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sarifish
06-09-2005, 07:34 PM
now im pissed i am still in this thing for this cat with 3 other people. one of which i got the cat from. im trying to do what the vet said because it will be whats best. but the girl i got it from doesnt want to do any of it because she doesnt think it needs it . she thinks it will be torturing the cat. she says it doesnt need it because its not screaming out in pain so therefore its not in pain. cats mask their pain. and she said it doesnt need to be on its soft diet because it ate the hard food. IT ONLY ATE THE HARD FOOD BECAUSE THERE WAS NOTHING ELSE FOR IT TO EAT!!! ahh i wish i could just slap her im on bad terms with her but im about to write her a nasty letter saying all of this and im going to get a few quotes offline to help back me up GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR i thaught she was my friend well i was wrong i hate her

catnapper
06-09-2005, 07:40 PM
I understand you are upset, but I could not understand or follow what you wrote. Could you please edit your thoughts using proper capitalization, sentence structure, and complete thoughts?

catmandu
06-09-2005, 07:43 PM
I HATE TO SCOLD,BUT COULD YOU PLEASE USE PUNCUATION,AND MAKE COMPLETE SENTENCES,AS IT IS HARD,TO FOLLOW,WHAT YOU ARE SAYING.I WOULD GO,WITH THE ADVICE THE VET GAVE,YOU,AND IF HE SAID SOFT FOOD,THEN I WOULD GIVE MY CATS,SOFT FOOD.
I OFTEN HAVE,TO DO THIS,WITH THE RESCUED STRAYS,GIVE THEM LITTLE KITTEN FOOD,TO HELP THEM GAIN,THE WEIGHT,THAT THEY SOMETIMES NEED.

AND YOU ARE RIGHT,A CAT,WILL NOT SHOW PAIN,AS THAT,IN THE WILD WOULD BE SHOWING WEAKNESS.BUT THEY CAN BE IN PAIN,AND SADLY NOT SHOW,IT ,EVEN TO THIER GUARDIAN.I WISH,YOU ALL THE BEST,WITH THAT CAT,AND HOPE,THAT YOU CAN HELP THAT CREATURE,OF GOD,TO HER FURR EVER HOME.

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v621/catmandu/BJcatbed.jpg

BJ ANGEL,IS PRAYING,FOR YOU.

sarifish
06-09-2005, 07:45 PM
sorry if u cant read it im too mad to rewrite it just ignore that post ill get to rewrite it later maybe tomarrow or something i dont feel like messing with it right now

G535
06-09-2005, 07:48 PM
This is the rescued cat from the other thread, right? I'd just drop the trouble maker "friend" and let the others look after the poor cat.

sarifish
06-09-2005, 07:50 PM
yes its the same cat and i have to stay in this situation because iv got a discount thing going and the other people would lose all ties to each other and theyd have alot of money on their hands. and the ex "friend" has to stay in it because it was her cat to begin with it was in her yard and i have a feeling she will try to do something bad if i just stole the cat from all of them and gave it to the vet. (which im seriously thinking about) the vet will help it

catmandu
06-09-2005, 08:28 PM
I AM SORRY,IF I WAS A LITTLE HARD,ON YOU,ABOUT YOUR GRAMMAR,AS I SENSE,THAT YOUR HEART,IS IN THE RIGHT PLACE,AND THAT YOU TRULY WANT,WHAT IS BEST FOR THIS POOR CAT,SADLT,THE STRONGEST WORD,IN THE ENGLISH LANGUAGE,AND MINE,AND PEOPLE,WILL FUGHT,IF THEY THINK,THAT YOU ARE TAKING SOMETHING,OF THIERS.EVEN IF THEY AHVE NO REAL INTEREST,IN THE CAT.I AM PRAYING,THAT WHAT EVER HAPPENS,THAT THE CAT,IS ALL RIGHT,AND IN A FURR EVER HOME.PLEASE KEEP US UPDATED,AND IT TOOK ME,A LONG TIME,TO LEARN TYPING,AND I KNOW,THAT WITH PRACTICE,YOU WILL BBBE BETTER,THE FOUND CATS,ARE MEEEEOOOWING,FOR YOU SARIFISH,BECAUSE YOU CARE.

sarifish
06-09-2005, 08:32 PM
thanks gary your too sweet

momcat
06-10-2005, 03:08 PM
Obviously something has you extremely upset about a cat. Tell you what, take some time to cool off and get your thoughts together. Then tell us what's going on. We can help if you let us...

catmandu
06-10-2005, 03:18 PM
How,is that Little Cat Doing?I have my new glasses,and will try,that,and the Larger Print,to make my own threads,easier,to read.I hope,that you can help,that Little Cat,and that you can convince,the girl,that is the Cats Guardian,that you want,to help,that Kitty.john below,never showed,that he was in pain,until,I saw his gums bleeding,i had no idea,how ill,he was as he,was hiding from me.
i still feelbadly,that he lsot all,but two,of his teeth,Maybe,if i had been more alert.I hope,that this Cat,has nothing serious wrong,with him,and you can get,him,the care he needs,and a Furr Ever Home,and Prayers,are on thier way.

