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I didnīt knew where to post this....... but......
I just stopped using my birth control method........soooo.......
hand me a bottle of PT water....... NOW!!! :D ;)
I want to, hubby not yet........ but I WANT TO!!!..........
so hoping to change his mind.......PT vibes needed ;) :D
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Originally Posted by Husky_mom
LOL well if you are off BC than it's all up to him now to prevent it :D and that's tough for men lol.
Good luck :D
woohoo!!! How exciting! Here's some of the special PT water. It's quite potent ;) :D
Hubby may not be ready now, but I bet when he sees the first sonogram, or holds his baby for the first time, his mind will change. :D
Ummm...does hubby know you off the pill???
You know, honesty and all that crap...LOL
Take care! :)
I was not taking pills, but yeah he knows i took off my *thingy*....... hehe
he told me he wants to but later, maybe last months of year, but since I already took it off, who knows :p ;)
How exciting! I remember when I first got off the pill. I felt like a silly teenager the first time without it. My hubby wasn't ready until the day Hugito came out.
Buena suerte! Just remember to keep it fun. Don't make it a chore.
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Originally Posted by Husky_mom
Hate to be a killjoy, but better listen to your husband's thoughts on this
before you go ahead with what you want. Nothing worse than "tricking"
someone into fatherhood.
If you both agree, than go ahead & take a drink of the water. :)
I agree with Lizbud.Quote:
Nothing worse than "tricking" someone into fatherhood.
I agree with lizbud.
There are too many "unwanted" babies/children in this world. However, if you and your hubby feel the time is right for BOTH of you, then good luck to you.
My hubby and I decided to start trying for a baby 18 months ago....we are now in the process of being referred for IVF treatment due to complications with both of us. Naturally I feel quite strongly about people who jump into pregnancy without considering what they are doing!
I highly agree. If he's not ready, this could really cause problems with your marriage.Quote:
Originally Posted by lizbud
Men hate nothing more then a woman who tricks them into having a child. This is not only dishonest to your marriage it is immoral to bring an unwanted child into this world. If I was a man and a woman did this to me I would boot her out the door. Children are a lifelong commentment not a dirty joke to play on someone.
UM lol I don't think she was insinuating that she was just gonna go ahead and get pregnant and force it on him lol. jumping the gun JUST a little aren't we?
AND.... what are the rules on the baby tricking both parents into parenthood? :D
Ditto. My best friend left his wife because she "tricked" him after he said he wanted to finish school before trying to have a baby. It's not a happy situation for anyone, least of all the baby.Quote:
Originally Posted by lizbud
Hey, if he does know, and he seems to, then it won't hurt him to look after birth control for a while.Quote:
I was not taking pills, but yeah he knows i took off my *thingy*....... hehe
Just glad he is in the loop! lol
Sorry but I have never heard of a baby tricking a parent. If they don't want it let them abort or put the child up for adoption. None of us asked to be born but once here we deserve to be wanted and loved. Not all people become parents when they have a child some stay too selfish, childess and stupid. Some should never have kids. Children are too precious to not want. If you don't or can't take care of a child there are people who will.