Do you hold a grudge? Like stay mad at something that happened a while ago? Or do you forget about it and get over things easily?
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Do you hold a grudge? Like stay mad at something that happened a while ago? Or do you forget about it and get over things easily?
I hold grudges usually... with people I usually hold grudges but with animals I do not.
I do sometimes. I used to all the time. When I realized that was something I had inherited from my father, I was determined to expunge that trait. I've done a fair job, I think.
Usually, yes. If that person makes a heart-felt apology, I respect that, and I think it takes a stronger person to say sorry sincerely to me than to not do something hurtful towards me in the first place.
Other than that, I can hold life-long grudges.
Sometimes - but I try not to.
Sometimes I do but it takes to much energy to hold a grudge for long.
I try not to - life is too short
Usually. Over the internet I do it a lot. In real life, not so much. And I do it even less with animals. Hardly ever do I hold a grudge against an animal.
Almost never, I get over most things pretty quickly. Most things are just not worth the time and effort it takes to hold a grudge.
A lot of you are still pretty young, I think that with time, maturity, and experience at least some of you will stop holding grudges as much :)
Rarely.
I don't let things get to me. :D
If something happens that upsets me, I just talk it out and move on.
No use living in the past.
Sometimes I do, but very rarely.
Depends.
No, I tend to forgive and forget very easily, life is too short to hold grudges!
Me too. I've never held a gruge against an animal.Quote:
Originally Posted by dogzr#1
I voted sometimes. I usually get over things, in time, it's not worth it. I may not be friends with someone anymore, but I let the 'grudge' go. ;)