cubby31682
09-10-2003, 10:25 AM
Cubby my only cat which is a 2 year old male fixed cat. Is trying to perform the manly duties. He use to attack my feet under the blankets and play, but now he is all about catching them and trying to hump them. Or he use to chase my hands under the blankets and play, but again it is all about trying to hump them now. Now when I go to bed at night he will follow me in the bedroom like always. As soon as I lift up the blankets to get my self covered up he goes into this humping mood. I have no clue why he keeps trying to do this. I tell him no very stern, I will put my finger right up close to his face and tell him now, I have sparyed him with a water bottle, and I have also put him on the floor and told him NO! But he wont stop there. He will get back on the bed and become very aggressive. The other night he lunged at my face because he was tired of being told NO and being put on the floor and being sprayed. I can't even go to bed with out fighting with him to stop.
I am at my wits ends with this. I called the vet more than a few times and told them about this. All the cats we had while I was growing up they never did this if they were fixed. But they were also indoor outdoor cats. I'm not sure if he is just going through this stage of his life or what. But it has to stop soon. I called the vet the did the operation on him to get him fixed, thinking maybe they didn't do something correct. But they said that there was nothing wrong that some male cats will do this.
Does any one have any advice to make him stop tryign to do this. He has also been trying to do this to my husband the last few nights. And I know how my husband is, he will not put up with an animal that does this, and he will want to get rid of him. I love my cat more than anything but this behavior needs to stop. And stop soon.
Also I can't lock him out of the bedroom, that is where is food is. He will only eat when I am in the room with him. He has food and water in the kitchen as well but he will not eat or drink out of them unless I am in there along with his food and water in the bedroom.
Any advice would be very appreciated. Sorry this is so long, I am just at my wit ends with this problem.
Also one more question, he goes to the vet in a few weeks to get his shots again. Should I have the vet check and make sure that his neuter operation was done correctly? The vet I use to go to told me they didn't like his attitude so I switched to a vet that is closer (more expensive) but very friendly and very willing to help in any way they can.
Katie
I am at my wits ends with this. I called the vet more than a few times and told them about this. All the cats we had while I was growing up they never did this if they were fixed. But they were also indoor outdoor cats. I'm not sure if he is just going through this stage of his life or what. But it has to stop soon. I called the vet the did the operation on him to get him fixed, thinking maybe they didn't do something correct. But they said that there was nothing wrong that some male cats will do this.
Does any one have any advice to make him stop tryign to do this. He has also been trying to do this to my husband the last few nights. And I know how my husband is, he will not put up with an animal that does this, and he will want to get rid of him. I love my cat more than anything but this behavior needs to stop. And stop soon.
Also I can't lock him out of the bedroom, that is where is food is. He will only eat when I am in the room with him. He has food and water in the kitchen as well but he will not eat or drink out of them unless I am in there along with his food and water in the bedroom.
Any advice would be very appreciated. Sorry this is so long, I am just at my wit ends with this problem.
Also one more question, he goes to the vet in a few weeks to get his shots again. Should I have the vet check and make sure that his neuter operation was done correctly? The vet I use to go to told me they didn't like his attitude so I switched to a vet that is closer (more expensive) but very friendly and very willing to help in any way they can.
Katie