Voice, mannerisms, eyes ...
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Voice, mannerisms, eyes ...
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Originally posted by Tonya
When you meet someone, what is the first thing (physical) that you notice about them? What attracts you?
Mike has a total ear fetish. All the time, I'll say a girl's pretty and Mike will go "Yeah, but her ears are hella fat."
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I've never heard of a person having a ear fetish!! Oh great, now I have to worry about how fat my ears are?? :eek: I thought I just had to worry about my waistline! ;)
The second thing I notice is their shoes. I really feel that you can tell alot about someone just by the shoes they wear. You can tell if they are an athlete, professional, trendy, not-so-vain, broke, big spender, etc...
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I hate shoe shopping! That is the ultimate nightmare for me and I do it only when I really have to. I have 4 pairs of shoes and dread the day I have to replace them!
I've never payed attention to shoes, but I do totally notice a person's eyes when I first meet them. You can tell a lot about a person, if they are lying, happy, interested etc. all by subtle movements or shifting of the eyes.
hair and there eyes :)
First thing I notice, if we're talking appearance-wise is Lips.
I love big lips. ( EX: Nelly's :) )
then, their Eyes.
then, their smile.
then, their hair.
Also, I love someone who has a unique style and a great personality.
Girls don't totally attract to me, but I guess lips is the first thing I notice. (EX: Angelina Jolie)
I just love lips. :)
But, then again, what attracts me to all people is if they have a furry friend. (the living breathing type with 4 legs.):rolleyes: :p
I notice hair first, all the time. Then usually smiles and as said, how often they use it.
Tonya, I so agree with you about the shoes. I think the same way!
I know it's kind of weird but the first thing I always notice is what they are wearing. I look to see if they have a sense of style and if so what their style is. I can't date someone if I don't like the way they dress and if I get to know a person and really start to like them, then I plan a shopping trip and teach them how to dress.
The very first thing is the eyes.
But then the voice. They have to have a voice I want to listen to or I just can't stand to be around them.
I'm the smile and eyes type.
The first thing I thought about when I saw the title of your thread is eyes. I love blue eyes, lol. I love any color eyes except for brown:p
I also like nice smiles, and they have to smile a lot too.
But eyes are the first thing I notice. But they also have to have a great personality too. I know that's not a physical thing, but its really important.
There are a couple of guys that I know who are cute and everything, but has the Worst personality.
Physically, eyes and build.
But once I start talking to a person it's their mannerisms that I notice most. Do they look me in the eye? Do they stand close enough? Do they stand too close? Are they touchy-feely?
I've been creeped out by men other women swoon over, and attracted to physically unattractive men, based on their mannerisms.
Oh - and smell! That's a big one. I get really grossed out by men who wear too much cologne, or scents I don't like. I'd rather a man didn't wear cologne. But I just love the smell of soap, shaving cream, and deodorant.
If they are breathing....
Then hair.....
A tiara is a good thing.
Shoes-
But no one wears glass slippers anymore.:confused:
The first thing I notice in guys, is their hair. I LOVE LONG HAIR!! Other than that, I don't really know!
OMG Richard, that's exactly how I picture you!Quote:
Originally posted by RICHARD
If they are breathing....
Then hair.....
A tiara is a good thing.
Shoes-
But no one wears glass slippers anymore.:confused:
Same here!Quote:
Originally posted by Kfamr
But, then again, what attracts me to all people is if they have a furry friend. (the living breathing type with 4 legs.):rolleyes: :p
I always see guys running around with their dog, or throwing a ball, and I automatically get very emotional. It's unexplainable. I'm like "I want that guy!!!" Lol.
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Originally posted by wolfsoul
Same here!
I always see guys running around with their dog, or throwing a ball, and I automatically get very emotional. It's unexplainable. I'm like "I want that guy!!!" Lol.
Yeah... That and guys with little kids. I don't care if it's not theirs (i'd actually rather it not be) but the fact that they actually take the time and play with their neice/nephew/cousin/ whatever.. is so cute.
Anyways.:p
I'm an eye, smile/teeth person too.
Their is nothing more inviting than a warm friendly
smile with nice teeth.:)