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pomtzu
08-10-2013, 02:25 PM
Myndi
1/24/1996 ~ 8/9/2013


Myndi departed this world as we know it, at 9:55 a.m. on Friday, August 9, 2013, all the while laying comfortably and peacefully in my arms. She is now enjoying the beautiful Rainbow Bridge with her brother Sparky at her side.

Myndi came into my life the day before Thanksgiving in 1996. She was still a baby - only 10 months old - and in need of a home, so I stepped forward and offered. The rest is history. I knew nothing about her, other than the fact that she was absolutely adorable, but I soon learned all about her. She was very smart, a diva, drama queen, bossy brat (in an endearing sort of way), stubborn, strong, determined, and gotta be the center of attention type. But all of that worked very well for her and added to her charm.

She was a "house hound" - never liked the outdoors, even in the nice weather. Even when I had an outside fenced in play area built for her and Sparky, she hated that too. She and Sparky both would stand at the gate and look sad and forlorn and act like they were being banished from the house, and just wait for me to let them out. About the longest they ever stayed in it at one time, was about an hour. The area was eventually demolished due to lack of use/interest. :rolleyes:

Since Myndi was an only canine child and I was still a working pet mom, I decided she needed a companion to keep her company during the day when I was at work. Enter Sparky in 1999. Being that she was so possessive, I didn't know if it would work out. I introduced them, and after about 10 or 15 minutes, Myndi decided to keep him - on her terms, of course. In those few minutes she set down the ground rules and let him know that she was boss - and would always be the Alpha Dog. He signed the agreement and they went on to live a typical big sister/little brother life together, complete with squabbles and disagreements from time to time.

She was a relatively healthy dog. She had bad knees, but that never slowed her down until later in life when they became arthritic, but pain meds managed that very well. Several years ago she had a near fatal health issue with an intestinal bleed, but within a couple of weeks and meds and a special diet, she was bouncing around like nothing had ever happened. She shocked us all - including her vet - by even surviving. This is when she earned the nickname of "Miracle Myndi". She had other silly nicknames such as Minnie-Minnie, Myn, The Myn, Jaws, Ninners, Ninner Nuts, Blackie, Hairy Black Spider, etc. She recognized some of the ones used more frequently.

Myndi was a devoted and loving little companion, and showed me this in so many ways over the years. When she was still quite young, I was very ill for an extended period of time, and mostly confined to bed. Every day she would jump up on the bed and burrow her way under the blanket to the foot of the bed, and lay at my feet for hours on end. Other times if I was sick or just down in spirit, she seemed to sense it and tried to do something to cheer me.

And then she started getting old, and we encountered the slowly failing health. Thankfully it was a slow process for her, and she refused to succumb to old age without a fight. There were the aging kidneys that didn't work up to par, but major problems were kept at bay with a special diet. She also developed a heart murmur, but it never progressed into CHF as Sparky's did. However, her heart was slowing down and becoming less efficient, and no meds or special diet can reverse that, so of course that slowed her down little by little. No one could believe that she was almost 18. She sure didn't act it, and being the strong and determined dog that she was, she stayed happy and bouncy right up to the end. The spirit was still strong and willing, but the heart ran out of energy.

And with that, the "Era of the Fuzzbuttz" has come to an end. What a grand time and wonderful ride it was!!! I'll forever love and miss both of those little hairballs. :love::love: My life will never be quite the same, but I am grateful to them both for changing and enriching it.



Myndi - my pretty girl - I miss you so much. I understand that you had to leave - you were just so old and getting so tired. You have earned your rest and the whole new and exciting journey with your brother and lots of new friends that you will meet at RB. I promise you that we will all be together again one day. Farewell for now, but never good-bye.................

