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Logan
03-25-2003, 09:30 AM
Cody is very sick, and Karen will eventually come here to report to us, I'm sure, but she is on her way to take him home from the emergency clinic to be with her, now. Please pray for both of them, that Cody isn't in too much pain, and that Karen will have the strength to make some very difficult decisions today. :(

lovemyshiba
03-25-2003, 09:51 AM
Oh, Poor Karen and Cody. I will keep them in my prayers, and be hoping to hear good news. I pray that Cody is not in too much pain, and that Karen can have the strength to make any decisions she needs to.
Hugs to Cody and Karen--they need our support now.

Thank you for letting us know Logan, and hopefully we will be updated.

lizbud
03-25-2003, 10:02 AM
Karen,

I am just heartsick at this terrible news. Please know that you
and your beloved Cody will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Hugs & prayers, Liz.

anna_66
03-25-2003, 10:05 AM
This is breaking my heart:(

Karen, you and your Cody will both be in my prayers today.

Karen
03-25-2003, 10:08 AM
Oh dear Karen and beloved Cody, you are in our prayers right now. Be strong and brave, sweet boy.

*LabLoverKEB*
03-25-2003, 10:34 AM
Oh, poor, poor sweet Cody! I will keep Karen, Cody, and their family in my thoughts and prayers. I really do hope that he gets well soon.

Logan
03-25-2003, 10:39 AM
I'm going to try and explain what I know, based on an email that several of us received from Karen this morning.

She says:

On Saturday, she noticed that Cody's left leg was giving him trouble and he had a hard time getting up. She gated him and gave him his Rimadyl. But he couldn't even stand. Sunday, he went to the vet, who immediately noticed that his right leg was "thick". His leg was 3 times the normal size. Under his fur, it was purple. He had blood work and was given antibiotics.

He didn't eat, but did drink a lot of water. Last night, she called the vet and finally spoke with her at 10 pm. His bloodwork had come back "terrible" (anemic, low platelets, etc). At this point, his leg was black and swollen to the hip. He was taken immediately, at the vet's urging, to the ER.

He had a transfusion last night, antibiotic and is/was being checked by an internest this morning. The latest message from the ER is that he has masses on his lungs. There is nothing they can do. She has gone to retrieve him, take him home, and make her decisions.

Please pray hard, my friends. Our friend has had a lot of personal tragedy this year. And this is a very, very tough time for her.

Logan

micki76
03-25-2003, 10:52 AM
Oh no. :( Please Lord, take Cody's pain and give Karen strength.

I'm so sad to hear this. :( Can't stop crying. Oh, Karen I'm so, so sorry.

Cinder & Smoke
03-25-2003, 10:54 AM
Hello, God ~

Please, Dear God, be with and comfort Karen and Cody today...

Thanks, God.

:(

Peace be with you, Karen and Dear Cody.

/s/ Phred :(

gini
03-25-2003, 11:03 AM
I am so very sorry for you Karen and for Cody. You have many prayers coming your way for your comfort.

ramanth
03-25-2003, 11:07 AM
:( :(

My thoughts and prayers are with Cody. I do hope he pulls thru.

Many strong hugs for you Karen.

AdoreMyDogs
03-25-2003, 11:23 AM
Oh dear :( This is dreaded news. Karen, I can not find the right words now. It seems as if nothing that I right is adaquite for such a difficult time. You know how much we love you and Cody. I am so sorry. I will still hope for a miracle, as they do happen, but do know that we are here for you during this most difficult time.

I feel like I am losing one of my own dogs :( :( I can't stop crying :(

Cinder & Smoke
03-25-2003, 11:33 AM
CODY - Pet Talk's Dog of the Day ~ March 28, 2002 ~

http://DogoftheDay.com/archive/2002/March/28.jpg

And here is the Thread honoring Cody...
Cody's Dog of the Day Thread (http://PetoftheDay.com/talk/showthread.php?s=&threadid=9273)

May God be with you, Karen and Cody.

Rachel
03-25-2003, 11:35 AM
Dearest Cody is one of the original pets of Pet Talk. There is no more intense a love than the one Karen has for her boy.

Please, God, with our special friends today. They both need your care and love and peace.

lovemyshiba
03-25-2003, 11:51 AM
Oh, I feel so much worse after reading about poor Cody. Please God, take away Cody's pain, and Karen's too.
Cody is such a special boy, and so loved by everyone, especially his mommy.
Please please please let this boy be alright, and give Karen the strength she needs at this difficult time.

momoffuzzyfaces
03-25-2003, 11:57 AM
(((HUGS KAREN & CODY)))
I'm praying as hard as I can through the tears right now.

robinh
03-25-2003, 12:02 PM
I can find no words to tell you how much sadness I feel for Karen and for her dear boy, Cody. I have made this kind of terrible decision myself lately and my heart breaks for them.

Cody and Karen, you are in my thoughts and prayers today.

:(

03-25-2003, 12:11 PM
There are no right words for a situation like this...!
You are both in my prayers, Karen & Cody!

{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}

tatsxxx11
03-25-2003, 12:26 PM
I love you Karen, dear friend. And dear, sweet, precious Cody, I love you like one of my own and my heart is breaking. So many here love you and are praying for you Cody. My heart is breaking for my wonderful friend and her best friend. God, please be with Karen and Cody this day.

ChrisH
03-25-2003, 12:32 PM
Cody & Karen you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Hugs
Chris

slick
03-25-2003, 01:12 PM
I pray that God will be with both of you at this difficult time and give you, Karen, the strength to make any necessary decisions.

jackiesdaisy1935
03-25-2003, 01:48 PM
Karen, please know that many, many prayers are going to you and Cody from our home, we know how much Cody means to you and to all of us, in a sense he belongs to all of us. Please give him a hug and kiss from all of us here at PetTalk.
Jackie

Logan
03-25-2003, 02:00 PM
I was just reading all of your wonderful responses to our plea for prayers. And Phred, thank you so much for reminding us all of Cody's "Dog of the Day" honors!!! Going back and reading all of those wonderful posts of honor for Cody and Karen made my heart sing!!! :) Karen is a long time Pet Talk friend, and my very first acquaintance on Pet Talk, as a matter of fact.

This has been a sad day for many of us, knowing that she and Cody are hurting over this horrible illness. You have all come through like the champs I know you to be, and Karen will appreciate it more than you can imagine. Thank you so very much for being such good, loving friends. :)

Logan
03-25-2003, 03:07 PM
Karen just called and told me she is picking up Cody after 7 pm tonight. She wants him to be with her tonight and then she and her regular vet will discuss what to do in the morning.

She says she simply could not come here to talk about it yet, but she wants you to know how much she appreciates your prayers.

I'll keep you updated when I hear from her again.

Logan

jackiesdaisy1935
03-25-2003, 04:01 PM
Thanks for your update Logan, this is so sad, everytime I think about Karen and Cody it makes me cry. I'm hurting so much for them and feel so helpless.
Jackie

jenluckenbach
03-25-2003, 04:15 PM
prayers and hugs to both you Karen and to Cody.

Christiansmommy
03-25-2003, 05:06 PM
Karen, my prayers are with you and your sweet Cody. I am so sorry that this is all happening...i will pray that God will give you strength in this hard time and that you will have a special night tonight with your time with Cody :)((((HUGS)))

Robyn

Stenograsaurus
03-25-2003, 05:12 PM
This is heartbreaking news. Karen and Cody, I am praying for you. May God help you through this difficult time.

captain
03-25-2003, 05:17 PM
Karen,

I feel like Cody is one of my dogs .......... and am in tears too.

Strength, prayers and love are all I can send you during this difficult time. At least he is loved by someone as special as you ......

Karen
03-25-2003, 05:43 PM
Never has a doggie been more loved than you, Cody! We'll keep praying for you and your momma, okay?

Pianowoman41
03-25-2003, 06:16 PM
Logan, thank you for posting this on another site! Karen has been so kind to reply to my posts here at Pet Talk, and I remember her as a "charter" member along with Cody. I am so sorry to hear this news of Cody's illness. I am praying that a miracle may happen for him, but also, that he may have ultimately have comfort. Karen, I will keep you in my prayers. Take care.
Hugs,
Maggie and all her furbabies...Patsy, Mack, Foo-man, Macintosh, Bluesy, Louie, Pugsly, and Zoey (first two are dogs, last six are cats!)

