Bobby :( Time to say goodbye. Memorial frame photo added

[ChrisH]

Although I do regularly check the board and although I haven't posted in a quite a while I'm hoping there are still a few members who will remember us and be interested.

I'm sorry to say my Bobby boy isn't at all well. He has become gluten and grain intolerant, and beside that is suffering from malabsorption with chronic diarrhoea which has lead to a big weight loss. Was able to mostly keep the diarrhoea under control but the weight was still falling off.

Over the last few weeks we have been trying a new drug, similar to the one used for Crohn's in humans, and it seemed to going pretty well, hoped to see a weight gain, if only a little, on next weigh-in day. However, soft stools over the last few days and then today full blown diarrhoea containing some blood has kind of dashed my hopes.

It could very well be the result of eating something he shouldn't whilst out in the garden - he's very adept at snaffling something too swiftly for me to spot ... yes, in all other aspects he is the same old Bob. Still annoying, still crazy, still happy in himself. Sleeps a lot heavier, but then he is quite old. Arthritis and getting weaker means his back legs don't work as well as they should, especially on waking, but he can still stand on them to reach the kitchen worktops in the hopes of a snaffle.

So there you have it. If you've a mind to, please say a little prayer for my boy.

[chocolatepuppy]

I'm sorry to hear Bobby isn't doing well. Many prayers headed his way.

[robinh]

I'm so sorry to hear that he is not feeling well. Many prayer being said for the sweet Bobby. He's always been such a charmer.

[kaycountrygal]

I am so sorry your Bobby is having health problems. It is so upsetting when our beloved pets aren't well. I do hope he gets better. He's in my prayers.

[dukedogsmom]

I knew from the title that I didn't want to read what you wrote. I remember him and love seeing his pics. If he ate something he shouldn't, has the vet checked into giving him some vitamin K? Just a hope that anything will make him better. I'm so sorry to learn this. Dasher's hips and back legs are getting weak, too. Give your boy big hugs from me.

[Karen]

He'll be in our prayers!

[lizbud]

Of course we remember you ChrisH.:)
I am so sorry to hear that Bobby is having such a hard time of it. It is
so tough to see our dear friends grow older and weaker.:( I do hope
with all my heart that Bobby gets over the stomach issues & gains some
strength back again. Prayers for you both & gentle pets for Ebby.

[gini]

I cringed when I saw your thread title. You can count on prayers from me for Bobby - and a few for you too - this must be hard on you.

[Taz_Zoee]

Aww, I'm sorry Bobby is not doing well. I've always loved seeing him and hearing about him. I hope he can over come this and feel better.

[Randi]

Oh Chris, I'm so sorry to hear Bobby has health problems, he is such a sweet boy and I always love to hear what he's up to, and see pictures/videos of him.

It sounds like you have had him checked for all sorts of things, but has he been x-rayed? I hope there are foods that will agree with his tummy.

Sending lots of good thoughts and we're keeping all paws and fingers crossed for Bobby. :love:

(((hugs))) to you. :love:

[sasvermont]

I am sorry to hear that Bobby is under the weather. Old age is not always fun for animals. And they can't tell you what's wrong!

I hope the meds you have now, keep him in recovery.

Please give him a hug from all the campers here in Vermont.

((((((((((((((((Bobby)))))))))))))))))

Sas

[ChrisH]

Thanks everyone, for your concern, well wishes & prayers. http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v11/CwmmawrJet/Smiles/grouphug.gif All much appreciated.

As I wrote earlier, he's fine in himself so far, no sign of pain or discomfort, still keeping that old tail wagging. :)

I'm due to take him to the vet next week (if I can, but that is a whole other story) but I will see how he goes over the next couple of days and may take him sooner. My vet, the only one I trust, is only at the surgery Monday afternoons and Thursday mornings which can make things a little more difficult, though I can always reach him by phone if I need to.

I will update on how Bobby is getting on, maybe even get a few photos taken and posted. Meanwhile, here he is as Santa from back in 2004.

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v11/CwmmawrJet/Bobby%20Boy/Bobby%20boy%202/B6PB.jpg

Thanks once again guys.

[cassiesmom]

BIG prayers for Bobby!

[gini]

What a sweet boy he is.................going to light a candle for him.

[krazyaboutkatz]

Chris, I'm so sorry to hear this.:( Lots of prayers and positive thoughts are being sent his way.