Kisses, hugs, cuddles, and more kisses from me and your favorite person, Steve. We will both love you and miss you forever. :love::love: I keep listening for the tinkle, tinkle of the tags on your collar, but I don't hear them anymore. :(



p.s.
Myn - this is a secret so don't tell Steve. He asked me if he could have one of the tags that was on your collar, and of course I said "yes". He took the dog bone shaped one that has your name, address and phone # engraved on it, and put it on the keyring with his motorcycle key. You can't get much of a higher honor than that. ;)
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Karen
08-10-2013, 02:35 PM
Rest in peace, Myndi, love - you go find Uncle Mac - I am positive he'll have a treat to give you. He had a very soft spot for assertive M girls - that'll be Molly, his Border Collie, next to him.

You kept you mom - and all of us, in stitches with your posts on Pet Talk, and earned yourself a permanent place in many hearts. We know you are young again, and free of pain, bossing Sparky around again with delight!

Play nice, pretty girl!

Killearn Kitties
08-10-2013, 02:42 PM
I am so sorry that you have lost Myndi. I was just reading the story of her bath and that came as a huge shock.
How nice to read that her little bone tag will be kept on a keyring. What a wonderful idea.
Rest in peace Myndi.

phesina
08-10-2013, 03:12 PM
Rest in peace, darling Myndi. What a wonderful long life you lived, full of love and adventure! And what a wonderful story you have made, told so well by your mom Ellie who loves you so very much.

{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}} to you, Ellie, and ~~~~~~~PURRS~~~~~~~ from the cats. May your precious memories of Myndi and Sparky help to bring you comfort. They are playing together at the Rainbow Bridge and are awaiting that Grand Reunion to come One Fine Day. Love is eternal and you are together always.

God bless, and :love::love::love::love::love::love::love::love:

lizbud
08-10-2013, 03:14 PM
I am so sorry Ellie.:( God certainly blessed your Myndi with a long happy life with you to love her with your whole heart and you did.:love:
A loving relationship cannot be any better than that. Rest in peace sweet Myndi. (((Hugs))) to you Ellie.

Cataholic
08-10-2013, 03:29 PM
Oh, Ellie. The tears are flowing. I am so sad to hear this. While I knew she had lived a full life, I didn't see this coming, at all. Like Liz, I had just read her bath thread. May the many memories you shared with Myndi, and Sparky, fill your heart with some sense of peace. You will be united again, and until that day, know you have two special little doggies looking over you. Much love, Johanna

Queen of Poop
08-10-2013, 03:48 PM
Ellie, I am so shocked and saddened by the news of Myndi's passing. My heart breaks for you. Please accept my sincere condolences.

kaycountrygal
08-10-2013, 04:02 PM
Ellie, What a wonderful touching Tribute to your little girl Myndi. I'm crying. She was so pretty. No doubt she had a loving heart that finally just gave out. I know you miss her. I keep thinking that Myndi and Sparky are together again with all the other pets that have gone to RB. It is so sad to lose one of our little friends/companions and I am so sorry. I do believe we'll see them again one day. My condolences to you... ((Hugs)).... Kay

luvofallhorses
08-10-2013, 04:33 PM
I'm so sorry. :( RIP Myndi. :love:

cassiesmom
08-10-2013, 04:51 PM
I am so very sorry for your loss, Ellie. Serious leaking eyes here. I am sending you more ((((HUGS)))).

Please take care,
:love:
Elyse

Shady
08-10-2013, 05:01 PM
My heart breaks for you..Myndi had a long and wonderful loving life with you..

Till you meet again, on the other side..

Godspeed Myndi. :love:

Alysser
08-10-2013, 05:28 PM
Rest in peace, Fuzzies :(:love:

Bengalz
08-10-2013, 05:31 PM
Ellie thank you for sharing a beautiful tribute to your precious Myndi when your heart is so shattered:love:. The love never leaves - keep it close:love:. Rest in Peace sweet Myndi and let your momma know you're happy and whole again.