Pam
03-25-2003, 07:12 PM
Karen I have e-mailed you but I just wanted to just say here that you and Cody have been one of the special teams here at Pet Talk ever since I can remember. Your early posts about your devotion to your big galoot got my attention right away. I think the outright expressions of devotion to him spoke to all of us who maybe felt timid being a little "mushy" when posting about our furkids. I am still in shock that this has all happened, and so quickly. I am praying for you and Cody and also your mom that He will give you some peace through all of this. Please know that I am here and care so much for you all. Phred thank you for putting Cody's picture in this thread. He is certainly one handsome and much loved pupster! Lots of love and (((hugs))), Pam xxoo

LoudLou
03-25-2003, 08:01 PM
May God be with you, Karen and Cody in this most difficult time. We send you both our heartfelt prayers and love.

LOUD Louie & The Beans....& Kate

KYS
03-25-2003, 08:11 PM
This is heart breaking news.
Karen, my heart is with you,
and I sending you both many good thoughts and prayers that
Cody will be well soon.
hugs Karen

trisha0503
03-25-2003, 09:34 PM
This breaks my heart.. Can't help but cry after reading this.. Haven't been around lately, and I got so shocked to see this thread... It breaks my heart a thousand pieces...

Karen-Wish we could all be there with you to comfort you ... You and Cody are so loved by lots of people here at PetTalk , and we want you to know that we're all here for you...

You and Cody will be in our prayers.. COdy is such a lucky pup to have a very loving Mom , like you.... Likewise, you're such a lucky Mom to have a pup, as wonderful as Cody....

Give him a tight hug, warm kisses, even with eyes filled with tears, Cody knows that he had the best times of his life .. I always believe in the power of prayers, and I'm absolutely sure that one of God's prayer line is solely dedicated to our precious Cody... May HIS mercy shine upon our one and only Cody....

HE knows what's best for us.. And I know that in the most difficult times of our life, God carries us in HIS arms....

We love you Karen and Cody.

And to you Karen - always remember this...

God never promised a smooth sailing... HE only promised a smooth landing...

Love and Prayers,
Rosebel

oodlesofpoodles
03-25-2003, 09:37 PM
My heart goes out to you Karen and your beloved Cody. I pray for a miracle tonight. Will Keep you in my thoughts as you go through this hard time. :(

Logan
03-26-2003, 08:47 AM
I spoke with Karen this morning. Cody was restless during the night, therefore she hasn't gotten much sleep, but she is just glad to be able to be with him. He is eating and drinking, panting and moaning. But the ER vet told her last night that she didn't think he was ready to leave just yet. Obviously, she has a lot of confusion and concern at this point, wanting to keep him with her as long as possible, but not wanting him to suffer at all.

She is going to call her regular vet today and confer with him. That's all she knows to do right now.

She said for me to please express her sincere thanks to all of you who have posted here and thank you for the wonderful emails too. She just isn't up to coming in and talking about it right now. I know you all understand that.

We will keep you posted. Still praying for some kind of miracle, here. :)

ramanth
03-26-2003, 09:20 AM
Thank you so much for the update Logan.

Still praying for a miracle.

*hugs*

gini
03-26-2003, 09:41 AM
Logan, thank you for updating us.......I came here first this morning to see if there was any news. Let's just hope Karen's regular vet has another opinion good for both Karen and Cody.

jackiesdaisy1935
03-26-2003, 09:51 AM
Thanks Logan, still praying for a miracle for Cody and Karen, I'm glad they are spending time together, let's hope for the best, prayers can be strong medicine.
Jackie, Perry and Miss Daisy

ParNone
03-26-2003, 11:11 AM
Sending positive vibes to Karen and Cody and thanks to Phred
for posting his pic. What a sweetheart of a pup! Hang in there
Cody!

momoffuzzyfaces
03-26-2003, 11:42 AM
Logan, please tell Karen we understand that she's not up to being here right now. I am still praying for them both.

lizbud
03-26-2003, 12:01 PM
Thank you Logan for relaying updates from Karen. I certainly
understand that Karen cannot do this herself right now.Just
wanted to pass along a message to Karen that she and Cody
are on my mind & in my heart during this difficult time.

Hugs, prayers ,positive thoughts and love as always. Liz.

Albea
03-26-2003, 12:45 PM
Dearest Karen, tears are drowning me thinking of how hard this must be for you. You and Cody are some of the first friends Carina and I made in Pet Talk and we love you both more than I can tell you.
Endless prayers are going your way with the hope that your sweet boy doesn't have to suffer any more pain. Many hugs to you both.

tatsxxx11
03-26-2003, 12:53 PM
We love you, dear friend. Sending you and that beautiful boy, the Codmeister, our strength, support and healing prayers. Talk to you later...ok? {{{hugs}}}

ChrisH
03-26-2003, 01:19 PM
Logan, thank you for posting the update from Karen. Please tell her that we all totally understand why she cannot do it herself. Please tell her too that prayers continue to be said and endless love sent for her & Cody.

Hugs
Chris

lovemyshiba
03-26-2003, 01:59 PM
Yes, thank you Logan for the update. Prayers still continued here, we're praying for a miracle. With Cody is where Karen should be, not on here.

slick
03-26-2003, 02:01 PM
Logan, thanks for the update. We three continue to send our love and prayers.

carrie
03-26-2003, 03:23 PM
Karen, you will know - at the right time you will know.
Until then honey, remember that there was a reason this creature came into your life to give you the support and love you needed and, I believe, to allow you both to experience the bond between species. When he is fulfilled and knows he has given and recieved what was needed he will let you know. Until then you fight your corner and his - when the time comes it will be hard, but it is OK. All souls here have a reason to be, they sadly have a reason to move on too. One of your reasons to be is to recognise and celebrate that. To have such an exceptional friend means your soul is an exceptional soul that deserves such as him.

Don't worry about hanging on too long - I promise you that you will know when it is time - and don't worry that you are saying goodbye. Life seems such a long time for us humans, it is less than a blink of an eye in the great scheme of things....

captain
03-26-2003, 04:32 PM
Karen,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

And don't ever worry, we understand that you are not up to being here .............. but we will always be here for you when you need us. No matter what.
Be strong, sweet boy.

Sudilar
03-26-2003, 05:19 PM
Oh, dear Karen!!! I just read this now. Poor, dear Cody! I am praying for that miracle! Please pull through this, Cody. We love you and do not want to let you go.

Karen, I am with you in heart. Know that I am praying very hard for Cody's recovery. Praying for courage and strength to be sent to both you and Cody.

{{{hugs}}}

Cataholic
03-26-2003, 05:23 PM
Karen and Cody,
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Johanna

Dixieland Dancer
03-26-2003, 05:28 PM
This is very heartbreaking news. I am having a difficult time typing my reply to this through my tears. :( Dear Karen, my prayers and thoughts are with you and sweet Cody. If you need a friend to be with you just let me know. I think you are only about 3 or 4 hours away.

Carrie's sentiments were beautifully put! It was nice to see her post again!! :D

shais_mom
03-27-2003, 01:20 AM
Karen, I am so sorry for your heartbreak.
Please know that you and Cody are in my thoughts and prayers, as tears stream down my face.
Love to you both.

oodlesofpoodles
03-27-2003, 06:18 AM
Karen, I don't really know you, but do know the heartache you are going through, How is your dear sweet Cody today, I pray that Cody is doing better.

Sudilar
03-27-2003, 08:01 AM
Hoping and praying for Cody and Karen. We need a miracle here. Anxiously awaiting an update. Thinking about you both constantly.

