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As a matter of fact, I spoke to the one manager this afternoon, the one who gave me the higher-up guy's number. She knows all about my complaint and urged me to file the complaint in the first place. Anyway, she spoke to the higher-up on Friday and he told her that he had not done ANYTHING because he claimed I was not returning his phone calls --- that's utter bull! I answered every call and question he gave me!
I don't know what to think anymore. I'll just see how everything plays out from here on out. I will try to be patient and understand that there are proper protocals to take. Problem is, this is NOT playing out like they said it would in the training videos that we all sat through. In the videos they had a whole different story as to how things would happen. Why tell people one thing and do another? Perhaps because the reality would scare everyone away from coming forward. As it is, nobody wants to come forward in my store. They are all too scared that he'll make their lives pure heck for snitching on him.
Anyway, I truly do appreciate the point of view ES and cataholic have given me. It has helped me a lot.
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I'm kind of curious if you had ever indicated directly to the perpetrator that you considered his comments to be out of line and inappropriate in a work setting, and that his comments make you and others extremely uncomfortable. This can be done in a calm and professional manner. Yes, we all want to *get along* with the boss, but this is one of those situations where immediately showing where we stand on certain actions may avoid the continuation of same. These guys know that they are treading on dangerous territory, but if no one calls them on it....they think that they can get away with it.
