same here. sorry.Quote:
Originally Posted by wolf_Q
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same here. sorry.Quote:
Originally Posted by wolf_Q
yep. :( http://petoftheday.com/talk/showthread.php?t=110708Quote:
Originally Posted by Roxyluvsme13
After just rehoming Charlie for reasons, I don't think you need another dog currently. You have done the best for Charlie, but I think it's just kind of like "replacing" if you get another dog so soon. Sorry.=/Quote:
Originally Posted by luvofallhorses
I would really wait and let her adjust, I've heard it can take months for a dog to properly settle down into a new home and show its real side so I would wait and maybe just settle for playdates as said before :)
I had no idea you rehomed Charlie. While I don't understand why, or necessarily agree with it, hopefully he is happy now and in a forever home. I suppose it's confused a lot of people to still see him in your signature.
As for you getting another dog, I strongly suggest you don't. It sounds as if you could not handle Charlie.. who knows how you would be with two dogs, and if the next dog will be just like Charlie.
Also, you said you got her to show her teeth? It sounds as if you were excited about that, but it's not something I would allow or "get" her to do. It could be her way of telling you off/that something is bothering her.
My thoughts exactly.Quote:
Originally Posted by wolf_Q
Personally,i dont think you should.But maybe you should find some playdates for her. :)
Her showing her teeth reminded me of puppy play. She wasn't growling or anything.
I rehomed Charlie more than because of his energy. I felt he deserved a more active lifestyle family.
He loved training and going for runs and stuff I couldn't do. He needed a job to do. I have a largeyard, but he needed more than just a yard.
The family he is with now takes him for 5am runs and night walks and her sister is an agility trainer. He was very dominant and I couldn't keep at top of it. It was mostly due to his breed, being neutered at an older age where he had the habbits.
Although I did get quite far with him. He has come a long way
True.. he was happy here. But my depression made me think I wasn't good enough for such a good dog.
When I first got him he was 20 lbs under weight due to being at a rescue. tape, whip worm and coccidia. He was taking our food from our plates while in our posession, potty inside, wasn't crate trained, didn't know any basic commands. I taught him everything he knows.
He just needed more.
I don';t know why I'm saying all this again. It was the right thing to do.
I now have a calm, laid back non dominant sweetie. IF I say IF I decided to get another. Of course it wouldn't be right now, but later if everything I was doing wasn't working. I would look for a more energenic yet not hyper, non dominant, non-working type dog. Something small or med size.
I do Miss Charlie very much and theres not a day that goes by where I don't think of him. I made the decision on a very low day, even though it was the right thing to do. I still feel guilty. I know he's happier there. I know he was happy here. I felt he would be happier there.
Personally I feel that you need to work on your depression first. Two dogs is very stressful. I usually have two or three dogs at a time in my household and I can't even believe the stress of just one more dog. I think that before you make any decisions, you need to get more help for you depression, because I've dealt with it and I know how it feels, and I know that someone in a depressed state can not only make poor decisions, but also can't make a commitment.
Swimming is the best thing for hip dysplasia. Lots and lots of swimming. It supports the weight while the dog exercises, and uses almost every muscle in the body. Swimming in warm water is best, so if that's possible, tkae great advatage of it, but if it's not, the lake is good enough.
Shark cartilage is supposed to be more effective than glucoasmine. I use both. Seropeptase is awesome, and it has no side effects. Marine oil is also great for lubricating the joints. I use seal oil, I've heard alot of good about it. Be careful with cod liver oil, too much can cause Vitmin A toxitity. Devil's Claw is another good one, and chondroitin.
Actually most cases of HD are not severe enough where you can actually tell just by looking. I've seen dogs that look perfectly normal whose OFA papers came back saying the dog is dysplastic. Most times health registry papers come back like that, the owner is shocked. It's why hip testing is so important before breeding, you never know if the dog is dysplastic, most times it is mild and only in one hip.Quote:
Originally Posted by Lori Jordan
I wonder if I can even get her into water lol. How would I get her in? Where would I look for a place for her to swim? There is a lake near by, I can take her there. It is summer and hot still here, somaybe the water is still warm?
But where would I find warm water for her to swim in?
Can I find this Shark cartilage in a store? or do I need to buy online?
She's a good dog for a depressive person I tell ya. She makes me feel special. She's a real mommas girl. We sit on the rocking recliner or couch and she's lay her head or curl up on me. She's a snuggler.
I just want to do whats best for her. I do think she fits here. She's perfect. I just wish she wasn't in pain. But that's no reason to give her up. I'm wondering if that's why she was givin up in the first place.
ONe lady gave her back because she wouldnt jog with her. I wonder why!!
My depression is actually getting better. I do have a few bad days if I didn't sleep well one night. I am on meds. I'm actually starting to get bored and I'm actually cleaning house again. My daughter will be starting at a childs learning center next month too, so I will have time to myself to regroup. Things are getting better. Slowly, but they are. :D
It sounds like Runner still needs to get used to your family. It can be 6 months or more before some dogs are willing to "play". This doesn't mean you can't try; just don't be disappointed if she isn't into it.
If she is in pain from her hips, she's sure to be reluctant to play. Others here have given you good advice on what to use. It sounds like a raw diet might be a good idea. I personally would be afraid to try that, only because I'm not educated enough to know how to do it right.
Play dates sound like the best solution for now. Maybe classes to give her more exposure to other dogs.