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Originally posted by spunkadelic
(I hope you don't mind me butting in)
You said that her wings weren't clipped and this won't solve it, but you should definately have them clipped. It does not hurt the bird, rather it is a very good saftey precaution. When their wings are clipped they can't 'fly' away from you, and thus when they realize they have to stay there, they usually tone down their attitude.
If you approach her, cowered and afraid of her, she knows it. She knows she will have the upper...wing...so to speak. Don't look her in they eyes, and stand taller then her. Always be taller then her. She thinks she's above you and she's reprimanding you for it...you have to be above her.
Hope what I said helps (and I hope that last part is right, maybe budgies4ever can tell me if that last part is right...it's what MY breeder and vet told me, but I'm not 100% sure)
Very well said. While I have no idea why she changed to be this way, clipping their wings DOES help. I got my birds as babies and they really are such sweethearts by nature, whether I clip their wings or not. Even when they aren't clipped, they don't fly. Its not the same for every bird though, and clipping does help, no doubt, because the bird feels it must depend on you, and really starts to *respect* you. :p Its only temporary and the feathers grow back, so even if you don't want to keep them clipped, doing so once could really help in mending your feathered friend's attitude towards you, and by the time they're grown back, his/her behavior will be different.