Logan
03-27-2003, 08:55 AM
Pam spoke with Karen this morning. She and Cody are hanging in there, together (as it should be). She said that he is eating and doing his business, as normal, but he is a very sick boy. She is taking one day at a time. Pam said that Karen was able to get on and read your loving responses last night. Thank you so much.

jackiesdaisy1935
03-27-2003, 09:03 AM
I'm wondering how Cody and you are doing today, I pray and hope that things look better. Please know that we are all with you in prayer and thought.
Jackie, Perry and Miss Daisy

Sudilar
03-27-2003, 09:09 AM
Oh dear Karen, do take one day at a time and fight, fight, fight. Even when it seems like there is no hope, miracles do happen and things can turn out ok. I know, I've been there. Needless to say, I am thinking about you and Cody constantly and praying for that miracle. Hehehe, I got the "pulling a Killian" message from Pam and it made me smile. How do they do that???:)

Corinna
03-27-2003, 09:39 AM
All here in prayer for the two of you.

K9karen
03-27-2003, 12:56 PM
Oh, my dear, dear, sweet loving friends... I hope I can type this, as the tears are just flowing like a river..... My wonderful vet, Dr. Fox, saw Cody last night. He immediately pulled his Jan 16 Xray of his thorax, chest, as that was the day he had his "stroke", which actually was older dog vertigo. He looked at the Xrays, and all was clear as a bell. Apparently, he has "eraser" size dots of cancer in his lungs as it masticized from somewhere else. His right leg isn't as swollen, but it is still huge. He can put pressure on it. The color of his skin under the fur is actually black, as of this morning, are his genitals, as he is "bleeding out" from somewhere. Right now he is barking at the gardners across the street but not his usual rough and tough bark, but enough to let them know they are in his territory! Saturday morning he was fine, ran down our slope in the back to bark at Loco, the lovely pitbull one house down. Later that night he could hardly get up or sit, I thought it was his arthritis from his ACL surgery. His left leg was tucked undeneath him. I gave him Rimydal and gated him in the den with me, so he couldn't do even 5 steps. I concentrated so much on the left leg, massaging and heat pack, that even tho I noticed his right knee "thick" he kept laying on that side so I didn't even see that it was swollen until the vet on Monday pointed it out. The vet (not Dr F.) called me late Monday night at 10p to tell me to take him to the emergency clinic ASAP, as he was EXTREMELY anemic. Since his records were faxed over, they took him right away, even with a room of 20 other people. By 1am, the new blood tests were back and his clotting factor was down, gums were light pink. So when they called me at work on Tuesday to give me the bad news, I almost passed out and had to take a cab home. I could barely handle the one day without him. The nurse neighbor thinks it's bone cancer in that leg, if animals react similar you humans, it would be very swollen. I got some mild pain killer this morning, smoething like Vioxx for dogs, as I didn't want a narcotic. He's still alert and loving, took him on a car ride today . He's still eating and because of all the steroids they gave him, pees every 1/2 hour, but I don't care. In the major skeme of things, it's so minor not to get sleep. I feel no guilt about anything. I never complained about taking him out at 3am (he never, ever peed in the house, even at 5 weeks) or walk every night for an hour even tho I was ill or exhausted. I'm just afraid to face the extreme pain of not having him in my life any more. I still had him after my dad died. Even though I know my dad will be there waiting, I'm having the worse time facing it..that I won't see those big brown eyes, my velcro pal won't cover me with hair, lay on the bed as I get dressed so he can play outside, sit and stare as I make his dinner..dog hair everywhere no matter how much I vacuum... The pain is unbearable. I feel like I'm having a heart attack. . I waited 41 years to get a dog, never played with dolls, always stuffed dogs. My first, premier dog, love of my life. A man and woman at the vet this morning walked from the back room in tears, and I knew right away, so I stopped her, burst into tears, told her, and she was so glad I was there, like an angel to comfort her. I felt her pain so badly, I had to sit down, I just lost it. Dr Fox gave me his home phone number, as he was the first to see Cotes at 4 weeks, and loved him dearly. He said I was the best owner, knew every inch of him and took great care of him. He even cried. I wouldn't want anyone else with me when the time comes. He said I would know too, so I hope all of you are right. I rambled enough, I had to get it off my chest, thank you for maybe reading this. I hope I still have a job, will probably show my face tomorrow. I;ve been taking lots of pictures since it snowed, and today, so as soon as I get them developed, my friend will post them. All these years, and "SLAP MYSELF" I hardly posted a picture. Shame on me. Procrastinated and stupidity. Big regrets on this. At least Cody didn't change one bit- as soon as I aimed the camera, he turned and walked away! Imagine, the goof=ball being camera shy when I have to tap him with the vacuum to move..... I'll stop now......I can NEVER repay your kindness. Just keep praying he goes peacefully without suffering too much, it's all I can ask for him. He deserves it.. Lots and lots of love to all.....Karen

anna_66
03-27-2003, 01:03 PM
I can't even imagine what you are going through right now, and I'm sorry I don't have something spectacular to say to make you smile; but know, my heart aches for the both of you as I write this. I haven't been around as long as alot of the others, but I knew how much you loved your boy. Enjoy every last minute you have with him.
Your friend
Anna {{{HUGS}}}

momoffuzzyfaces
03-27-2003, 01:06 PM
You and Cody remain in my prayers. I know how your heart is shattering right now. At least you know your Dad will be there to greet him and watch over him when the time comes. I know my parents are spoiling all my RB pets rotten right now.

We are here for you if you need us.

Sudilar
03-27-2003, 01:11 PM
Karen, I am crying so hard, I can barely type. As soon as I compose myself, I'll write more, but now I can't.

Just want you to know that I am with you, right there. I feel your pain totally. Must go.....crying too hard.......

lovemyshiba
03-27-2003, 01:30 PM
I'm trying not to cry too, it's so sad. Nothing I can say can make you feel better, but you know how wonderful Cody is, as we all do. It's great that your dad will be there waiting for him, and I pray that when the time does come, he goes peacefully and without suffering. I'm praying for you, also, I can only imagine how hard this is on you.

robinh
03-27-2003, 01:33 PM
Oh Karen :(

I can say I have recently been where you are right now and my heart aches for you. Spend every second you can with him - it is a precious time for you both.

But I can also say you will know when he needs you to make a decision. He trusts you to do the right thing and he'll love you even more for your courage!

I've never had the opportunity to meet you, but I know that I along with everyone else here want you to know that if you need to talk you need only ask. There isn't a one of us who is not feeling your pain right now.

ChrisH
03-27-2003, 03:09 PM
Karen, please know that you and Cody are in my heart and mind. I think all of us here are crying many tears and feeling your heartbreak. Sending prayers and love and hugs across the miles for you both.

much love
Chris

gini
03-27-2003, 03:28 PM
Karen, I completely understand what you are going through. I couldn't work or eat or sleep. All I wanted to do was be with my beloved Magic - a cat of a lifetime!!

Bless you for being such a loving and caring human for Cody. You have been brought together for a reason and truly will always be in each other's heart.

Not everyone would understand, but I used to put my hand on Magic and ask him if he could feel it - the pure love coming right from my heart to him. I know that this is how you feel about Cody.

Prayers will continue for you both.

Gini

jenluckenbach
03-27-2003, 03:30 PM
I pray that Cody doesn't suffer too much.:(

tatsxxx11
03-27-2003, 03:41 PM
I wish I could be with you dear, sweet friend to wipe away your tears and hold you tight. If you can, try, try, try to take some comfort in knowing that for all of the days of his life, your beautiful Cody, your best and most loyal friend, has known how very loved he is. It is the hardest thing we face as guardians of our beloved friends; letting them go. But I am so grateful to know you have such a caring vet to be there for you to lean on, to cry with, to share your memories with. And you know that each and everyone of us is there with you in spirit, sending you all the strength, love and support we can muster. Cody is the luckuest dog on earth to have such a devoted Mom like you. He will let you know, Karen. And when he does, as painful as it is for you, he will thank you for being so brave and selfless. Love you friend. Please give Cody the biggest hug you can. Love, Sandra

captain
03-27-2003, 04:26 PM
Tears flowing down my face as I write this ........ dear Karen.

You are in my thoughts and prayers. At least Cody is with you, and when it is his time, he will let you know. I wish you strength, love and laughter in this very difficult time.
Thanks so much for telling us what has been happening, even though it must have been so hard for you.

