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No, I don't. The grudge holder is usually the one who suffers the most. I try not to be a glutton for punishment. That's not to say that I let people back into my life if they are a constant negative force. Again, not a glutton for punishment. I forgive people but don't always allow them to be a part of me anymore.
Life is WAAAAAAY to short to hold grudges. I can forgive but I cannot forget.
I unfortunately remember alot of what people say if it hurt me that much. I guess I wouldn't say I hold grudges, but I do everything in my power to try and avoid people who have hurt me in the past and so far I've been rather successful. :D
No, I do not. I'm the type of person who can get extremely angry and get into an arguement & five minutes later think "hey, this is dumb." then wind up apologizing even if I'm not the one at fault. That's probably just as bad as holding a grudge... :rolleyes:
No normally (I have bettr things to do with my energy), but there have been a few people that deserve my enmity. I work for two of them right now.
I agree with many others, holding a grudge is a waste of energy. Most of the time, the only person you're hurting is yourself.
I certainly try not to. But I don't always succeed.
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I don't hold grudges. I get mad, blow up, then it's over. :)
It depends on what happened. I dont hold a grudge for a long time UNLESS someone has really hurt me. Then I just make it my business to not see that person again... is that a grudge? Dont know but it works for me LOL.
For silly things I usually vent my anger and then I'm ok.
Holding a grudge is like renting space in your head to your ex-husband.:p
Eh. i danno. im confusing myself. LOL id like to say im a forgive an forget kind of person; but if a friend hurts me really bad,, to the point that they broke my trust then i will just stop talking to them. that a grudge?
I've been on FB too much. I started to look for a "Like" button for this post. I've never been married, but I get the reference.Quote:
Originally Posted by moosmom
I get mad, blow up, hold a grudge for a while. I try not to, though. It's hard a lot of times.