This post makes me incredibly sad. :( I do not remember if there have been posts on this situation before or not, but...wow. Marriage is a relationship that is based on LOVE, MERCY...you husband is supposed to be your COMFORT, not your BEATER!!! Seriously. Please don't remain married to a man who is so abusive towards you. :( If he has hurt you to the point of bruising and injuring you, its time to say goodbye. No one has the right to hurt anyone like that, ESPECIALLY not a husband to his wife. :( Like I said, Marriage is love, mercy, comfort, and if your marriage is abuse, it is not marriage at all. You'll be better off without someone who beats you like that.