In our thoughts always
Love Captain, Ruby and Jo
(and me, Michelle)

P.S. As for dolls - BAH - stuffed dogs were always better! :)

Sudilar
03-27-2003, 04:36 PM
Karen, have strength, he's still with you. Mourn him when he's gone, but not now. Shower him with love, laughter, hugs, kisses, but no tears....not yet. There will be enough time for that later...
I pray for strength to help you through this. My heart is with you. Someone once said that Rainbow Bridge is a reward, not a punishment. I believe that.

I, too, had a favorite stuffed wolf, named Wolfie. What did I name my heart dog? Wolf.

Did the doctor say there is any treatment for this? Anything you can do? Any cancer protocols? Anything to fight this with?

tatsxxx11
03-27-2003, 04:43 PM
Sue is so right Karen. Get down on the floor and smell the scent of his sweet fur, bury your face in his soft neck, whisper in his ear "I love you," kiss his paws, laugh when you can. I know how hard it is for you, but he is still with you and is craving your love. Yes, shower him with love and I think your heart will feel a little lighter. {{{hugs}}}

Cinder & Smoke
03-27-2003, 04:56 PM
Hello, God ~

A Prayer for Karen and Cody...

Dear God,
Please reach down wiffa GodsPawz and hold
Karen and Cody reel tite ~
Till it's tyme to call Cody up to Your Howze.

And when that tyme comes ~
Could You have Cody's GranPaw stand on
the Bridge - to help guide him Home?

And God - Please leave the Lites On,
for Cody...

Thanks God.

/s/ the PrayerPupz

captain
03-27-2003, 04:59 PM
Phred,

Beautiful ..................

tatsxxx11
03-27-2003, 05:16 PM
Thank you Phred, Cinners and Smokey.

Karen
03-27-2003, 05:24 PM
Dear, dear Cody and dear Karen, thank you so much for letting us know what's going on. He knows you love him, and that's all that really counts, right? As much as you love him, is as much as it will hurt when that time comes. We have been through it, and you know you can lean on any one of us. And you know what? I bet we could start collecting extra goldy-yellow dog hair to send you, if you ever need it! They always seem to have plenty to share, don't they.

We love you and Cody, you remember that part, and we will ALWAYS listen to another Cody story as long as you want to tell them.

Now go sniff those Frito feet!

KYS
03-27-2003, 05:41 PM
Dear Karen,
I wish I could hold you and Cody, and make
everything all-right.
Please give Cody special hugs from all of us.
We love you both.

Karen

Rachel
03-27-2003, 06:39 PM
Originally posted by gini


Not everyone would understand, but I used to put my hand on Magic and ask him if he could feel it - the pure love coming right from my heart to him. I know that this is how you feel about Cody.


What a touching gesture, Gini. There are probably quite a few of us who do understand and because of Karen's heartache are spending more of that kind of quality time with our own fur kids.

I have read everyone's posts and Karen's reply, and can just picture in my mind all of us in a big group hug. When I got to Phred's prayer, the tears came again.

Pam
03-27-2003, 07:17 PM
Karen, it's me again. I can't get you out of my mind even for a minute. You and Cody are in my heart and I ache for the situation you are in now, having been there myself before. It is just awful and there is no other word to describe it. We take these pets into our lives knowing they will not be with us long and we say, OK when the time comes I will be able to deal with it. That is not so, as you are finding. You are a dear, dear friend and I wish I could be with you. For now, just know that I am asking God for comfort for you and for no pain for Cody. Phred the prayer was beautiful and started the tears again. {{{hugs to you Karen and Cody}}} I love you guys!

iwuvsmypuppy
03-27-2003, 09:29 PM
there is nothing i can really say to that other than ya'll will be in my thoughts:( :(

AdoreMyDogs
03-27-2003, 09:32 PM
Phred, what a beautiful poem. I just can't stop the tears, especially after reading all your beautiful posts, everyone.

Karen I just don't know what to say. You will know when Cody wants to go to the Rainbow Bridge. He'll tell you and you just love him and cherish him for the remaining time you have with him. We are here for you, friend.

Hugs, peace and love from Leslie, Graham, Kersey & Minion.

lovemyshiba
03-27-2003, 09:39 PM
What a beautiful prayer from Phred, Cinners and Smoke.

I can't stop crying now, and I'm going to go and hug my furbabies. Spend your precious time with Cody, he loves you so much.

K9karen
03-27-2003, 10:06 PM
Can't sleep.... Except for panting more than usual, and not quite as active, Cody played "grab the Squeeky", sat as I prepared his food (ate all except one bite, but then again, he got extra treats today). I spooned him and whispered sweet everythings and carressed him so that I'd never forget his feel. Funny..I do that ALL the time anyway, but it seems more special now. And yes,..Karen, you are a mindreader..I DID smell his Frito feet..he stuck those gigantic footsies right in my face and I just HAD to snicker.....I gave him his doggie Vioxx about 1/2 hour ago and he is resting comfortably, still watching my every move like a hawk. Your prayers are helping...I haven't cried in a few hours. I decided to try and enjoy every second with him. I'll miss him terribly when I go to work tomorrow. Thank you so much for the lovely prayer, Phred,,,it was so beautiful. My dad didn't see the Cotes for over a year. I tried taking him to the nursing home but he was petrified out of his territory. When my dad was still home, he watched my dad's every move. It was amazing, like his guardian, even tho he knew dad wasn't involved with his care towards the end. So I do get comfort knowing dad will take good care of his "handsome boy". Oops..sob, sob. I made myself cry... Happy news tho.. I heard my mom talking to my niece...and yes, we will get another poochie. Mom said she doesn't mind, despite her terrible allergies, I love dogs and I deserve to be happy..! She doesn't know I heard this! I'm off to smother her with hugs and kisses...more than usual. Even tho we've gone through awful sad times in 6 months...I don't know what I'd do without her. What a trooper! What would I so without all of you? I just don't know..... I hope you feel my love.... Thanks you all for your PM's and phone calls..so comforting...

Pam
03-28-2003, 05:35 AM
Karen thank you for writing this. The tone of your note sounds good. I'm so glad you had a little bit of play time with Cody. I know your hands are never off his furry body for long, as he is the recipient of mega kisses and huggies, so I know he will miss you today. I hope he has a good day and that you will too. I know you will be checking in with Mom today. I'm happy to hear that you are going to be able to welcome another pupster into your home after a bit. This precious one will never replace Cody, as you are well aware, but will love you to pieces and you will have a little furry body to once again shower kisses on. Karen, you are just about the bestest doggie mommy I ever did know. I am thinking of you constantly. I wish Cody knew how many humans out there love him and are praying for him and his mommy.

Cookiebaker
03-28-2003, 07:10 AM
Karen, I just wanted to tell you that you & Cody are in my thoughts and prayers. I am praying for comfort & strength for you. I can't imagine what you are going through right now, and my heart aches for you. Please hug Cody from all of us...

~~Anna & Malone

Sudilar
03-28-2003, 08:30 AM
Thinking of Cody and you, Karen. Give Cody a big hug and little kisses from me today! Glad to hear you are considering being owned by another dog. Hope today is a good day!

Cinder & Smoke
03-28-2003, 10:07 AM
Prayers and warm, Fuzzy thoughts continue...

Corinna
03-28-2003, 11:19 AM
Karen I do know how you are feeling I still , cry when I see pictures of my cocker Patsy and it was 25 years ago. i had her before we adopted my brother. In time it is easier to look but I still do cry. If you brush your love I will spin it for you to have a lovely "gold memory" to hold and feel the softness. I will pm you my address.
You are in our prayers here and in many on the board, accept the love and comfort in this painfull time. We all care about you .

ramanth
03-28-2003, 11:37 AM
I was fighting the tears until Phred's post. What a wonderful community this is.

Karen my heart is breaking, but I'm still praying for a miracle.

Give Cody a hug for me.

