Babies for parts

If and only if they had that kid as spare parts and didn't love and cherish that child as all children deserve to be loved then the parents would be selfish and shouldn't have EITHER child. However, we don't know what goes on behind the media glamor screen so we are in no place to judge. I hope the second child is loved just as much as the first, and that the first is loved just as much as the second. You never truely know what motivates people any more.

I'm comfortable and quite sure of why I exist at least...I wish more people were as sure as I am ;) I suppose everything does happen for a reason...

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Originally Posted by DJFyrewolf36

If and only if they had that kid as spare parts and didn't love and cherish that child as all children deserve to be loved then the parents would be selfish and shouldn't have EITHER child. However, we don't know what goes on behind the media glamor screen so we are in no place to judge. I hope the second child is loved just as much as the first, and that the first is loved just as much as the second. You never truely know what motivates people any more.

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Exactly.

If the second child is produced only to save the first and then be discarded or treated as second class or loved anything other then unconditionally child, I would view it as unethical.

As long as both children come away healthy and loved, I have no problem with this practice.

We are not talking about cloning for parts harvesting.

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Originally Posted by blue

We are not talking about cloning for parts harvesting.

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Not yet anyway.........:rolleyes:


And honestly, I'd rather be here knowing that I "just happened naturally" (the way it used to be most of the time) - not planned or not a mistake or an oops. But in this day and age and the way the world has changed, planned is a matter of practicality and necessity in most instances. I just think what was done by producing this child, is very much a grey area

I am not sure I anayzed this decision when I first heard of it. Now? Having J in my life? I would do probably just about anything to keep him alive and healthy.

Many people have more than one child solely to keep the other child from being an only child. Not sure I see such a big difference. As long as the child is loved and well cared for, it's 'reason' for being doesn't have to be its 'purpose' for being.

Well fortunately there was a match, and both girls credit each other for being here on earth, so this one did have a happy ending (or beginning).
I can't help but wonder what the parents would have done if there hadn't been a match-------try-try again???
Grace - thanks for the link - I couldn't find it.

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Originally Posted by pomtzu

I can't help but wonder what the parents would have done if there hadn't been a match-------try-try again???

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Perhaps they would have. So? If they love all their children and can care for them, what difference does it make, and what business of ours?

Lots of people "try, try again" for a girl, if they have only boys. Or vice versa. My cousin had four boys, hoping for a girl. She loves all her sons dearly. I doubt any of the children feel that they were unwanted or exist for the sole reason of getting a child of the opposite sex.

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Originally Posted by Twisterdog

Perhaps they would have. So? what difference does it make, and what business of ours?

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None of my business at all - and I wasn't looking to start an argument.

As I stated previously - this is a gray area at best. IMHO!!

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Originally Posted by Twisterdog

My cousin had four boys, hoping for a girl. She loves all her sons dearly. I doubt any of the children feel that they were unwanted or exist for the sole reason of getting a child of the opposite sex.

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HAH! My SIL's sister has five boys. LOL....they stopped trying.

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Originally Posted by Cataholic

HAH! My SIL's sister has five boys. LOL....they stopped trying.

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A friend of mine growing up was one of SIX girls. 'Course back then there was no birth control and they were Catholic. And the dad didn't know that as a man gets older he is more likely to have a daughter. Something about those X chromosomes being stronger and faster :)

Your SIL's sister should have kept trying . . . . . .

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Originally Posted by Cataholic

HAH! My SIL's sister has five boys. LOL....they stopped trying.

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My dear friend at church is due mid-March to have a baby girl. She's already got two little (but growing) boys, and various people have told her "Well, now you have to have another girl, so it'll be even numbers!" After I sympathized with her a bit - she's a very petite person, so is uncomfortably large at this point - we agreed the next time someone says that, she should just ask them "Tell you what, which one of the boys do you want to take? Then we'll be 'even!'"

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Originally Posted by pomtzu

None of my business at all - and I wasn't looking to start an argument.

As I stated previously - this is a gray area at best. IMHO!!

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I wasn't arguing .... just stating MHO.

That was an interesting question because I do remember the story. Glad I read the link so we could see that everything seems to have turned out okay. But I remember at the time there was a lot of talk and controversy about it. I really don't know how I feel about the whole thing, hard to say unless you're in the middle of it yourself I guess. Makes a bit more sense than that mom having those octuplets though. And if the parents made the child feel cherished and loved she might even feel happy to have saved her sister's
life. When I think of all the parents just having babies for no purpose and then not caring for them, giving them up, abusing them..etc. then I have to ask myself which parent did the right thing?
It will always remain a grey area for us, hard unless we know them personally I guess.

I have not read all the posts here, but i agree with you Twisterdog, personally i see that this child is still conceived by two loving parents,and to me wow knowing i was born with the purpose of saving my sibling would be such an honour, i would feel very special, and i am sure this child is loved just as much as her sibling anyhow, this is just m viewpoint, i honestly see nothing wrong with it and it is their business.

I think that it's just qhiskers that Salma Hayek has taken the 'Extra Breast' idea to the streets!:confused:d:eek::rolleyes:

I for one think the parents did the right thing. The outcome for both
siblings appears to be a positive thing. There is a trend now to save
embryonic fluid or blood from births just in case it is later needed for reasons like those prompting these parents to have another child.

I know that just last week my Koko was a blood donor for my Sons dog
Desi. Desi would have died around Wednesday, from rat poisoning, if not for Koko being a donor. If saving Desi had been dependent on me finding another donor I would not have hesitated at adopting another dog from rescue. This adoptee would been much loved also. We will usually do anything for our loved ones be it child or pet.