[binka_nugget]

Sending good vibes your way! It's tough seeing our dogs get older.. :( *hugs*

[wolf_Q]

Sorry to hear dear Bobby has had some health troubles. :( I will keep him in my thoughts please keep us updated.

[ChrisH]

Thanks guys.http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v11/CwmmawrJet/Smiles/grouphug.gif

Bob also thanks you.
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v11/CwmmawrJet/Smiles/KissBlowsHeartSmiley.gif
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v11/CwmmawrJet/Bobby%20Boy/Bob%202011/DSCF2033800x600.jpg

[slick]

My dear Bob: Yes it sucks to get old, but please know that I'm saying prayers really hard for you sweetie. Hang in there please. I might be visiting the UK in 2012 and I really want to see you.

{{hugs}} Chris:love::love::love:

[lizbud]

Thanks guys.http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v11/CwmmawrJet/Smiles/grouphug.gif

Bob also thanks you.
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v11/CwmmawrJet/Smiles/KissBlowsHeartSmiley.gif
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v11/CwmmawrJet/Bobby%20Boy/Bob%202011/DSCF2033800x600.jpg



Bobby is such a sweet boy. His sweet & lovable nature just seems to
pop out at you in all of his pictures. (((Hugs)) to Bobby boy.:love::love:

[Edwina's Secretary]

Oh Bob...my beloved Bob!

I am sad to hear you are suffering some of the indignities of aging - but then....so am I!

It is so good to see your adorable face...

Bobby Boy...you are my most favorite dog. I send good thoughts and hope to you...

with:love::love::love::love:

ES

[Cataholic]

Hi Chris,
My dog, Jasper, has what must be considered the most sensitive tummy in the world. He gets into something before I can get to him, and we will go throw a solid week of intense diahhrea, sometimes vomiting, but otherwise normal behaviour. I have taken him to the vet many times. While the anti-diarhal helps a lot..flagyl (metronidizole), I have to do this:

No food whatsoever for a full 24 hours. None. Then, we go on a plain boiled rice and greenbeans for 3 days, and this is small amounts. Jasper normally eats one cup twice a day. When he is on the green bean/rice diet, it is a half cup mixture, twice a day. When the 5th day comes around, I offer him 3-4 small meals, maybe 1/4 cup (so one fourth of his normal meal) 3 or four times a day. He also eats a special, limited ingredient diet, sweet potato and fish, as those are seemingly less allergy'ish than others.

Every day for dinner, he gets one omega 3 pill, and a allergy pill. If I keep him away from everything else, he is ok, but if he eats something outside- it is devastating to him. This summer, he literally broke out of the house, through a window screen, to get outside to do his business during the day. In the process, he took out most of the other screens, too. It seems to stress him out, which only contributes to the problem.

The no food for 24 hours cannot be encouraged enough. It gives the gut time to calm down.

Good luck!!

Johanna

[Karen]

The no food for 24 hours cannot be encouraged enough. It gives the gut time to calm down.



It's funny, as a human with food allergies, after I have had a new reaction to something, I have no desire to eat the next day, and only approach food cautiously for a couple days after that. And I'm not at all hungry usually for several days, it's like my body is telling my brain - "Nope, food is bad! Never mind that stuff!"

[Killearn Kitties]

Handsome Bobby :love:, all our fingers and paws are crossed for you here sweetheart. I hope things go well.

[ChrisH]

Thanks slick, Liz, Sara, Johanna & Karen, and once again for everyone else who has posted, for your concern, good wishes and prayers. All very much appreciated. http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v11/CwmmawrJet/Smiles/grouphug.gif

[ChrisH]

Hi Chris,
My dog, Jasper, has what must be considered the most sensitive tummy in the world. He gets into something before I can get to him, and we will go throw a solid week of intense diahhrea, sometimes vomiting, but otherwise normal behaviour. I have taken him to the vet many times. While the anti-diarhal helps a lot..flagyl (metronidizole), I have to do this:

No food whatsoever for a full 24 hours. None. Then, we go on a plain boiled rice and greenbeans for 3 days, and this is small amounts. Jasper normally eats one cup twice a day. When he is on the green bean/rice diet, it is a half cup mixture, twice a day. When the 5th day comes around, I offer him 3-4 small meals, maybe 1/4 cup (so one fourth of his normal meal) 3 or four times a day. He also eats a special, limited ingredient diet, sweet potato and fish, as those are seemingly less allergy'ish than others.