*HUGS*

lizbud
03-28-2003, 12:02 PM
Karen,

Thank you for updating everyone this morning. I hope your
workday goes smoothly & quickly and that you & Cody can
enjoy your weekend time together.Love & prayers for both
of you. Liz & Moki.

sammi
03-28-2003, 12:05 PM
Karen, You and Cody are in my thoughts and prayers today. Will hope that you have comfort and strength to get through this sad time. I am sorry you are so heart broken.

zippy-kat
03-28-2003, 01:44 PM
Prayers for a peaceful heart, strenth, courage, and a big box of tissues are bein' sent to you, Karen. May the warmth of memories and shoulders of friends carry you through.

robinh
03-28-2003, 02:38 PM
Karen, you and Cody continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. My hope for you both that you have a wonderful weekend together.

I will echo zippy-kat's eloquent words "May the warmth of memories and shoulders of friends carry you through."

Hugs to you both!!

tatsxxx11
03-28-2003, 02:43 PM
Thanks Karen for sharing your beautiful moments with Cody with us. I can just picture the two of you "spooning..":) I hope Cody is having a good day home with Grammie. And I'm sure he'll be so happy to see his Mommy when you get home. Sending you all my love and prayers.

slick
03-28-2003, 06:57 PM
So nice to get an update. We continue to have you and Cody in our thoughts and prayers. Please give Cody some extra kisses from me.

K9karen
03-28-2003, 07:15 PM
Hi..needless to say, if I had wings, I would have flown home! Two updates w/mom today were good . The very second I walked in the door and was greeted by my boy, wagging tail and squeeky in mouth, I burst into uncontrollable sobs of happiness and thoughts of an uncertain future.... He was starved and ate all of dinner! Did his outdoor duties.. and it looked to me like his leg is less swollen. Mom noticed it too. He has less problem sitting, laying down and getting up. My concern now is the discoloration (deep purple) around his genitals and uretha. I took a urine sample and just dropped it off at the vet. I don't recall anyone taking a sample. Mom and I are now in a denial stage. He is so normal today, compared with the last few days. I hope it's not the calm before the storm. I'm going to call the U of Penna Vet Hospital tomorrow and set up a 2nd opinion appt with an internist. My best friend's sister in law, who is a tech at my vet, saw me tonight and being an experienced animal person, also is skepical, tho of course it's her opinion. She said it was fluid in the leg obviously, but like us, is curious to find out WHERE the cancer originated. That's the part I can't stand. The not knowing. Stomach and Liver were ruled out. Anyway, I'm desperate I guess. I'd do the same thing with any human. Maybe I need to be hit over the head. But I know every morsel of that dog. I'm just the kind of person who needs an answer and details, then I can accept it. I said a prayer driving home that all your prayers have helped, and that maybe God took a second out from his busy schedule, especially thanks to Phred's "in" to maybe answer our prayers. I know things happen for a reason, but I'm still in another world. I'd never cope without all of you. I love you all. Thanks again. Here's praying for an uneventful weekend...xoxoxoxox

Cincy'sMom
03-28-2003, 08:06 PM
Glad to hear Cody is doing better today. We'll keeping praying that you have a wonderful weekend together and that the internist will have a better prognosis. Give Cody a big hug for us!

robinh
03-28-2003, 08:21 PM
This is good news and I'm still praying for a miracle. Keep us posted on Cody's progress. In the meantime, have a good weekend and absorb all the Cody you can! He'll be just as happy about it as you will - you know he loves you just as much as you love him.

RockyRoad
03-28-2003, 09:52 PM
I cannot believe I have missed this thread.

Karen, you and Cody are in my thoughts and prayers. I'm glad Cody is doing better today, and we will pray it continues. Please give Cody a big hug from me.
{{{Hugs}}}
Britt

Sudilar
03-28-2003, 10:15 PM
So glad to hear of some improvement. I'm glad you are going to the University. I hope you can get some answers there. Maybe there is a protocol that can help dear Cody. You are constantly on my mind and in my prayers. I hope you both have a good weekend. Hang in there. {{{hugs}}}

Karen
03-28-2003, 10:17 PM
You go, Cody! Squeak that toy, thump that tail! P.S. Beg for extra treats, cause she'll give in quick right now! :)

zippy-kat
03-28-2003, 11:20 PM
HUGGS to you Codmeister!!!! And one for your momma too!!!

Cinder & Smoke
03-28-2003, 11:31 PM
{{{ :) :) :) }}}

gini
03-28-2003, 11:54 PM
Bless your heart sweet Cody.......give your Mom some extra attention this weekend...........and now that Cinder and Smoke are on the prayer line.........look out.........they have been known to get immediate results.

shais_mom
03-29-2003, 12:14 AM
GOOO Cody!!!
Still keepin you in my thoughts and prayers Big Galoot!!!:P

jenluckenbach
03-29-2003, 04:49 AM
Good for you Cody!:) Glad to see you perked up a bit.:)

tatsxxx11
03-29-2003, 05:27 AM
That's our boy!!:) Karen, I'm SO glad you're contacting the Univ. for a 2nd opinion. I think getting the whole picture is important for you and for Cody. Perhaps there IS a course of treatment for the Codmeister!!:) I was so thrilled to hear of the wonderful reception you got when you came home!:) Oh, dare we hope for a miracle???? Prayers and positive thoughts continue!!!!!! Keep squeakin' Cody!!:D

sasvermont
03-29-2003, 05:46 AM
Karen and Cody,

I am typing through my tears. Yikes. Such an awful time for you both. I am happy to hear that Cody has improved somewhat and that the U of Pa. is taking a look at Cody.

You will be in my thoughts and prayers for sure.

Rest easy - be strong - prayers coming your way.

Sas and her brats

ChrisH
03-29-2003, 05:51 AM
It gladdens my heart to read of Codys greeting with a waggy tail and sqeeky in his mouth, his eating all his dinner and also finding moving a little easier!:) I hope you both have a real good weekend with more improvements and good things happening. :)
Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.

Hugs and lots & lots of love.
Chris:)

Pam
03-29-2003, 06:33 AM
Karen this is just great news! A toy in his mouth! It doesn't get much better than that!! :) I always find myself a little amazed at what prayer can do. I know many Pet Talkers have been praying for you two, and now that he is showing some improvement I just want to take a minute here and say Thank You God! May this be only the beginning. I am hoping you will get some good news from the U of P. (((hugs)))

lovemyshiba
03-29-2003, 08:00 AM
Great News!!!!
Keep getting better Cody--we want to see your happy face!!!!!!

Logan
03-29-2003, 08:05 AM
Good morning, Karen and Cody. I hope you both got some much needed rest last night. Karen, I'm so glad you've decided to investigate this further, especially glad you're doing it through a teaching facility. One can only hope that they see something that can be done. I know you will do the right thing for your boy, regardless. Hug him tight for me, please, and tell him I love him. Love you too! :)

Logan

anna_66
03-29-2003, 08:08 AM
Glad to hear he's feeling better today!
I'm happy that your getting a second oppinion:)
I'll still be praying for a miracle!

Rachel
03-29-2003, 08:16 AM
Karen I am so glad to know that there are some positive signs and the progression of whatever is going on seems like it will give you time. I know you appreciate every second that you can spend with your boy. Although I don't want you to get your hopes up too high, I do feel that there is a possibility that someone at the U of P might at least have the wherewithall to treat some of the symptoms he is experiencing so whatever weeks or months he has left with you will not be painfull. And who knows...miracles do happen. I do hope you will be able to get him in for an evaluation.

Now you must keep your strength up for him. That means eating right and trying to stay calm and not dwell on the severity of this situation. It is what it is and it is horrible, but you must try to eat and gets some rest too. OKAY?

Sudilar
03-29-2003, 08:43 AM
Originally posted by tatsxxx11
Oh, dare we hope for a miracle

They DO happen!! Praying for one!

How ya doin' this morning, Cody and Karen?

trisha0503
03-29-2003, 10:05 AM
This is good news !:) Miracles do happen, right? !

Don't we all wish, we could make a group hug, together with all of our pets ? (I'm afraid, Karen and COdy will be squeezed ;) )

We're continue praying for you Karen and Cody .. You're so much loved by everybody , I feel nothing but love and concern while reading the posts... What a wonderful group of people we have here.. I'm so amazed, yet so hard to imagine that you could feel this kind of love to someone that you haven't even met... We cried and smiled together,waiting for a little sign of improvement.... Through thick and thin....

