Get Well Wishes for Robin (RobiLee)

I think you should live to SPITE those that bring you down.
HE changed
YOU didn't. YOU did CHANGE b/c of HIM.

if you do succeed in hurting yourself (GOD FORBID)
you are giving him exactly what he wants.
he will play the 'victim' and the 'martyr' for awhile.
everyone will come up to him and say oh A, poor you.
he'll nod - play the grieving ex. go home with the girlfriend.
THEY will get what they want.. they will move into your home and take your dogs. OR she won't want them and they will end up at the pound wondering why their mom left them.
while your TRUE friends and family including Katie and Tori will be heartbroken. Look into their eyes - how can you possibly not want to live?

so LIVE
to SPITE them. Why give him the satisfaction of an easy life?

LIVE ROBIN....
choose to LIVE.

I don't know what to say that will help you, Robin...just know I'm keeping you in my thoughts. :( {{HUGS}}

Robin, sometimes life sucks for a while & there isn't much you can do about it, because you can't change other people. Your ex's behavior is crazy-making, believe me, I've been where you are. I do understand how you feel. I don't really know how I made it, except that I chose to hang on one more day, in hopes that things would change. I did that every morning for years. And life has changed, for the better. I pray you can hang on just one more day, enough days in a row until life gets better. It will. Till then, let us love you until you can love yourself.

Sending you (((hugs))) & vibes for inner healing.


Oh yeah, Jack says he wants to meet you , too. :)

Robin, You continue to remain in my thoughts and prayers. Please take care. (((HUGS)))

Still thinking of you Robin and hoping that you feel at least a little better every day. We love you, honey! :)

Oh Robin, I am so shook up reading this. :( Your almost ex is ONE person! There are so many who know what a beautiful person you are! So many people who need you here. Your son is young, maybe not able to understand why you are acting like 'this'. Maybe can't deal with it.
We all love you and need you here, as do your girls. It will get better, it will take time. Please hang on. I'm keeping you in my prayers. {{{hugs}}}

Robin, I wish there were something any of us could say or do to make you realize that you are a wonderful person and you do deserve to live a long, wonderful, happy life. You mean so much to so many. Know that we are all thinking of you and praying for you.

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Originally Posted by shais_mom

I think you should live to SPITE those that bring you down.
HE changed
YOU didn't. YOU did CHANGE b/c of HIM.

if you do succeed in hurting yourself (GOD FORBID)
you are giving him exactly what he wants.
he will play the 'victim' and the 'martyr' for awhile.
everyone will come up to him and say oh A, poor you.
he'll nod - play the grieving ex. go home with the girlfriend.
THEY will get what they want.. they will move into your home and take your dogs. OR she won't want them and they will end up at the pound wondering why their mom left them.
while your TRUE friends and family including Katie and Tori will be heartbroken. Look into their eyes - how can you possibly not want to live?

so LIVE
to SPITE them. Why give him the satisfaction of an easy life?

LIVE ROBIN....
choose to LIVE.

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Staci,

This post has really touched me. I am printing it out and putting it on my fridge. Thanks for the daily reminder. ;) Love ya!

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Originally Posted by cyber-sibes

Robin, sometimes life sucks for a while & there isn't much you can do about it, because you can't change other people. Your ex's behavior is crazy-making, believe me, I've been where you are. I do understand how you feel. I don't really know how I made it, except that I chose to hang on one more day, in hopes that things would change. I did that every morning for years. And life has changed, for the better. I pray you can hang on just one more day, enough days in a row until life gets better. It will. Till then, let us love you until you can love yourself.

Sending you (((hugs))) & vibes for inner healing.


Oh yeah, Jack says he wants to meet you , too. :)

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I am doing better today, Pat. Thank you so much for the picture of Jack-a-roo. He is one of my very favs and if I lived closer I would snatch him up in a heartbeat so that he and Tori could spend the day playing. I just want to give him a great big ol hug. would you do that for me please? Hugs to the queen girl herself too. Love ya, Star!

Robin, I'm glad to hear you're feeling better today. :) It wlll be a bumpy ride, some days you’ll feel OK and some days you’ll feel down - but keep fighting!! I promise you, things WILL change! Get angry instead of depressed - scream and scout and cry if that helps. You’re allowed to be unreasonable for a while. ;)

I like what Stacy said in her post 151, read that again! And take one day at a time - your life WILL get better!

I believe that a lot of us have been in situations where we'd rather die than go on, but somehow, it'll all work out in the end. :)

Lots of positive thoughts are coming your way!

((((hugs))))

You don't know me very well, but I wanted to add my prayers too. I have been in the same spot and it is hard to pull yourself out of it.
I am so glad you're feeling better today.

Crystal

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Originally Posted by RobiLee

If I was sucha a good person than my husband wouldn't be saying bad things about me. My son would be here supporting me..

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No, Robin, that's NOT TRUE. What your husband is saying/doing is because of the type of person he is. You thought he was one thing and it turned out he was not. You know in your heart that you do not deserve the type of things he is apparently dishing out. Once you come to accept that you are not the bad guy here, you will feel a relief to be out of a partnership that is destructive. Please don't help him in his attempts to put you down.

Living well is the best revenge and you have the capacity for a good life, but only if you want it. I hope that you can want it as badly for yourself as so many of us here want it for you.

Your son is young and has not had enough of life's experiences to understand your needs. Maybe he has not been able to completely understand and meet his own needs and all this is overwhelming for him.

Many loving hugs and prayers for you Robin.

What Staci said is quoted for truth. LIVE to spite them. LIVE because WE love you. LIVE because your girls love you and NEED you.

*HUGS*

4:00 PM Sunday ...

Robin is watching the Daytona 500 (wrog guy leading :p ) and
still has Norma for company.

She sounded pretty *chipper*!

YAAY! Glad you are feeling chipper, Robin. Keep it up - could get to be a habit! ;) :D