I do hope she is ok for sure. Abusive situations are no good for a multitude of reasons, and sadly she could not be posting for a multiude of reasons. Gayle, I do hope things are going better for you and you found a solution that works and is healthy for everyone involved. Please, if you need help your PT friends are here for you. Even if you can't reply for some reason, do know you are not alone in this!
*HUGS* from Oregon