If you could be any animal ...
I am very interested in all your opinions.
I am doing some life coach training as part of my job. The coach/psychologist chappie said that in order to understand other people, you need to truly understand yourself, which sounds fair to me.
BUT, one exercise in he gave me in self-awareness was 'If you could be any animal, what would it be and why?' So I thought long and hard and said cat of course! So I wrote down it was because they are independent, street smart, they know exactly what they want and like, they smell nice (he really raised his eyebrows at that one!) and they have humans wrapped around their paws. Who wouldn't want to be a cat???
So he said that wanting to be a cat was a sign as wanting more affection and security in my life ... what do you think???
And what animal would you be if you had a choice? :)
Affection and Security?!?!?
Hmmmmmmm - I'd want to run that by some feral cats first! Of course, I'm not a psychologist, but I believe most people project onto cats that which they perceive. Sounds more to me like that might be his perception of cats.
I think that whenever people respond to that one with "cat", it's because they would want to have those qualities that they find particularly fascinating about cats they've known. These can be varied, depending on the person and the cats they have interacted with. Some people have cuddly, spoiled housecats (ahem, Grasshopper!), then some have independant barn cats, marvelous mousers!
Cats have always fascinated pepole throughout history (watch the Discovery Channel's cat features.) I think a lot of it is their independence, their purr, their aloofness, their grace, their hunting ability in the midst of all their cuddliness, and the unique way they often relate to human beings, when they chose to. Then, too, a lot of it is cultural; we tend to view them as somewhat like us. And in fact, their physiology is studied by many disciplines, as they are structurally more like humans than any other animal. Maybe we came from cats? Sorry, no offense to Darwinians or Creationists!