Freedom
08-10-2013, 05:54 PM
Ellie, that was beautiful, reading about Myndi's life. Eighteen years, really amazing. What a little spit fire. That sort of Spirit makes lasting laugh lines on your face and in your heart. I'm sorry for your loss.

chocolatepuppy
08-10-2013, 07:33 PM
I'm so sorry Ellie. :( Myndi had a long and wonderful life with you and Sparky. She will remain in your heart forever. :love:

prechrswife
08-10-2013, 07:34 PM
I'm so very sorry...:(

Felicia's Mom
08-10-2013, 07:47 PM
I am so sorry for your loss.:(

Scooter's Mom
08-10-2013, 08:44 PM
I am so sorry about Myndi. Your bath story made me chuckle... and then I saw the added post and my heart broke for you.
((Hugs)) to you.

krazyaboutkatz
08-10-2013, 09:37 PM
Ellie, I'm shocked too hear about this and I'm so sorry for your loss.:( She had a wonderful long and happy life with you. RIP sweet Myndi.:( Please take care. (((HUGS)))

Catty1
08-10-2013, 09:51 PM
pom, I'm sorry for you - it will be a too-quiet move without Myndi.

I hope you find comfort in memories of that special girl. :love:

ChrisH
08-11-2013, 05:20 AM
Oh, Ellie, such sad, sad news. :( My heart goes out to you for I know how much you love her and will miss her. Sending you loving hugs and much love.

Rest in peace beautiful Myndi girl.

Lilith Cherry
08-11-2013, 08:16 AM
Oh Ellie I am so sorry to hear this sad news. Myndi had a wonderful life and such a loving owner! Or should that be servant. Both she and Sparky will be delighted to be reunited at the bridge and will be waiting for you with joyful loving hearts. Lots of hugs and much love from me and my own little pack.

Pinot's Mom
08-11-2013, 08:51 AM
Ellie I'm so sorry. {{{hugs}}} RIP sweet Myndi. :love:

Randi
08-11-2013, 08:57 AM
I'm so sorry for your loss of Myndi. I can imagine how empty it must feel without her - and Sparky. :( Myndi had a good long life with you and enjoyed it very much, I'm sure. :) Now, the time came for a rest - and one day you will reunited.

Rest in peace, dear Myndi. :love:

Lady's Human
08-11-2013, 10:00 AM
Pom,

we're very sorry for your loss. I hope she and Lady play well together at the bridge.

pomtzu
08-11-2013, 12:28 PM
Thank you - everyone - for your kind thoughts and words. It's times like this when it's great to have such a big family. Myndi and I are so grateful for all of you.

I can't believe that she's really gone, and the silence in the house is deafening. I know some of you must wonder how one day she could post one of her silly stories, and then be gone the next. I will post a new thread in Dog General in the next day or so for anyone who might want to know, but it was our maker's decision to call her home - not mine. I know that I don't have to do that, but it might be therapeutic for me.

Again - thank you all my friends - from the bottom of my heart. :love:

Casper
08-11-2013, 01:16 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss. The memorial you wrote up is beautiful. You can tell that Myndi was such a special girl. I loved the stories she would tell, her personality would shine through so bright. I know she was such a huge part of your life and the memories you have of that girl will last a lifetime. ((((((HUGS))))))

Rest easy, Myndi. :love: You are loved so very much.

Asiel
08-11-2013, 06:43 PM
Just finished reading the memorial for Myndi Pom , sorry about the tardiness. What a loving beautiful post in honour of your dear little friend. I'm sure Myndi knew how much she was loved and still is. And I'm sure her and Sparky are running free healthy and young again at the RB.
Myndi had the best of owners and all the love a little lovebug like her could wish for. I know how quiet the house must feel without her but she is there with you .:love::love::love:

robinh
08-12-2013, 05:25 AM
Oh Elle, I am so sorry for your loss. The Myndi and Sparky escapades were one of the real highlights of the PetTalk boards. Godspeed Myndi - play free at the bridge.

