Dandy sleeps with us sometimes, and others... well,i don't know where she sleeps, b/c i am sleeping, hehehe :) We have a white goose down comforter and Dandy is about as white as they come...so the nights she does sleep with us, my husband is always thinking that he is crushing her or rolling over on her, b/c she blends right in and is so petite...
She is quite the loud purrer, so when she hops into bed...we usually hear her :)
Robyn