Remember that guy I was having problems with at work??

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Originally posted by Tonya
I swear, if they discipline me for finally standing up for myself...I'm getting a lawyer. I'm taking them down for each and every little thing that has happened to me in the past six years. I've had it.

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If they try and discipline you, I would definately get a lawyer and sue them for every penny you can get.

If you can't get him relocated/fired, would it be worth looking for another job to get away from this situation.

I used to be in a bad situation at work for a year (few years back now) and at the time I didn't think the stress got to me at all but the relief I felt when I finally left. It was like loseing a big load, I had not realised I was carrying.

I an just worrying about the amount of stress this job is putting you under. Whatever happens good luck.

It is now 7:30 PM west coast time.......a whole day has passed......I am hoping that you are alright.

Do you have any access to a Human Resources person?

I would go as high as you possibly can in discussing this.

A word of caution though, this guy sounds like a real nut case.
I would talk to all of the guys that you feel will stand by you and tell them of your concern.

You might think about making a journal of all of the events that led up to him shoving you to the ground, your reaction, and all of the things that he said in front of other people about you.

This might come in handy later.

Most of all, I hope that something is done to rectify this situation. It sounds as though you are at the breaking point.

Well, the boss will be in this morning. I'm sure asset protection, the company lawyers and all those other jerks will be there too. I'm bringing my journal and some cards that Dave has given me in the past.

BTW, Dave called me yesterday. I guess it dawned on him finally that he's in hot water. He said that we wanted to move on...that his "sense of humor got out of whack." I was up on a telephone pole in a customer's backyard (and boy does sound travel, I'll save that story for later.)...and I couldn't help it...I was practically yelling into the phone..."Your sense of humor?! Sense of humor?! You are real &@#@ hilarious! Forgiving you, now that's real funny. Piss off." I realized after I hung up that anyone could of heard...but I didn't see anyone around. whew.

I put an extra thread on it...Don't know why, not thinking straight. Both of us got suspended pending investigation.

Tonya, that really sucks!!

One witness said "I was there, but didn't hear or see anything." The other told the entire truth. My dad is a union steward at my company, but I don't use him since he's my father and all...but I just talked to him. His point of view made me feel better. He says that they can't smoke Dave without first suspending us both during the investigation process. That is simply proving that they didn't jump to conclusions, they took their time investigating before they fired him. He says I should just hold tight and keep my mouth shut; that I'll probably get my money back from my suspension. He says I should think of it as a vacation on the company's expense.

I hope that they will realize that you are not the one at fault here.You dont deserve to be treated like that.Its not really your fault that you felt like retaliating when he hit you.He shouldnt have bothered you in the first place, he knew what he was getting into. Let us know how things work out.

Fingers crossed for the best Tonya!

I hope that your Dad is right!!

As a long time union guy.....


don't talk to him or anyone else about this....
Don't take calls from co-workers and as bad as this sounds ...don't count on eyewitness accounts to bolster your arguement...

People get 'spinal disease' pretty often....



Gini

Daddy knows best.

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Not going to wish you 'good luck'...you need luck playing the lotto, this is your lively hood...

the truth will come out.

Go get em.

Thanks, all. I just took a long, hard nap. I hadn't slept well the past few nights. I feel better. Whatever happens, happens.

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Originally posted by RICHARD
As a long time union guy.....


don't talk to him or anyone else about this....
Don't take calls from co-workers and as bad as this sounds ...don't count on eyewitness accounts to bolster your arguement...

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I agree totally. I'd keep quiet to reduce rumours and any chance that he can weasel his way out of this by approaching you. I know the situation looks awful now, but this is a real chance for him to lose his job and for you to get some peace of mind (and some sleep :))

All the best, I hope it works out in your favour {{{fingers crossed}}}

Well, the boss and union steward just called me. They said that the investigation is still pending, and that I'm still suspended. They'll call me again at 4pm tomorrow. (Wednesday.)

I suggest that you take another long hard and well deserved nap today - and hopefully enjoy your time off.

I'll continue to send good "vibes" your way that this gets resolved in your favor!

Ok, the boss called me tonight. He says that I can come back to work tomorrow. We'll have a meeting and he'll let me know what they decided.

I got many calls today from my co-workers supporting me. I sure love those guys! (With an exception of one. :rolleyes: )

Please have me in your thoughts and/or prayers. I really don't want to have this turn out to be a huge escalation if I don't have to. Thank you!