Breaking up...

No not with a boyfriend a friend.

She gets on my nerves too much. She's like a leech really. I try to do my own thing or talk to someone else and she follows me.

She doesn't respect me or our other friends feelings. Once she told me something that supposedly our friend said about me and then I found out it was a lie. I asked her about it and she acted like she did nothing wrong!

She tries to be someone she's not as well. I'm not sure who she wants to be but it's getting to become a burden. She cries to me whenever she gets teased and she really does bring it opon herself.

She knows I like this kid in my class and of course had to blab it around the school. Last year she even started flirting with the guy she knew I was going out with.

So how do I break it to her? Say it, write it, give her the cold shoulder? I'm not sure what to do to avoid unpleasent scene.

~Rachel

I have always thought breaking up with friends was an underrated matter. It should happen..but, it doesn't. I would take her aside and tell her that you want to talk about how you aren't really the same people anymore, you have grown apart, etc., and leave it at that. I don't think giving someone the cold shoulder is right, and I would NEVER put something in writing that could come back to you somehow....

I knew a girl like that. I was once partnered with her against my wishs, & she thought I was he rbest friend after that, I don't know how many times I had to tell her right off, because I never ddid like her at all... She was a sicko... she flirted with every guy she gould get near & she would be all over them & they didn't know w hat to do, she scared them... its been 7 yrs of telling her off & she still hounds me... oi

Just tell her how u feel & she might go away mad & then ur free :)