The countdown begins...

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Originally Posted by ILoveMyAbbyGirl

I've taken what everyone's said to heart, to some extent.

On the way to work, I kept going, "Two days. Two days." Then I thought of you guys, and said to myself, "You're better than that."

And it worked. Everytime I thought of him, I'd go, "You're better than this, knock it off." And it was a relatively good day, despite the fact that most of my dogs were naughty at work. :p

I know. I know, I know, I know. I'll say it; you're all right.

I'm consumed. I don't want him, I want to feel needed. I just need time. Time heals all wounds, right?

You're right, you're right, YOU'RE RIGHT! Pet Talk is always right. :p

I do have to admit, I'm curious to see what happens with the hearing. All I want to know is the outcome -- that's it. And if he gets out, I promise ALL OF YOU that I won't see him.

I'm better than that.


Thanks for opening my eyes. Hopefully it lasts.

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I just want to give you a big hug. I hope you choose YOU over him. You will be saving yourself a lot of pain in the long run.

I guess what I've been trying to say is that if you had more going on in your life, you wouldn't be consumed by him. If you were busy with school, work, friends, family, pets, volunteering, etc. you wouldn't be fixated on him. I'm so busy that I don't even know what day it is half the time.

Unfortunately, I think you're going stay in contact with him. I hope I'm wrong.

I hope you're wrong too.

I really don't know what's going to happen. Hell, maybe he won't even WANT to talk to me. That'd be wonderful, on my part.

Just keep me going. Reiterate, bash me, send attack dogs after me, do whatever it takes to keep me in this mindset. I'm doing better now, let's keep it this way.

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Originally Posted by ILoveMyAbbyGirl

I hope you're wrong too.

I really don't know what's going to happen. Hell, maybe he won't even WANT to talk to me. That'd be wonderful, on my part.

Just keep me going. Reiterate, bash me, send attack dogs after me, do whatever it takes to keep me in this mindset. I'm doing better now, let's keep it this way.

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The more important question is, why would you WANT to talk to him? Have some dignity.

I didn't really say that. I just meant that maybe he won't want anything to do with me after this, which would be a good thing.

It will be good, if YOU don't want anything to do with HIM. ;)

Just thought I would let you all know Jami was released from jail a couple days ago. I got the phone call and nearly died.

The judge said Jami simply "made a mistake" and let him go.

I'm sorry, but how much sh** does this jerk have to get into for them to get him put away??? Just because I'm 19 and not 16 or something makes it OKAY?


I'm outraged, irritated, pissed off, and mostly terrified. He hasn't tried contacting me yet, thank god. It's coming though, I know it is. He's stupid like that.


*sigh*

Stay safe, sweetie. If you don't have caller id, let the answering machine answer the phone for the next few days, just to be safe. Try to keep your days busy, and remember all the reasons never to contact him again, okay?

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I don't know. I know that if he does get released, I might slip back into my old ways... visiting him, etc. I won't date him again, I promise I won't -- but I just don't know what I'll do if he does get released.

Anyway. The countdown begins. QUOTE]



Show me your friends and I'll show you your future.

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Originally Posted by ILoveMyAbbyGirl

...He hasn't tried contacting me yet, thank god. It's coming though, I know it is. He's stupid like that.

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Yeah, but you don't have to talk to him 'cuz you're smart like that. Right?

Don't answer when he calls. You're under no obligation. If you do talk to him, make it clear that he is never to contact you again. Don't play the victim. Take control of the situation!

So far so good. I don't plan on answering the phone at all, don't get me wrong. I'm just worried. I don't want to see him, I don't want to talk to him, I don't want to hear about him.


The end. :)

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Originally Posted by ILoveMyAbbyGirl

So far so good. I don't plan on answering the phone at all, don't get me wrong. I'm just worried. I don't want to see him, I don't want to talk to him, I don't want to hear about him.


The end. :)

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Excellent. Keep moving forward, and don't bother looking back!

Good Girl for listening, keep that thinking going on in your head, don't let your emotions rule your head, you are a smart girl, with a lot to offer, don't waste it on this guy, YOU do deserve much better than that, keep telling yourself that, you can well do without all the drama in your life, turn to peace, serenity and love and enjoy your life,you don't need all this going on, you should be out there having fun with your girlfriends,just enjoying what good things life has to offer.


Kick him to the Kerb for good Megan and move on darling,and don't let your life become so complicated, take all the advice you have been given, let it sink in and if you really need some counselling, then go and have some,but most importantly STAY AWAY, love you sweetie.:love::love::love: