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What happened was not your fault. There may have been some things you could have done differently, but blame, if there is any, should go to the people who left your kitties homeless in the first place. You are an angel. When this crisis passes, and I heartfully hope with a happy resolution, then take a break, enjoy the spring and do something for yourself. Helping a rescue organization sounds like a wonderful idea.
Purrs are coming your way.
Two years ago I was overwhelmed with fosters (I had ten plus my own.) Now I make it a rule not to take more than one litter of kittens and one socialization project at a time. If I have too many and they get sick, it's not really helping. It's better to do what you can and do it well.
Good luck and hugz.
Thank you all for your support and great advice!
Yes, I can clearly see now that I jumped in way too "gung - ho"!!!
I should have started with one litter or a couple of adults and waited until they were placed. I just was so excited and anxious to make a difference, that I just couldn't say to no to anyone!!! :rolleyes: Well, I have certainly learned my lesson now... and I truly appreciate all the great advice!
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I believe everything in life teaches us a lesson, one way or another. See this as a learning experience, and keep moving forward. Someone mentioned about volunteering with a rescue organization. This seems like an excellent idea, and will give you the experience at a slower, less overwhelming pace.
Keep your chin up and don't let this one event prevent you from positively contributing to the world around you !!
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Sometimes Kim , tese things do happen . I have not had sick cats , but I have had many times when they dont like each other , fight and there are spots in my house where the Toms have sprayed , even after they are neutered. But dont give up .because if we dont stop and care , Who Will!
I'm not giving up... but I am definitely going to take a big SLOW DOWN! ;)
Need to place most of the ones I have now before taking any more in ... and then I think it will be ONE at a time!
Thanks for all the support!:)
It's great to hear you are going to continue. Please keep us updated on the fosters you have now and post on your new ones when they arrive. I think you are doing great!