Some thoughts... (and "special bond" pics)

Many, many (((hugs))) coming your way from me, Tabitha, and Sasha! We hope that all works out for you. Work can be so overwhelming at times! And I understand what you are saying about being concerned about what woudl happen if you lost your job, as I am alone myslef and have no one to help with expenses should something happen.

But the power of PT prayers is strong and amazing! I am sending up soem prayers and to you well wishes and good thoughts!

Keep the faith, and love on those girls! The pictures of you and Luna and adorable!

Thanks everyone, but it looks like there's no happy ending here. Things have gone from bad to worse today; the way I've been treated was so humiliating, and now I'm sitting here at home and I think I'm going mad. I cannot breathe anymore, I'm totally paralized.

Kirsten

Kirsten, I'm so sorry you're going through such a rough time. :( Have you looked around for another job....even if it's part time to start? I know it's hard to be positive when things are looking so bleak, but I know that hard times are always followed by the proverbial rainbow....if we can just make it through those hard times to see it. {{{hugs}}}

iF YOU CAN GET SOMEONE TO TESTIFY ON YOUR BEHALF, THEN MAYBE YOU COULD LEAVE AND COLLECT DAMAGES.
THERES NO WAY THAT YOU SHOULD HAVE TO TAKE THAT NONSESNSE.
THE CATS AND I ARE PRAYING FOR YOU KIRSTEN, TO FIND A PLACE WHERE THEY WILL SHOW YOU SOME RESPECT.

Thanks! :)

Gary, your mother must have been a wise and wonderful person!

Kirsten

Oh Kristen! I'm so sorry that things at work are not going well for you, hopefully it will pass quickly.

I know I'm late, but Happy Gotcha Day to Luna!! :D

Very nice pictures of you and Luna. You need to post more pictures!! I just love looking at all the PT - fluffy ones!

Hi Kirsten,
You have many friends here being with you ;)
http://i22.photobucket.com/albums/b3...9/IMG_2036.jpg

(((((Hugs)))))

I can only offer you long distance hugs, and tell you that I have always found you to be such a strong, positive, and caring person. I **need** to believe that somehow, you will come through this. You have so much talent, so much love to share, and it has got to shine through. Kirsten, I am holding you tight in my prayers. If there is ANYTHING I can do, as lame as that sounds, please let me know.

Fondly,
Johanna

So sorry you are feeling so depressed. I know so well how having a bad job can make life miserable - I am stuck in one. I cannot afford to quit because I have to be able to pay household bills. I love the pictures of Luna with her eyes closed in what looks like bliss or total love.

Thank you for your support everyone!

Sonia, this little furry gang is so cute, they look like wonderful friends! :)

Beauty55, I'm sorry that you're going through the same. Looks like this is many people's fate these days. :(

Johanna, thank you for your kinds words. Right now, I'm feeling so useless and numb, and it's not easy to keep in mind that there are things I may be good at.

I may not post very often here, but this place means a lot to me and can be such a tremendous source of comfort and support!

Thanks,
Kirsten

Remember Kirsten, it is always darkest before the dawn. I know it's small comfort to you, but sometimes it really is true.

It's hard, but stand up for yourself, be strong, and never forget we are here for you. PLEASE don't let others bring you down. You are worth far more than that.

And, listen to Gary...he, along with others here, have been through it, too.

I'm so very sorry for all the troubles in your life right now.Do you have family?Any family worth going to for help?Do you know anyone here in the USA to stay with?You could bring the cats with you to a friend or family member outside Germany?Quarentine is 6 months indoors to whereever you go outside of Germany.
You must have a friend to help you in Germany.I hope.
I only say outside Germany because you wrote how hard it is to find work there,so I was hoping you had family or friends elsewhere to start.Or it would be much better to just really ask around town if there's ANYthing for work until you can get something your happy with.I feel so bad.Loosing your apartment is bad enough...but the thought of loosing your cats is devistating I'm sure.I hope things look up soon Kirsten.
Anytime you need me you can call on me.
PM me anytime.

I'm so very sorry to hear that things just aren't going in your favor right now especially at work. I've lost track of how many times people have said to leave work problems at the office and don't bring them home. Right... when our daily lives depend on our jobs that's easier said than done. I'm a child support specialist for the State of New Jersey going on 24 years now. For several years I was stuck in a job that I absolutely detested beyond any description. I became convinced that I'd be stuck in that unit forever with no chance of ever getting out. One morning my supervisor called me in to her office, we've been friends for years. Our attorney was told she was getting a position for a paralegal, went to the assistant director and specifically said she wanted me for the position. At first the assistant director said no but Amy (attorney) and Helene (supervisor) met with her about it. So now I'm in the job of my dreams! Good things do happen though sometimes it feels like we have to wait much too long. I believe in you, Kirsten. You're a very intelligent and talented woman. Something good is out there for you and I pray that your dream job will come along just as mine did. Meanwhile you have Luna & Lily to help you stay glued together. Your post is far from pointless, we can't help you if we don't know you need us. That's what your PT friends are for! Try to hang tough and count on your friends!!! I'm here for you.....

Again, thanks for your support! I took this week off because I really need a break, and I try to relax a bit, even though it's hard to ignore all the worries and doubts.

catfamily, actually I don't have anyone to support me, at least not financially, or in helping me to find a new job. So I'm playing the lottery every week and hope for a miracle.

I think migrating to another country would be difficult, even though many Germans consider to do so these days. The job situation is really bad here now. It's a bit better in the south of Germany, and I may have to get used to the thought to move there. My sister is already living there, and two friends of mine (in the area of Stuttgart/Black Forest). But it would be a tough decision.

momcat, I'm happy for you that things turned out so well for you in the end. :)

Kirsten

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this little furry gang is so cute, they look like wonderful friends! :)

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Yes they are! Last week I posted some movies about them. I don't know if you have seen them. Here they are: http://petoftheday.com/talk/showthread.php?t=105923 They are so cute and funny, they will bring a big smile on your face, for sure ;)

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I think migrating to another country would be difficult, even though many Germans consider to do so these days. The job situation is really bad here now. It's a bit better in the south of Germany, and I may have to get used to the thought to move there. My sister is already living there, and two friends of mine (in the area of Stuttgart/Black Forest). But it would be a tough decision.

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It's not easy but more and more frequent. Sometimes you have to do it. I have been working in The Netherlands for more than 3 years now, and I can't find a good job to come back to France! I am traveling back home every week-end. At the beginning I had a two-year contractin the Netherlands, and now it turned to a permanent contract. It's very nice of course, but it makes it even more difficult to find something equivalent in my country. Up to now, I did not find :( It's a pity that other countries can offer you what your country cannot.