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friend had an idea and I want y'alls opinion. She suggested that I resign this current position effective at the end of the current school term. The NEA rep was already suggesting alternatives and what to say to prospective employers. We wil play up the allergy issue and gluten (it's taking time to adjust.)
So do you think I should resign now with effective date at end of year? It ight get him off my back.
Sounds like a good idea, and will give everyone time to adjust.Quote:
Originally Posted by mrspunkysmom
Sounds like the best idea to me.
Personally, I would talk with an attorney before submitting any resignation. What's to keep them from terminating you now - thus saving themselves the money you are owed?
I would just make sure that you check out every detail before taking this step.
I have a contract, so short of stealing money, doing drugs, or abusing a child in one of many forms, the job is mine for a year.
What the evil boss is trying to do is make me look imcompetent so not only will my contract not be renewed the next year, I won't be employable in other districts.
This is ore about poor sportsmanship and not directed at me specifically. I, however, am the recipient this year. Next year it will be the other one that is past retirement.
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Originally Posted by Grace
yeah my friends had a good idea. And I wil check out th details. The union rep is not for it. I'm not sure why.
It seems that everyone has their agenda and I am not sure that my needs are on anyone's agenda but my own.
Now that I have heard back, just a phone call message asking me to call the asst superintendant, the union rep seems to have abandoned me. I've sworn all along that she has her own agenda.
It was just a voice mail. I've been waiting on it and now I have wussed out. I'm afraid to talk on the phone. What is wrong with me?
South Carolina is a right-to-work state and doesn't recognize unions. Most of the districts allow a teacher to have a representative in such meetings. Greenville does not.
I am not sure where to go from here. I do know that if I am subjected to the continual harrassment I might have another meltdown and this one might be in front of the students. I am wondering when I do meet with this gentleman if I shouldn't just put it that plainly.
Seeing the pshrink is the right move for many reasons. Someone wrote that they could see I was headed for a meltdown and they were right.
I am feeling a lot better and catching up on missed sleep. I am sleeping better. I wonder how much the knock on the head played this latest mood. For some reason, I am seeing Dorothy in her bed with a cold towel on her head with the gang all around her.
Later, and thanks for your support and belief in me.
I think you did the right thing going to a shrink. That is also documentation in a harassment situation. Make sure you take care of yourself, Anne. As far as using up your vacation time till the end of the year, I'd say either do that or take a medical leave of absence. I'm sure your doctor would help you with a note.
You are in my thoughts and prayers. There's nothing worse than being forced to go to work everyday in a place where you're miserable. Trust me, I TOTALLY get it.
:love::love: and hugs,
Donna and fur crew
We're always here to listen and very glad you're getting help with this. Prayers.
That's what I'm doing. Using Sick Leave. But the doctor has to sign forms, and he's being a jerk. I've been thinking about looking for a new doctor for a while anyway. Even the Nurse practioner for the pshrink looked at me like I was shamming so I am wondering what my doctor said to her. I see a counselor next week, so we shall see.Quote:
Originally Posted by moosmom
My docs overdosed me on antihistamines, lowered my thyroid intake, and almost didn't consider the amlodipine as a cause of hives. I had to make some decisions myself. One of my doctor's chewed me out during a panic attack. I was adjusting my meds to find out what I was allergic to. These guys weren't helping and kept piling meds on me. He's lucky he made me mad. What if I had really flipped?
I think I've figured it out. STRESS, wheat/gluten/starches/yeast, amlodipine, and loratidine.
I keep getting skeepy during the day.
I do hurt so bad today. Must be that fall. Yikes!
Thanks for listening.
Take care of yourself - which you are doing, checking out your allergies and meds.
Why can't your doc refer to you an allergist? I bet someone like that would know about med allergies and all the rest!
I just looked up amlodipine and it's a drug prescribed for angina. There are some pretty wacky side effects. Yow!
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Originally Posted by Catty1
They did, but the allergist wanted me off the antihistamines for a full week before the appt. At that time, I wouldn't have made it two days. I scheduled the appt for June but that was before I had a panic attack and took time off. I might stop the antihistamine this weekend and see what happens.
I think I've figured out what was causing the allergies for the most part. Stress is the other factor.
I'm looking for a new doctor. It may take a while.
Right now I'm just resting. I'm not sure if the fatigue is the concussion or the increase in Zoloft.
Yes, you need to be off antihistamines for at least two or three days for any allergy tests to be functional. I am usually sniffly and miserable at that point, but know the results in my case are worth the effort.
I've PM'd you with my number. If you feel like talking, don't hesitate to call me. I can call you back as I have free long distance.
DO take care of yourself.
Oh my goodness. Big, big thoughts and prayers. (((HUGS)))