You want me to do what to get a date? Dang, really bad advice :S
I have a crush on someone in our group of friends/people we know. I had no intentions of making any advances because I know I'm not his type. But the crush didn't care... Chad noticed & poked me until I spilled that I liked him (first guy I have liked in MANY months)... Anywho, I was at a friends for the all of sat (Chad & Andrew were out for the whole weekend & staying home alone didn't sound fun to me lol)... This lady asked if Joe has been hanging around my place a lot the past week... I said no, why? Because I heard her had a girlfriend & I thought it was you because I know you have a big thing for him.. GAH!!!! others noticed!!! (The World is over!! lol)...
Anywho she said you know hes only dates girls that are into Goth & BDSM... Ok thats lovely(already knew that, reason I didn't make an advance, as I know I'm NOT his type.. As a friend heck ya & I'm thrilled to be his friend only, not a big deal, 90% of my friends are guys)...
She said lets dress you up goth for one weekend & see what he says about you. I'm sure he'll go after you then...
Excuse me?!?!
Oh we'll just use the 2 day black hair dye...
:eek:
How about NO.
I'm sorry but I cannot change who I am just so a guy will date me. The relationship would NEVER work, as I'm lying who I am. I could also NEVER EVER EVER steal someone eles guy. NO WAY NO HOW!! BAD BAD BAD!!! Not even for the hottest sexiest man in the whole world!!
I have morals & I stick by them, esp if they involve other people!!
My man (yes a poor one at that) left me for some other chick (they were cheating on me)... I could never do that to someone else, i was crushed & tossed to the curb dirt poor, alone, & scared in a strange city so far away from home... Just the thought of getting inbetween a couple for my own pleasure is a HUGE downer... esp. when someone thinks I would sink that low.
Ya, everyone in the group teases me cause I haven't been in a relationship since June 2006, or a fling... Sure I'm lonely, miss holding someone, miss waking up to someone beside, miss being greated by the one that you love, & all that gooshy stuff... But I'd rather be alone for the rest of my life then in a lie. I'm very picky as I've had a rough past.. or it was a horrible rough past that haunts me to this day, but I'm still not going to lie.
I'm a tomboy, I act odd, do odd things, talk odd, but thats who I am. If a guy likes me for who I am awesome!! Then I'll date him! Yes I know the chances of me finding him are slim & I'm ok with that. I'd rather be happy then not.