Sweet Cody - hang in there sweetheart... we love you...

And to you Karen - stay strong our friend... be still.. We love you dearly....

Love,
Rosebel, Missy, Toby and Muffy

tatsxxx11
03-29-2003, 10:58 AM
How are you feeling today, Cody??? I hope you had a good night's sleep and got in lots of cuddle time with your Mom! And I hope your Mom got some rest too! We're thinking of you both. Please let us know how you're doing, sweetie, ok??

Kfamr
03-29-2003, 12:23 PM
Reading the first few posts gave me shivers and tear in my eyes. I'm so glad Cody is seeming better. Sweet boy hang in there! Karen, you too. Please give him hugs and kisses from all of us. We love you both!:)

sisterdog
03-29-2003, 01:31 PM
Karen, you and Cody are in my prayers. I hope he continues to improve, and that the University can help him more. Best wishes for the weekend - enjoy all the time together you can.

aly
03-29-2003, 01:56 PM
Karen, I am so sorry I haven't replied until now. Every time I start to read this thread, I start crying so hard I have to leave the computer. But you have been in my thoughts and prayers. I am so sorry you are going through this. Its wonderful to hear that he's doing better. Please try to stay strong and know how many people are praying for you and Cody. You're a very special person and I'm sure Cody takes after his mama. And when the time comes, Cody will be able to see your father again. I am sure they will both love that. You've given Cody such a wonderful and happy life. Just remember that. And remember you both have a special place in all of our hearts and we are all thinking of you.

tatsxxx11
03-30-2003, 12:12 PM
How's Cody doing today, Karen??? Hoping for a good report.:)

Cisco's Mom
03-30-2003, 06:15 PM
Cisco and I are def. keeping Cody in our prayers. I'm sorry to hear of this and I pray that Cody will be pain free.:(

jackiesdaisy1935
03-30-2003, 09:47 PM
Yes and how is our Cody today, I hope he is still doing well. Lots of hugs going his way.
Jackie

micki76
03-30-2003, 10:18 PM
Originally posted by Corinna
If you brush your love I will spin it for you to have a lovely "gold memory" to hold and feel the softness. I will pm you my address.
Corinna- that's marvelous. I've heard of this before. What a wonderful thing that would be to have. I still have my Stolly's brush filled with a small amount hair from the last time I brushed his beautiful little white body, and I treasure it. I hope Karen takes you up on this.

Karen- I hope you and Cody had a wonderful weekend filled with lots of tail wagging and stinky feet and slobbery kisses. :) Hope Cody's hangin' in there and you're doing ok.

sammi
03-30-2003, 10:28 PM
I also have been thinking of you and Cody this weekend. I hope everything is ok.

Cinder & Smoke
03-30-2003, 10:53 PM
Hi, Cody ~

SmokeMutt here...

Missed seein ya atta BarkPark tuday!!

Hope ya had a lotta Qualitee Tyme wiff yer Mom this weekend!

Me, Cinder, and Dad are all hopin fur da Best wiff ya!!

Love :) Always,

Pam
03-31-2003, 05:47 AM
Karen, I thought of you all weekend and hope that you had a good weekend with the Big Galoot. I hope you will get a chance to type an update today while you are at work. (((hugs)))

anna_66
03-31-2003, 06:43 AM
Just wondering how Cody was doing today:)

Logan
03-31-2003, 07:08 AM
Perhaps no news is good news??? I am certainly hoping so. Karen, I have thought about you non-stop all weekend long, but didn't call because I didn't want to interrupt the lovin sessions going on at your house!! Check in please!!! :)

Rachel
03-31-2003, 07:14 AM
I too am checking in to see how Cody's weekend went. Karen, we know you have priorities that need to be attended to, but if there is a spare minute, let us know. Like the others said, you are on our mind and in our prayers.

lovemyshiba
03-31-2003, 07:43 AM
I have also been thinking of you this weekend, and would love to hear an update. I agree, maybe no news is good news:)
Hope you're feeling better, Cody!!

tatsxxx11
03-31-2003, 07:44 AM
I spoke with Karen last night and she was pretty upbeat and thinking positively. It was so good to hear her laughing and joking, again. Cody's still doing quite well. His spirits seem good and he seems to still enjoy his outies and snuggling, loving, etc. He eats sporadically; sometimes a good portion, at other times he's a bit more picky. She wonders if his mouth is hurting, and started thinking about the vet's comment about possible autoimmune deficieny and Killian's troubles with his mouth and possible liver involvement. But he did enjoy a "late night snack" with Karen the other night...a little Entenmann's jelly donut!:D The good news is his leg and his "private parts" are looking lots better; the swelling has gone down and they are not as blue. Now that she's over the overwhelming shock of the initial findings, she thinking that she really needs to know the diagnosis. He has those small spots on his lungs, but the vet said that they are secondary sights. She wonders about his clotting deficiency and anemia. They never did an ultrasound or cat scan or MRI, SO, she plans on calling U. of Penn. today to sched. an MRI to try and get a the root of the problem. She is concerned though that they may have to mildly sedate him and wonders what affect that will have on his condition...she will discuss it with them before making a final decision. She said she really needs to know what she is dealing with before deciding how to proceed. She doesn't want to prolong any suffering. But, if there is anything they can do for him, she wants to know that too. On a sweet note, she told me that she, her Mom and Cody all camp out in the den at night to sleep. Cody on the floor on his blankie with Karen and Mom on separate couches! They both want to be near their boy in case he needs them!:) Karen will be checking in later!! Paws crossed for perhaps some encouraging news!!!

Sudilar
03-31-2003, 09:04 AM
Thanks for the update, Sandra. I have been waiting anxiously for it.

I'm glad Cody is doing at least a bit better. I think it is a great idea to get as good a diagnosis as possible. It gives you something to fight with. If you know what you are dealing with, you can get ideas on how to fight it. Good luck on all the testing, though. If you have any questions about liver or autoimmune disease (or now even lympatosic sarcoma), please ask me. Killian has been very mildly sedated at times for some procedures successfully.

My heart goes out to you on what you are going through. Take one day at a time and shower Cody with love as much as you can (I know you do!!) Yes, I've also slept with my dogs in the family room when they were too sick to come upstairs to sleep. I've even done that with both fosters (one on the kitchen floor, sharing a pillow). Our dogs are family, even if they are furry! I am praying for a miracle here. Good luck to you and Cody. Know that you are in my thoughts and prayers constantly!

jackiesdaisy1935
03-31-2003, 09:18 AM
Thanks for the update Sandra, prayers are still going to Karen and Cody, of course we all pray for a miracle for that sweet boy.
I hope there is good news today, and I'm glad Karen is starting to feel better.
Jackie

ramanth
03-31-2003, 09:52 AM
Thanks so much for the update!!

Hang in there Cody! *HUGS*

Rachel
03-31-2003, 12:06 PM
Karen is having trouble logging on to PT from work. This is an update she just sent....

Terrible Saturday night, better Sunday, but ate very little, drank a lot and peed a lot. Gave him medicine at 8 pm so he slept soundly, though I didn't, watching his every move especially after he had a coughing spell.

Did his duty this morning, drank, laid in the foyer for hugs and kisses when I left. I just spoke to my mother and Cody hasn't drank or eaten all day or gone to the bathroom. The vet just called with the results from his urine test and it looks like he's starting to get kidney failure. I know there's nothing I can do, but my heart is breaking seeing him like this, not taking his walks or playing. It's very very sad. Depending on how he is tonight when I get home from work. I'll make the dreaded decision. He doesn't deserve to suffer.

Thanks to everyone for your hopes and prayers. I always hoped this day wouldn't come. It's the worst decision I ever had to make..... K9Karen

Sudilar
03-31-2003, 12:33 PM
Rachel, thank you for the update.