Taz_Zoee
08-13-2013, 05:48 PM
I read this yesterday on my way home from vacation and had tears in my eyes.
I am so sorry for your loss.

RIP Myndi, you and Sparky are together again.

ParNone
08-14-2013, 07:10 PM
Sorry for your loss. What a wonderful tribute to such a special girl. Have fun with Sparky at the bridge, Myndi.

pomtzu
08-15-2013, 11:09 AM
Thank you all again - you are all amazing friends,

As I mentioned earlier, I'm certain some could be wondering what happened - here one day and gone the next. I posted in Dog Health - "Myndi - ending back-story" for those of you so inclined to read it. Perhaps her symptoms/actions might be something you might encounter in the future with one of your furkids, thus prompting to further investigate if they are new to your kid. We can never learn too much about our kids who cannot talk and tell us of a problem - only exhibit symptoms.

And as I wait for Myndi's cremains to come home to me, she has been showing herself in a few different ways, letting me know that I am not alone. :love:

bevrice
08-18-2013, 05:30 PM
Myndi, you will always be loved and remembered. May your Mom be comforted by the wonderful memories of you and your spirit which will be with her forever.

AdoreMyDogs
08-21-2013, 09:55 PM
I'm so deeply sorry for your loss. She lived such a long, full, happy life. I hope you are finding peace with each passing day.

pomtzu
08-23-2013, 06:08 AM
Myndi came home to me yesterday. Even tho I am happy and relieved that she is back home, I was hoping it would help to chase away the blues. Not yet, but in time they will fade........in time.

I never realized just how much time each day, that I spent doing things with and for her. My days are way too long, quiet and empty now.


But - welcome back Myndi-Girl. Now you and Sparky can both keep an eye on all that's going on here.

Love you Myndi :love:
Love you too Sparky :love:

Karen
08-23-2013, 08:41 AM
Aww, glad she's back with you, and we know in a way she always will be. Maybe once you are through the big move, life will be sttled enough and a new furkid will enter your life. but Myndi and Sparky are there always!

Asiel
08-23-2013, 09:47 AM
I'm so glad to hear Myndi came back to you yesterday, that was quick. I know it can't fill in the time you used to spend with Myndi or simply doing for her but you know Myndi and Sparky are with you, watching over you. At least you have all their memories tucked away in your heart and that never goes away. Keep their pictures and favourite toys around, it helps and gets easier with each passing day.:love:

pomtzu
08-23-2013, 11:22 AM
Maybe once you are through the big move, life will be sttled enough and a new furkid will enter your life.

I'll never say never, but it's highly unlikely that I'll ever take on the role of "Mom" again. I'm going to settle for "Aunt". There are 3 dogs in residence where I'm settling in - 2 big older dogs and a 3 or 4 year old Pug named Scooter - who is WAY too chunky. He's a sweet and loveable guy and doesn't have the typical SDS (snore-drool-snort) traits of most Pugs - at least I didn't observe that in him when I met him in May - he might surprise me tho. Auntie Ellie plans to get him on a serious diet and exercise program when she gets there - he'll probably end up hating me for it too! :rolleyes::eek:

Karen
08-23-2013, 03:26 PM
Auntie Ellie plans to get him on a serious diet and exercise program when she gets there - he'll probably end up hating me for it too! :rolleyes::eek:

Actually he'll likely love you for the exercise, and resist the diet part with every ounce of his puggy body! They have been known to work those big brown eyes like experts!

caseysmom
09-10-2013, 12:48 PM
I haven't been around much, so sorry to hear about your loss of Myndi especially so soon after sparky that is rough.

pomtzu
09-10-2013, 12:54 PM
I haven't been around much, so sorry to hear about your loss of Myndi especially so soon after sparky that is rough.

Thank you so much. :love: It was one month yesterday that she went to RB, but it seems like she's been gone forever. I miss those 2 little Fuzzbuttz something fierce. I hate the quiet of the house since they have been gone.

Hope all is well with you and yours!