I have the most wonderful gray tabby who is, for lack of any other word, retarded. He's in his own little world so I call him 'autistic' since for the past 12 years he's been in his own little shell and is very fearful until I break thru, which I have to start anew every single day by approaching him very gingerly. I adore him but he's not like any other cat I've ever enountered and I've never talked to anyone who has a cat like this. He and his brother were rescued from a ferral mother at 5 weeks and he's been terrified and rather wild since. I can't hold him close as he will claw me without wishing me any harm. He just can't help himself.
Anyone experience the same thing? It would be unfortunate if he were someone's first cat but he fits in great with us.