Karen, my heart is breaking. I am with you in spirit.
I had hoped that you would be able to fight this, but it doesn't look like this is possible. I am still praying for a miracle. Your pain is being shared by many. Feel the strength and courage we are sending you. Give Cody all my love and take some for yourself and your Mom, too. I hope that there is better news when you get home from work.
{{{{{HUGS}}}}}

DoggiesAreTheBest
03-31-2003, 12:44 PM
I am so sorry to hear that Cody is not doing too well. He is in my thoughts, Karen. Hang in there.

anna_66
03-31-2003, 12:52 PM
I'm at a loss for words here. Please know that we're thinking about you and are hoping for the best.
Anna

slick
03-31-2003, 01:06 PM
You are in our thoughts and prayers. I pray that you have the strength to make the right decision if necessary.

Albea
03-31-2003, 01:18 PM
Dear Karen,
I'm so sad for you and Cody, I don't find words to tell you anything that might help, but I found this poem and think it's very beautiful in this time of sorrow.
Alicia

From Friend to Friend

You're giving me a special gift,
So sorrowfully endowed,
And through these last few cherished days,
Your courage makes me proud.

But really, love is knowing
When your best friend is in pain,
And understanding earthly acts
Will only be in vain.

So looking deep into your eyes,
Beyond, into your soul,
I see in you the magic, that will
Once more make me whole.

The strength that you possess,
Is why I look to you today,
To do this thing that must be done,
For it's the only way.

That strength is why I've followed you,
And chose you as my friend,
And why I've loved you all these years...
My partner 'til the end.

Please, understand just what this gift,
You're giving, means to me,
It gives me back the strength I've lost,
And all my dignity.

You take a stand on my behalf,
For that is what friends do.
And know that what you do is right,
For I believe it too.

So one last time, I breathe your scent,
And through your hand I feel,
The courage that's within you,
To now grant me this appeal.

Cut the leash that holds me here,
Dear friend, and let me run,
Once more a strong and steady dog,
My pain and struggle done.

And don't despair my passing,
For I won't be far away,
Forever here, within your heart,
And memory I'll stay.

I'll be there watching over you,
Your ever faithful friend,
And in your memories I'll run,
...a young dog once again.

In Memory of Asta, Feb. 1997
(c) Karen Clouston

Logan
03-31-2003, 01:21 PM
I can't say much, Karen, that hasn't already been said. You know that you and Cody are loved........and none of us can be there with you, but when it is time, we are here for you, as we are right now.

Love you.
Logan :(

Cinder & Smoke
03-31-2003, 01:22 PM
Hello, God ~

A Prayer for Karen and Cody...

Dear God,
Please reach down wiffa GodsPawz and hold
Karen and Cody reel tite ~
Till it's tyme to call Cody up to Your Howze.

And when that tyme comes ~
Could You have Cody's GranPaw stand on
the Bridge - to help guide him Home?

And God - Please leave the Lites On,
for Cody...

Thanks God.

/s/ the PrayerPupz

lovemyshiba
03-31-2003, 01:54 PM
I really don't have anything to say--just remember we are all here for you, and feel your pain also.
I know you will make the right decision, I'm glad you all got to spend that quality time together this weekend.

Cincy'sMom
03-31-2003, 04:02 PM
Know that we are thinking of you and praying for you.

captain
03-31-2003, 04:09 PM
Albea - that was beautiful, in tears now ....

Karen, thought and prayers with you now and always.
Be strong, brave Cody boy.

Karen
03-31-2003, 04:51 PM
We love you Karen, and Cody boy, too. Just because it's a right decision, doesn't mean it's any easier. But if it's today, just remember that he will live on not only on Dog of the Day's archive pages, and in your heart, but in all of ours as well.

Never was a doggie more loved, nor will there ever be.

Pam
03-31-2003, 04:58 PM
Karen so many of us have walked down this road that you are now on and know exactly what you are feeling right now. Your sadness brings these raw feelings back to the surface and the emotion and the grief is horrible. There is no other way to describe it. I know with my dogs all I had to do was look in their eyes and I knew they were at the end of what they could bear. I did it for them, certainly not for me. I pray that God will give you the strength when it is time and Cody will show you. (((Hugs))) to you my special friend.

K9karen
03-31-2003, 05:58 PM
I can't believe it! I am beside myself with glee! :D :D According to my mom. who satuated him with puppy rubs today and tried to get him to eat/drink, Cody never moved from this AM position. I was beside myself at work, esp; since the vet tech called and said he was in the throes of kidney failure. Be still my heart.... I sat in my car in the driveway tonight, preparing myself for what I would see.... When I opened the door, I was greeted by a happy pupster face, waggy tail, squeaky toy and I totally lost control of my emotions! I'm SO sorry to have frightened everyone to death.... think how I felt with those grim messages... Mom apologizes anad thinks my sweet-potata must have missed me terribly as I stayed home a few days with him. He ate like a normal piggy..his food plus 2 George Foreman grilled thick hamburgers for some protein and strength! And he begged at the table under my feet..1st time in a week... He still looks chunky standing sideways, but when I look over the top, he has a lovely hourglass physique...not that I want him sleek from being sick, but he actually looks good. Guess who's at my feet as I type this? .. Today would have been my dad's b-day so I thanked him profusely for letting me keep Cody at least one more day.... Have no idea what tomorrow may bring, but so far, right now, I feel so blessed.... I desperately need to smother my dear boy with a zillion kisses and hugs... Thank you for all your prayers and poems and support- you are my strength... I love you all so very much....

momoffuzzyfaces
03-31-2003, 06:04 PM
We love you right back! Please give that sweetie a big old hug from me, ok?:D

captain
03-31-2003, 06:12 PM
Karen - :D <- gleeful face!!!

Oh Cody - you are giving us all smiling faces!!!!!

Keep on eating and begging sweetheart boy. Love and hugs from us

robinh
03-31-2003, 06:12 PM
I'm so happy to hear that you get more time with your baby! I broke into tears when I read your post. Enjoy every minute you have and while you're spoiling him, make sure to give him hugs and kisses from all of us. His fighting spirit has given all of us great joy.

:D :D

Sudilar
03-31-2003, 06:29 PM
Oh Karen, I was so thrilled to hear your great report!!!! Wonderful!!! I believe your father gave you a sign today. :D Take each day at a time!! Good boy, Cody, keep eating!!! Hugs to you!!

Logan
03-31-2003, 06:48 PM
One day at a time......that's all you can do!!! And what a wild day you've had today. :rolleyes: Cody, you just keep begging, fella. She'll do whatever you want her to, and that's exactly what you need her to do right now!!! :)

Love you all, Blanche too!! :D

tatsxxx11
03-31-2003, 07:10 PM
Just talked to Karen...she was happily and contently SLEEPING!!!!!!!! (Of course, I woke her up!:rolleyes: Cody's still doing great~~ Oh, what a relief!!!!! She'll think about an evaluation tomorrow.

Rachel
03-31-2003, 07:25 PM
Karen had a some pictures that were taken in early March that she would like posted. I'm going to do my favorite one first.
http://www.imagestation.com/picture/sraid57/p1b11ff68e048a5f95e15dd868b23c780/fc6996a6.jpg

She said this next one is *Get the Mailman*http://www.imagestation.com/picture/sraid57/pb5b9ae49900bc48df1c0dad294e43e98/fc69969f.jpg

gini
03-31-2003, 07:28 PM
I dreaded coming to this thread, fearing the worst, but knowing that Karen might need all of our support.

Karen, next time you get down on the floor with Cody and give him a big 'ol snuzzle - will you tell him that it is from me.

What wonderful news today brings.

Rachel
03-31-2003, 07:31 PM
http://www.imagestation.com/picture/sraid57/pcba4e2d9e7f6e836b4e90f19f8de5f78/fc699605.jpg

http://www.imagestation.com/picture/sraid57/p4fed80d8902b49916118038c5a9c9974/fc6996a3.jpg

captain
03-31-2003, 07:46 PM
Rachel,

Thanks for sharing those. Such a beauty!!!! (Cody too ......:D )

Cody ............. "Wherezzzzzzz the Mailman?"

Aspen and Misty
03-31-2003, 08:13 PM
Originally posted by Rachel
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http://www.imagestation.com/picture/sraid57/p1b11ff68e048a5f95e15dd868b23c780/fc6996a6.jpg


:eek: WOW:eek: You two make a very nice couple! So adorable! Omg, he is sooo preciouse!!!

