Joe is on morphine, and gets breakthrough shots in addition to the regular morphine.
He has been hooked on Tylenol 1's (the ones with codeine) for many years...was off them for a while, but his roommate sneaks them in to him.
He has had kidney problems too.
So - should I tell the hospital? Or since there is not a lot of hope, not bother?
Thanks for your opinion.
C
This is not something you should discuss with his doctor, but with him. Speak to him, and see what he says. This is a very private, personal matter, and none of us can give advice not knowing the particulars of his situation, diagnosis, projected outcome and medical condition, which is private anyway.
I'd leave him alone. You said it... it's stage 4: at least he can get some extra relief.
He was emptying the bottle into his fanny pack today, and had me stand in the doorway of his room in case someone was coming in. (ie, staff).
A few people have spoken to him, but he is not giving them up. He only cut down a few months ago because a good friend of his found out that prolonged use can hurt the kidneys...and he had been taking them for a decade or so.
But thanks for the answers...I won't say anything.
I'd definitely leave that one alone. Even tho your intentions may be good, it's really not your place to intervene, and you'd probably lose a friend in the process too.
Yes Candace i am with every one else here, i would leave this one well alone, just be there for your friend for support and turn a blind eye.
Ahem. I've never mentioned this before, but having been in monstrous spine pain for over 30 years, prior to surgery, I gobbled down anything the doctors would give me. If they refused, I got stuff elsewhere. People in agony, know other people in agony. Nobody dared to get in my face, whether or not they knew what I was doing. I limited myself to nighttime only in order to sleep (most of the time), but it did take me months to wean myself off anything. I have continuing problems and can barely walk, but I'm not taking anything but Alleve type stuff, although it doesn't help. Thank God I'm not in Joe's situation, but I'm glad you're not saying a word, Candance. Desperate times call for desperate measures.
Not saying anything is probably the best plan.
I agree. Pain is under-treated in the US, IMO.
I agree with everyone else. For one thing his doctor is not going to appreciate the info and he's under patient doctor confidentiality so why not let the patient decide for himself. Pain is something everyone should be free to deal with in their own way.
I see where everyone is coming from, but honestly I would be worried about unapproved meds interacting with the ones the Dr's know about.
But if the man is stage four, and terminal - which only he and his doctor would know, frankly, why worry about long-term damage if he has no long-term?Quote:
Originally Posted by aTailOf2Kitties
I agree w/ Karen completely, if he is terminal why bother, I would let him take what he feels he needs to be comfortable.
I agree - let him take whatever works for him.
As long as he is not stealing others meds.
There is really no reason, in my opinion, to not let him have what he wants to be as comfortable as possible. Poor guy. Bless him.:(Quote:
Originally Posted by 3Catcondo