{{{HUGS AND PRAYERS}}} from me too!
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{{{HUGS AND PRAYERS}}} from me too!
Jess, I am so sorry. Please don't let this break your spirit. You are a wonderfully caring, capable and talented person. No, I don't know you personally but these characteristics have become so evident in your posts, I cannot help but state them. You must retain faith in the fact that you are worthy of love, affection, and respect as a partner. Of course you are shattered to have your husband not feel that he has in you a soulmate, and I realize that today is a day to grieve that loss. But as you do, please remember that life is still good and one day you will know your place in the new scheme of things and be happy again.
Your words, thoughts and prayers mean more to me than I can put into words. They truly do.. they give me strength and comfort, they make me feel less alone.
Dorothy, this is not a mutual decision, it is his. I have done all I could to try and stick things through, to make things better. It's not about finances, or any of those things. We don't fight, we get along fine. He just does not love me anymore. That's the long and short of it. He's lost his feeling for me. It's a pain beyond any describing, a loss that leaves me reeling with fears and insecurities and self doubt. My mind flooded with memories of all we've been through, all the laughter and tears together.. As a good friend said to me, it's really just more than I can wrap my mind around right now. I have faith there will be light at the end, but for now, I am in the darkest part of this tunnel.
Oh Jess, I'm so sorry to hear that. I don't know what else to tell you besides how sorry I am and that if you need to vent, I'm here.
Hugs to you.
Oh dear Jess my heart goes out to you right now , i can only imagine the pain you feel and heartache, i wish there was something i could say or do to make you feel better, just know you have a ton of support and love right here on PT, but i know that does not help where you are right now.,maybe your hubby just needs some time out, a separation for a while to sort out his true feelings, he may well think he is no longer in love, but until he looses what he thinks he has, he might feel differently, i don't know him , so i am only hoping this might be the situation, the old saying" you never realise what you had until you lost it comes to mind",sweetie i am so sorry for your pain, and send you a big hug,and i really hope you can get through all of this, somehow.
Of course, you may. Prayers and thoughts on the way for you.(((HUGS))) and prayers on the way for you, Jess.
You've already heard from me and you know I'm right here for you, Jess.
Anytime, anything.........all you have to do is ask.
I've been through this, in a different way, but I've been through it.
Love,
Logan
I know this must be impossibly hard for you to bear. I know how much you've struggled with this. Please don't let it tear you down. I'm going to call you but will wait until tomorrow as it's a little late for most people now. I hope you still have my number. Call me tonight if you need to. I'll be up until around 11. I've had a broken heart before but I know it's nothing like what you're feeling, as my marriages were never happy ones. Let us all be strong for you and you can get through this, ok? Hug Tasha and Tommy and let them catch your tears.
Jess,
Please know that even though I am far away, my thoughts and prayers are with you, always.
You must always remember ONE thing, This is HIS decision, not yours, and as hard as that is, remember YOU are the one who is so very very special, who never changed, who never wavered.
YOU are the person we all love and care for, and always will be.
I hope what I am saying makes sense.
{{{hugs}}} across the miles.
Certainly, you will be in my prayers, Jess. Know, sweetie, that you are loved. That you are treasured. And not just by the furred, feathered and finned ones, but by we skin-folks as well.
Oh Jess, my heart is hurting so bad right now for you. Dear lady, I too, know what you've been through and you know I've been through the same. I had so hoped it would all get better and the feelings that he had would disappear and things would return to the life you have shared and enjoyed. What can I say or do to make you feel better? I know how much pain you're going through. It seems almost impossible to make it through another day or night. I know this all too well. I'm here for you as always. Please PM me anytime. If you need anything, all you have to do is ask and it's done. Like Kari, I'm angry too but I know that down the line, he'll realize what he's lost and he'll regret it more than he can imagine right now. I love you dearly Jess. The only thing I can do right now is to request some kisses to Tommy and Tasha from me because I know that will help a wee bit to cheer you up. (((((HUGS)))))
dear jess, i am so sorry. i can recall how much it hurts to have had my beloved tell me it was over. the pain is almost unbearable, and the nights too,too long. *hugs* i'm an early riser, you can PM me almost any am after 5:30 to talk.
Jess...I haven't posted to you much, and don't know you as well as I would like...but I know what it's like, too, when someone I love just loses the feeling...
Just know that, in spite of that, you ARE loveable, totally loveable - ALL the love in the world you have here!
HUGS AND PRAYERS
Catty1
I'm very sorry to hear that you are going through such a difficult time...I wish I had something more to say, but I'm sincerely sorry that things seem so bleak right now. I hope that in the end things work out for the best. :(
*****HUGS***** I am so, so sorry that you have to go through something like this. I have never been divorced but I am married so I can only fathom what you are going through. Please, even though I don't know very many people on here, PM me if you need anything.