I'm glad he is feeling better, hopefully he will continue to feel better.

Ash

Sudilar
03-31-2003, 08:14 PM
Such beautiful pictures!! Karen and Cody, you are both gorgeous!!! Thanks for posting them, Rachel!

Cincy'sMom
03-31-2003, 08:40 PM
Wonderful pictures!!! Cody...you milk it for all it's worth..let mommie make you those burgers!!! Glad to hear this evening has been a little better, Karen. Hang in there!

Cookiebaker
04-01-2003, 05:54 AM
Wow! What beautiful Pictures!!

So good to hear that Cody is eating again...we are still praying for comfort and strength for you!!!!

AdoreMyDogs
04-01-2003, 06:18 AM
Thank you, Rachel, for posting those wonderful photos of Karen and her Cody. The first one is my favorite also. Karen, I am so glad to hear that Cody will be with you for longer. Eating and begging are very good signs. Way to go, Cody! Way to go, Karen! I am still thinking about that gorgeous boy daily, and I am hoping that he gets to spend more time here on earth with his human family that loves him so much. He is one very special boy and we all love him to pieces, and you too, Karen. Please give him a kiss and a hug for me.

Love,

Leslie, Graham, Kersey & Minion

anna_66
04-01-2003, 06:28 AM
Thanks Rachel for sharing them with us:)

Cody, you just keep on feeling better & Karen keep hoping for the best. Seems like all our prayers are working;)

Sudilar
04-01-2003, 07:51 AM
How are dear Cody and Karen doing today (and Mom, too)? Hoping it was a good night.

tatsxxx11
04-01-2003, 08:16 AM
Keep up the good work, Cody!!:) You sure did your Mommy's heart well, eating and begging and pleading for lovies last night. I hope you have a good day today too, sweet boy! The precious pictures of you and your Mom brought a tear to my eye! What a team!!:) Love and hugs.....

gini
04-01-2003, 08:17 AM
Just checking in and hoping that you both had a good night and that today will be a good day too.

Corinna
04-01-2003, 08:43 AM
Glad to hear things are on an up note. Hope they continue.
Yes Karen and I have been talking about the yarn idea for her But for now I'm just letting her enjoy him and maybe collecting more .

ramanth
04-01-2003, 09:47 AM
Yay! So happy to hear he is eating and begging. Cody, you sweatheart. :D

And the pictures are lovely!

*HUGS*

DoggiesAreTheBest
04-01-2003, 10:02 AM
Great pictures! Thank you for posting them Rachel.

Glad to hear that Cody is eating and doing better. He is such a handsome boy!

Albea
04-01-2003, 11:19 AM
That's great news. I do hope you can report more happy days with Cody.:) Love and hugs for you both.

K9karen
04-01-2003, 03:45 PM
Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! For all your prayers and terribly sweet comments..The photo of me and Cody was taken on Saturday past when he wasn't doing too great, as my makeupless, puffy face shows. It was a beautiful day and I wanted him to enjoy it. Sorry they came out dark. Thanks Rach for posting for me. And it looks like for the time being, all your wonderful prayers are working, and yes, I said an extra prayer to dad to please not be too anxoius waitng for Cody, to give me some extra time. Looks like mom was right, he misses me more than ever when I'm gone. I'm usually off on Wed's but took today off instead and Cody was as normal as can be, except for a huge rear right leg, which doesn't impede his doing stairs or hills. I know it's just a matter of time and that I should relish every second, I do. It's hard to tell how much weight he lost, as he's very ribby so at this point, I give him whatever he wants, no more diets! I don't know what tomorrow will bring but I am enjoying today like a madwoman! I slobbered more on Cody than he did me...all day kisses.
Sandra..you caught me with my after dinner nap, since Cody no longer wants to walk.. thanks for waking me up or I would have missed CSI!!:eek:
There are no words to tell you how I love you all, sight unseen, friends forever. My soulmates and blessed souls.......
xoxox Karen & Cody

Sudilar
04-01-2003, 03:56 PM
So glad to hear that Cody is having another good day and you, too, Karen. Still praying for that miracle. We need that leg to stop swelling! Thinking of Cody and you all the time. One day at a time! {{{hug}}}

captain
04-01-2003, 03:58 PM
Karen,

So glad Cody is having another good day.

You are always in our thoughts, and yes, sight unseen, friends forever.

Logan
04-01-2003, 04:00 PM
No wonder we didn't hear from you!! You were there, at home, soaking up Cody love. You didn't have time for us, of course!!!!

Every single day is a blessing, and I know of no one who would take more advantage of it than you do, Karen.

Love you both.

Logan :)

Pam
04-01-2003, 04:29 PM
Karen your note was so upbeat and your post made me laugh with the two colors of font - just like when you e-mail and it changes and you wonder why! LOL! I'm so glad you got to spend the day with the Big Galoot. Here's hoping you have many, many more wonderful days together. (((more hugs to you)))

K9karen51
04-02-2003, 09:47 AM
Yes, it's me...with a new user name..since I now have a new email address at work I had to re-register.. :( :rolleyes: My big galoot folowed me every where yesterday, since I was off. Mom said, more than ever, when I'm not with him, he pouts and waits by the door all day, no food, water or movement. This is new, and it breaks my heart. If I could afford Family Leave and wasn't so uncertain about my job, I'd stay home with him. He's starting to cough a little and moan when he tries to lay on his side. I gave him his medication earlier than usual last night and it took effect and he had a peaceful night. I still get up constantly to check him. I guess it's one day at a time, what else can I do? I'm sucking up all your hugs and well wishes..thank you.

Logan
04-02-2003, 09:52 AM
Karen, he misses you, and I know it must break your heart. :( I know your mom is doing everything possible, but who could do better than you?? Please hug and kiss him in your favorite spot, just for us. This whole family, furry ones included, are cheering for you and Cody and praying real hard.

Love you bunches.
Logan :)

Sudilar
04-02-2003, 09:52 AM
Karen, I hope he can be with you for a long, long time.

Is there any treatment or medication for him to help?

{{{hugs}}}

tatsxxx11
04-02-2003, 10:04 AM
Of course he misses his Mommy. But I'm sure YOUR Mom will keep a careful eye on him while you're at work. Hopefully he'll get some needed rest while you're away. You can only take it a day at a time...And funny Logan should mention "that favorite spot;)" Make sure you do give him a big kiss, "right there!" Sending my love to you both and prayers for our dear Cody pal.

zippy-kat
04-02-2003, 10:58 AM
{{Thinking of you guys today....}}

gini
04-02-2003, 11:54 AM
Each day is so special - have you thought about calling him during the day and talking to him? Or would that just upset him as he went looking for you?

K9karen
04-02-2003, 10:54 PM
Uneventful day for Cody. On the other hand, I was laid off but things happen for a reason. I'm not happy about it and rather concerned but at least I'll have quality time with my boy. Maybe it was meant to be. Anyway, too upset to write much, have a migrane and need to sleep. Will try to write more tomorrow...{hugs}

anna_66
04-03-2003, 07:11 AM
Karen,
So sorry to hear about your job. Seems sometimes it's just one thing after another.
But, like you said; maybe this happened for a reason.
At least now you get to stay home & spend more time with Cody.

I hope your feeling better today.

Take Care
{{{Hugs}}}
Anna, Angus, Roxey & Huney

Logan
04-03-2003, 07:14 AM
Karen will fill you all in later. But she called this morning and told me they had a very bad night last night, difficulty breathing, the leg swollen worse than before. She was to meet the vet at 7:30 this morning. :(

Karen and Cody can use our prayers more than ever, folks. :(

Sudilar
04-03-2003, 09:47 AM
Dear Karen and Cody need miracles here. I am so upset. I will be praying very hard for them. Oh, Karen, what can I say. My heart goes out to you and Cody. Hold him tight and give him my love. Take some for yourself and your Mom, too.

Logan
04-03-2003, 09:51 AM
Please see Karen's new message

Cody (http://petoftheday.com/talk/showthread.php?s=&threadid=23874)