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I also read your thread in dog general and I'm glad that you're also considering adopting a cat.:) I now have 4 males and 2 females and from my experinece the males are more of the lovebug type than my females. I also agree that adopting a slightly older cat is a great idea because then you really know what their personality will be like. My cat Sky is my kitty dog and he was about 1 when I adopted him but I already knew that he was a very outgoing cat and that he loved people before I even brought him home. He's a Norwegian Forest Cat/Siamese Mix.
All of my cats are rescues but if for some reason you'd like a purebred cat then the Maine Coons and Norwegian Forest Cats are often considered very dog like if this is what you're looking for. Most Siamese cats are also very friendly and will form strong bonds with their owners. I would recommend that you look at petfinder or a local rescue group or humane society. They can usually help you find exactly what you're looking for. Good luck.:)
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I also agree with the older cats since it's much easier to see their personalities and behaviours. Go to a local rescue or contact a cat rescue in your area and discuss your living situation with them. They will know their cats and can find one that fits your home.
Also, if you want to find a specific breed of cat you can contact local breeders. Many times they will retire a cat from breeding and need a home for them usually at a reduced cost as well. To understand the basic breed descriptions, you can read about them here: Cat Breeds
I've had rescue cats growing up and last year lost my heart cat, Nakita who was a purebred Russian Blue. I would never tell someone to take one cat over another. The best cat for you is one you fall in love with and will take care of throughout its life. Also, I couldn't tell you that males are more lovable than females since each cat is so unique and I've had very lovable cats from each gender.
I just added two cats from a local rescue to my house, a 2 year old female named Gigi and a 7 month old make named Steve. I was originally looking to only adopt Steve but knew it wouldn't be fair to leave him home alone when we were gone to work. So the two cats keep each other company when we're gone and it's very entertaining watching the two of them interact.
Good luck on your search and feel free to ask any questions!! :)
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I've lived with cats throughout most of my life and have found them to be a wonderful friend and companion. Each one is unique and differs in personality. I agree with Kass - look for a kitty that you fall in love with and falls in love with you.
Knowing if your kitty will be an affectionate lap kitty is not always a certainty. All of my kitties have been affectionate but not necessarily lap cats. When Eve (a rescue) was with her previous humans, she would not let them pick her up and was anything but affectionate. However, with us she is the ultimate cuddle buddy, always looking for hugs and snuggles and frequently found snuggled up in daddy's lap :D . She waits for me to go to bed at night and instantly curls up and leans into to me for cuddles. She also picked us to be her purrents - ran away from her previous owners and parked herself on our doorstep until we took her in and kept her.
The interesting part of this story is that her previous owners adopted Eve along with her baby. They still have her baby, Bella and Bella is completely bonded to her humans. Cats are a mystery and are often known to make their own choices. I believe the best situation is one in which your kitty picks you as Eve did with us. She is just the sweetest baby girl and we are so lucky to have her in our lives.
My best advice would be to take your time and visit local rescues and shelters. There are so many kitties looking for someone to love and you are certain to find one that steals your heart.
Good luck with your search and don't hesitate to ask questions or look for assistance, when confused. A kitty in your life will enrich your time; love the one that picks you and you will experience a wonderful thing :)
