are safe and they have many rules to make sure the dogs are comfortable, that the kennels are large enough for the dog to stand in and well ventilated, and that the animal cargo area is at the perfect temperature. Plus all the dog have to be vet checked before a flight and have valid proof of that so sickness is not spread.Quote:
I don't think they should go on a plane at all.
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Originally posted by wolfsoul
Why not? I thought that you were one of the people trying to convince Jynnelle that it was okay for Baby's old owners ship Baby to Ontario. :confused:
Not that I recall.
I think it's okay to ship an animal to someone they already know, but to ship an animal to somewhere they've never been with new people I think is rather cruel and probably very confusing for the dog or animal.