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v621/catmandu/Picture447.jpg

kt_luvs_kitties
06-10-2005, 08:40 PM
ok guys this is the deal.

Sarifish (my cousin) and I got together because their was a "stray" cat in her friends neighborhood, who was skinny, and needed medical attention. I work at a vets office, so I told Sarifish to bring it in to get combo testing,shots, hopefully neutered and just a really good exam, because I get 50% off all medical treatment.
While my vet was looking over the cat, he opened his mouth, and noticed a TERRIBLE fungal disease. The kitten has only 3 teeth, bloody gums, very skinny, and just really not a healthy kitten whatsoever. he is 6 months old.
The testing to see if it is 1) a mouth disorder VERY contagious to other cats/animals or 2) to see if it is a auto-immune disorder non contagious but VERY painful for the kitten, with no cure, only pain meds to be continued for the remainer of the kittens life.
Both would be life long disorders, very painful without medical intervention, and a special diet in both situations as well.
I opted to just get the zithroban medication, to see if it helps heal the swollen bloody gums, and then we could disifer if it is the gum disease, or something more intense.
Well we get all the tests, and the medication for the kitten. That is about all we can do at this point, to see if it helps.
BUT.. Here is the problem. I couldnt take the kitten, I just got another sick kitten that I am trying to nurse back to health. Sarah has 2 cats, and if it is contagious, their is not a doubt in my mind her cats will get it as well. So her friend, took it to another one of their friends, who has no other cats.
I talked to my vet, and he said that the cat is absolutely no doubt about it in intense pain, and that it needs continued treatment and special diet to even maintain a happy life(if at all possible). The 2 other girls (whom have the kitten) say no to any other treatment, to basically let it hurt, as long as it doesnt act hurt, it is fine. But everyone knows that cats dont show pain, because it is a sign of weakness. The arent providing special food, and Load knows if they are even giving it the medicine provided to them. That is why Sarifish and I are so VERY pissed off. Because the kitten is hurting and they dont want to do anything else for the cat. I dont know what else to do. I just want to strangle them. It isnt fair, and it is cruelty, plain and simple...

G535
06-10-2005, 09:10 PM
Geez I wish I could do something but I'm on the other side of the world. Do you have a humane society that you could report them to so they could take the kitten and either care for it or have it PTS? Your "friends" obviously are not cat lovers.

Craftlady
06-10-2005, 09:21 PM
I would have the girls bring the kitty back for a "follow up" visit and have the vet explain the seriousness of the situation.

kt_luvs_kitties
06-10-2005, 09:40 PM
The vet told them at the time the seriousness, but they wont listen. And for the follow up, i doubt they would even "waste their time". I personally dont know either of the two, as they are my cousins friends. All I know is it is ridiculous, and the cat is suffering.

rg_girlca
06-10-2005, 10:32 PM
OMG!!!!!! That poor, poor little kitty. How stupid can these girls be. I am going to say just one thing, because if I continue with what I really want to say........well, lets just say that Karen would have my hide.

GET THAT KITTEN AWAY FROM THOSE IDIOTS ASAP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

This just breaks my heart knowing what pain this poor little thing must be going through and has been going through in the past.

Please, I am begging you to get that kitten back and give it to someone who can take care of it properly. I don't care how you do it, just do it.

catmandu
06-10-2005, 10:45 PM
You should just take,the Kitten away,from them,and buy them a stuffed cat doll,as they are not willing,or able,to care,for a Special Needs Cat.That is terrible,and the Cat,is suffering,and can not be a good Kitten,if she,is in all that pain.We are praying,that that Kitten,with the Lords help,can find her proper Furr Ever Home,its a shame,that you are so far away.
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v621/catmandu/catphotos1053.jpg

momcat
06-11-2005, 10:15 AM
That poor kitty! It's not bad enough that kitty is suffering such terrible pain, but this life form REFUSES to give the help poor kitty needs to be at leaset a little more comfortable! That's intentional abuse and neglect! Have you tried to take kitty back? This should definitely be reported and let the consequences be what they're going to be. This isn't a stuffed toy to toss in the closet, it's a living creature capable of feeling and right now she's feeling a lot of pain! Maybe the vet has some ideas.....

Craftlady
06-11-2005, 10:47 AM
Did these people reinburse you for the vet bill?
If not this kitty is yours to find a good home that will take care of this kitty.

sarifish
06-14-2005, 11:11 PM
unfortunately i am no longer talking to those girls they still have my cat carrier which i am harassing them for. but i sent them an email explaining in detail what the cat needed and i know for a fact there going to try to take it to another vet so hopefully that vet will give them an earfull or possibly take the cat from them... i feel so bad for having to be part of this rediculous situation i should have gone and gotten the cat in the middle of the night instead of letting her help.