Originally Posted by
Marigold2
Sounds like you live in the wild west or Dodge City.
Chances are you will never use your guns to protect yourself against home invaders or a person shooting at you.
What you need to truly worry about if you want to protect your daughter is
drunk drivers hitting your car when you are returning from grocery shopping
a school mate calling her fat, ugly, stupid.
a best friend not inviting her to a party
a teacher not liking her
finding out she has a learning disability that will cause her to need special classes or treatment
cancer
a boyfriend breaking her heart
breaking her leg on the night of her senior prom
not being good at dodgeball
having problems reading or doing math
an allegery to an unknown food
a bad cold that won't go away
or going over to a friends house and being given drugs
having a classmate show off dad's new gun
another girl being mean to her, just because she can
This and a million other things parents worry about as their child grows older. If you ask other members of PT who have been parents for a while these are the things that hurt children. Having a gun does not protect against any of these.
My daughter went to a friends house and the numbnut was cleaning his gun right in front of the girls and his infant daughter, she never went back there.
What scared me was people who didn't lock up their guns. People that didn't teach their kids to stay away from them. Many 14 year olds just have to show their friends the guns because heck it's cool. That is what you should fear as well.
And just because someone takes gun safety classes doesn't mean he won't go out drinking, get incredibly drunk pull the gun on his wife or child because they got into a fight. Happens all the time. No matter how many gun safety classes a person takes, human nature comes into play and people are shot over and over and over by family members.
Did we have guns in the house, yup my dad was a cop. Do I own a gun, yes. But being raised by a cop I know the dangers all too well. You are much more likely to be killed by your own gun then protecting your home or family. Unless you have training all the time, not target practice but defense training hitting a target is very difficult, most people freeze and in that moment the bad guy takes the gun or hits you over the head or whatever. Rare is the person who stays calm enough to fire a straight shot.
So even though I believe in the right to bare arms, I also think 99% of people shouldn't have one.