How old were you.......

......When you decided on your sexual orientation ?

I have made the Poll multi choice so if people WANT to they can also add if they are straight or gay.

For example I choose the options :-

I always knew my orientation (no decision)
AND
I'm Straight

I still haven't "decided"...

I'm more so attracted to males than females. BUT - I've always thought that if I were to fall in love with a female, than that would be that.

I "guess" i'd be labeled as Bisexual, but I don't care either way.
If I fall in love with a male, fine.
If I fall in love with a female, fine.

NOTHING is going to stop me from loving someone, unless it's them.

I guess i was a little confused when i was younger (Say 15-18) and did not know what i wanted or what sex i wanted to be with. After one relationship with a guy, i knew i could never be in an honest open relationship with a man.

That was not the best time of my life, but i had to take the time and figure it all out. I could not be happier now, i am confident and quite happy.

And i did not read the question before replying to the poll, so only put in the one answer (I am gay *well on my way to hell* :eek: ).

;)

I'm a closet bisexual, only a few close friends and online people know this. The reason I'm so open here is because you don't know me which makes me more comfortable to talk about it.

I haven't told many people; probably my family and my husband know but when I was 15 I went threw a *crisis* (at the time I thought it was a crisis) where I thought I might be a lesbian. I was horrified and the only person I could talk to about it was my father, strange huh? We had a very close relationship and I knew he would not love me any less. He didn't quite care if I married "John" or "Joan" as long as I was happy and I hope to instill that same value in my children.

Over the years, I've come to prefer men. I've never done anything with a woman but I've also been with my husband since I was in high school so never had the opportunity. I don't know if I was single now if I would date a woman, but I guess I will never know.

Someone's sexual orientation is their business. I don't care unless they are with someone who treats them poorly. I just want someone to be happy and to find that person who completes them in every way--luckily for me, I found that person and couldn't have asked for any better. ;)

i never even had to think about it! i live in a very small town where if it's not the norm, it's wrong. but even still i have always loved men!

Well, while I would like to respond to your poll, I cannot. Why? Well, depending on the day of the week, I am different. You know, conscious choice and all that....:rolleyes: :rolleyes:

oh yeah, i'm a girl

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Originally posted by Cataholic
Well, while I would like to respond to your poll, I cannot. Why? Well, depending on the day of the week, I am different. You know, conscious choice and all that....:rolleyes: :rolleyes:

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:D :D :D :D :D :p

LOL Cataholic. Why do people care so much who others sleep with? It's not like they are having sex with you! Move on and get a life.

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Originally posted by Cataholic
Well, while I would like to respond to your poll, I cannot. Why? Well, depending on the day of the week, I am different. You know, conscious choice and all that....:rolleyes: :rolleyes:

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ROTFLMAO :D :D

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Originally posted by CalliesMom
LOL Cataholic. Why do people care so much who others sleep with? It's not like they are having sex with you! Move on and get a life.

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LOL, You hit the nail on the head, who cares what others do in bed. Unless it is your bed and you are in it ;)

I only started this poll to show that few people decide their sexuality, it just IS.

Well at least we know this one won't be deleted :p

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Originally posted by PayItForward
ROTFLMAO :D :D



LOL, You hit the nail on the head, who cares what others do in bed. Unless it is your bed and you are in it ;)

I only started this poll to show that few people decide their sexuality, it just IS.

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PIF, I didn't meant to insinuate that you started the thread for any other reason. I was simply trying to share my view point that people spend WAY TOO MUCH time caring what others do behind closed doors. Oh well.

I went through a confusing time when I was 16-17 and I wasn't quite sure. I eventually figured out who I was and what I wanted. I suppose I'm hetrosexual, but sometimes I wonder. lol. Those days when hubby is being insensitive and uncaring, I think about how nice it'd be to be married to a woman that understands. There are alot of qualities that men lack that I emotionally need. On the same line, there are also alot of qualities in a woman that I cannot stand. I have many more men friends then woman friends.

If I ever wound up single again, God knows who I'd date. I'd say anyone who could fullfill me. I think that being homosexual is so complicated and difficult that I'd lean more towards men just to keep life simple. My gay friends go through so many hardships that I have never even imagined.

Which, BTW, is why I believe that homosexuality isn't a choice. Why would anyone make their lives so difficult on purpose?

straight.