I have had good experience with Paxil and its cousins....Lexapro, Celexa.
There are different "families" of SSRIs out there.
I think anyone should be free to try a completely different one if you need to. Doctors make educated guesses - they are the experts, but you are the boss. You know how you feel and don't feel.
Communication! That's the ticket. Jen - maybe you just need a low dose of the Paxil type?