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Originally posted by val
OK, I am about to get crucified for saying this but I just HAVE to: if there is any way to get her to a vet to check on the extent of the pregnancy (if there is a pregnancy) it may not be too late to spay her. Yes, there are way too many kittens in this world that will never have the chance to have homes and be loved and be someones pet. I can never advocate putting any more on this planet. Once they are here, any one that knows me knows that I do anything to get them well when sick and find them homes. I know from my experience with the nonprofit spay/neuter organization I help with that this can be a very touchy subject and I don't want to start a prolife/prochoice debate here. There are countless couples waiting for babies to adopt out there. There are no waiting lists for homeless kittens and puppies. If there were more homes than homeless all of the shelters, animal control facilities and rescues could just lock their doors. So there you have it folks.
I'm so sorry your other feral has not come around. Some that have never had human contact just cannot cope with it and would undoubtedly be happier to be free. As long as they are spay/neutered and vaccinated (and hopefully tested) they will be more comfortable in a barn environment. If there is somewhere warm for them to sleep and they are fed and watered daily they will be content. They do not know the first thing about being a pet in the sense that we do. Some, I think can certainly become so but others just may never in spite of our best efforts. You shouldn't feel guilty for something that is beyond your control. As some others have said some of the cats they raised as kittens are standoffish and don't care to be held, carried and cuddled. I have one like that myself and I couldn't force him to give me the attention that I would like because he just can't do it. It's nothing personal, it's just the way it is. So please don't be heartbroken. He'll be much happier not living in a cage (8 months is a long time).
Just one woman's opinion!