kingrattus
08-01-2004, 02:04 AM
This is a very very touchy subject for me. As most of you know, Max was murdered last xmas.
I have been having nightmares since the day I found his body & burried him. I thought the nightmares were gone several weeks ago, but they have returned tonigh.
My nightmare is mostly the same image over & over & over.
Max being in a black trash bag, ripping it open to find his frozen deformed face. He looked like he was in so much pain & there was nothing I could do but pet & hug his cold hard frozen body. I then set him in his grave and cover him in our blanket & cover him in dirt to nerver ever see him again. I then carve his name into the tree & screw it up by carving a letter backwards, I feel like I ruined the last night I got to see him & I feel so angry & sorry, this is when I usually wake up crying, sweating & just wanting to hug him again.
I feel like he is haunting me because I wasn't there & couldn't stop my mom from killing him. I feel like I should have know better, I should have never trusted that stupid pet chip. I HATE the pet chip, I hate the vet for not checking whos dog he really belonged to & I hate my mom for paying them to burry him in a mass grave.
I feel guilty for not visiting Max' grave but I can never get out of the car as soon as I see his tree, I feel like its my fault he's there & I start to feel sick & want to go home. I have been to the field 3 times since Dec 16th 2003.
All I want is my baby back so we can so swimming again, So I can hear his bark, get kissed, hug him hard around the neck, grab his big lips & tell him just how much I love him, I told him every day, but I should have told him more.
I feel terrible & alone right now, I don't know anybody who has gone through this living hell.
I talk about Max all day long & feel just fine, I love talking about him & others love hearing about him. But when I go to sleep I relive everything all over again.
Rob has no idea this is happening, he thinks it ended months & months ago, but I lied to him.
He doesn't share the same feelings as most people do. He doesn't understand feelings 100%. He was never loved as a child & never gave love to anything cause his parents (mostly his mom) would destroy it in some way. Both of his parents have tried to get me to hate Rob & leave him, because he's usless, he was a problem child & other bull. I tell them that I love him & thats that (I usually walk away & ignor them if they continue to talk). Rob was getting upset when I was crying all the time, he didn't know how to get me to stop & didn't know what to do. So I can't tell him whats going on, there is no point, he wont understand (I do not blame him for this at all).
All I want r dreamless nights again & the only thing that kept them away is, dead.
http://jess.iahu.ca/max/albums/album04/IMG_0297.jpg
http://jess.iahu.ca/max/albums/album12/Sept_21_2003_011.sized.jpg
http://jess.iahu.ca/max/albums/album12/Sept_21_2003_014.sized.jpg
The next pics are 5 days before my mom killed him & the last time I saw him alive, I wish I took more pictures that day.
How could somebody kill this??
http://jess.iahu.ca/max/albums/album17/dec_7_2003_004.sized.jpg
Why did she say she loved him? Look shes possing with him & after she gave him a big kiss.
http://jess.iahu.ca/max/albums/album17/dec_7_2003_008.sized.jpg
& how could anyone kill him just before xmas & his 10th b-day. I still have his xmas gift hanging on my door
http://jess.iahu.ca/max/albums/album17/dec_7_2003_012.thumb.jpg
http://jess.iahu.ca/max/albums/album17/dec_7_2003_013.thumb.jpg
I'm sorry for bothering everyone, I'm just all messed up again. Death is all around me & Rob's parents seem to enjoy telling me that Cadeau should be dead any day (which is bull), I don't know if Peter has passed away yet & my best friend at work is in the hospital again because her lung collapsed again, Thats why I worked last week, I wanted her to get better and come back to work.
I'm not expecting any replies, I just needed to post so I can try to get back to sleep, I'm just so tired.
I have been having nightmares since the day I found his body & burried him. I thought the nightmares were gone several weeks ago, but they have returned tonigh.
My nightmare is mostly the same image over & over & over.
Max being in a black trash bag, ripping it open to find his frozen deformed face. He looked like he was in so much pain & there was nothing I could do but pet & hug his cold hard frozen body. I then set him in his grave and cover him in our blanket & cover him in dirt to nerver ever see him again. I then carve his name into the tree & screw it up by carving a letter backwards, I feel like I ruined the last night I got to see him & I feel so angry & sorry, this is when I usually wake up crying, sweating & just wanting to hug him again.
I feel like he is haunting me because I wasn't there & couldn't stop my mom from killing him. I feel like I should have know better, I should have never trusted that stupid pet chip. I HATE the pet chip, I hate the vet for not checking whos dog he really belonged to & I hate my mom for paying them to burry him in a mass grave.
I feel guilty for not visiting Max' grave but I can never get out of the car as soon as I see his tree, I feel like its my fault he's there & I start to feel sick & want to go home. I have been to the field 3 times since Dec 16th 2003.
All I want is my baby back so we can so swimming again, So I can hear his bark, get kissed, hug him hard around the neck, grab his big lips & tell him just how much I love him, I told him every day, but I should have told him more.
I feel terrible & alone right now, I don't know anybody who has gone through this living hell.
I talk about Max all day long & feel just fine, I love talking about him & others love hearing about him. But when I go to sleep I relive everything all over again.
Rob has no idea this is happening, he thinks it ended months & months ago, but I lied to him.
He doesn't share the same feelings as most people do. He doesn't understand feelings 100%. He was never loved as a child & never gave love to anything cause his parents (mostly his mom) would destroy it in some way. Both of his parents have tried to get me to hate Rob & leave him, because he's usless, he was a problem child & other bull. I tell them that I love him & thats that (I usually walk away & ignor them if they continue to talk). Rob was getting upset when I was crying all the time, he didn't know how to get me to stop & didn't know what to do. So I can't tell him whats going on, there is no point, he wont understand (I do not blame him for this at all).
All I want r dreamless nights again & the only thing that kept them away is, dead.
http://jess.iahu.ca/max/albums/album04/IMG_0297.jpg
http://jess.iahu.ca/max/albums/album12/Sept_21_2003_011.sized.jpg
http://jess.iahu.ca/max/albums/album12/Sept_21_2003_014.sized.jpg
The next pics are 5 days before my mom killed him & the last time I saw him alive, I wish I took more pictures that day.
How could somebody kill this??
http://jess.iahu.ca/max/albums/album17/dec_7_2003_004.sized.jpg
Why did she say she loved him? Look shes possing with him & after she gave him a big kiss.
http://jess.iahu.ca/max/albums/album17/dec_7_2003_008.sized.jpg
& how could anyone kill him just before xmas & his 10th b-day. I still have his xmas gift hanging on my door
http://jess.iahu.ca/max/albums/album17/dec_7_2003_012.thumb.jpg
http://jess.iahu.ca/max/albums/album17/dec_7_2003_013.thumb.jpg
I'm sorry for bothering everyone, I'm just all messed up again. Death is all around me & Rob's parents seem to enjoy telling me that Cadeau should be dead any day (which is bull), I don't know if Peter has passed away yet & my best friend at work is in the hospital again because her lung collapsed again, Thats why I worked last week, I wanted her to get better and come back to work.
I'm not expecting any replies, I just needed to post so I can try to get back to sleep, I'm just so tired.