Every day for dinner, he gets one omega 3 pill, and a allergy pill. If I keep him away from everything else, he is ok, but if he eats something outside- it is devastating to him. This summer, he literally broke out of the house, through a window screen, to get outside to do his business during the day. In the process, he took out most of the other screens, too. It seems to stress him out, which only contributes to the problem.

The no food for 24 hours cannot be encouraged enough. It gives the gut time to calm down.

Good luck!!

Johanna
Poor Jasper and poor you. {{hugs}}

Similar to Jasper, over the years Bob has eaten all sorts of things, inorganic and inedible, many is the time I have had to withhold food for twenty four hours and then feed him something easy on the tummy for a few days, usually fresh chicken, or fish, and rice. However this 'whatever it is' now is kind of different.

In the spring of 2010 he was checked out for weight loss but we managed to get it stable again by feeding him up but this latest weight loss seems to be somehow tied to allergies. Any kind of gluten and/or grain seems to set him off. I have fed him a whole bunch of different foods, both dry and canned, and the one he is on now, canned, seems to suit him, so far anyway.

I feed it shared out into three or four meals spread throughout the day in order not to overload his stomach in one go. As to his picking up and eating things I use a muzzle for walks and watch him as much as I can when he goes out in the garden.

He was on steroids for a week or so but besides the fact they didn't seem to be helping much they made him uber hungry to the point he was snaffling food any which way he could and was nasty with it, so I weaned him off them.

Got an vet appointment on Monday morning, (God willing we can get there). I'm almost certain Bob has not gained any weight, in fact could even have lost some more after last weekend. But fingers crossed eh? :)

[Killearn Kitties]

Bobby sweetheart, we are sending all our good thoughts and healing vibes to you for your appointment tomorrow. Good luck, baby boy. :love:

[anna_66]

While I'm not around as much either, I most certainly do remember you and your sweet Bob:D

I hate to hear that he's having such health problems and has been loosing weight, but I do hope to hear that the vet has good news when/if you visit Monday.

I :love: that picture of him! He's like Angus was in his pictures...smiling away!

Love and (((HUGS))) to you both!

[ChrisH]

Thanks Karen & Anna. {{hugs}}

[Alysser]

Hope things are lookin' better for Bobby soon Chris, I always enjoyed seeing his smiling handsome face.:):love:

[ChrisH]

Thanks Alysser. {{hug}}

Not good news from the vets I'm afraid. He's lost more even more weight and is now only 33lbs (approx). :( We're keeping him on the same drug, as it is working well to keep him comfortable, and we go back in a month.

Bob is keeping happy and pretty frisky and as long as that continues ...

[dukedogsmom]

I'm so sorry to learn the news wasn't good. But if he's in good spirits, that helps. I hope he gets better. Hug him for me.

[gini]

Chris, I will keep a candle lighted for Bobby and for you too. :love::love::love:

[Vette]

Just now seeing this. hope this trip to the vet when you go itll bring good news. *crosses fingers*

[Killearn Kitties]

Oh Chris, I hope Bobby keeps comfortable and frisky for a while yet.

[Asiel]

Just a suggestion but maybe your vet could try Bobby on Pancrease -V powder. I've seen that work miracles on some dogs. Seems like their system stops producing enzymes to help assimilate their food but with enzyme replacements some dogs go on to live quite a few years. You might be right in assuming that he could have eaten something harsh to destroy his digestive tract.

[Cataholic]

Pancreatitis? Celiac's disease? Is it B12 or Omega 3s that do something to maintain the gut? Chris, do you have access to a vet other than a surgeon? If it is food related, or digestive tract related, I haven't had much luck with traditional vets. :(

I don't know about Celiacs in dogs, but in people, I have heard that sometimes the things you think would not have anything bothersome in them does. Does it come and go? Or has it just gotten worse, and not better now for a while?

What are you feeding him, Chris?

[ChrisH]

Thanks guys. :)


Just a suggestion but maybe your vet could try Bobby on Pancrease -V powder. I've seen that work miracles on some dogs.
Thanks for the suggestion, I'll ask my vet about it.

Pancreatitis? Celiac's disease? Is it B12 or Omega 3s that do something to maintain the gut? Chris, do you have access to a vet other than a surgeon? If it is food related, or digestive tract related, I haven't had much luck with traditional vets. :(

I don't know about Celiacs in dogs, but in people, I have heard that sometimes the things you think would not have anything bothersome in them does. Does it come and go? Or has it just gotten worse, and not better now for a while?

What are you feeding him, Chris?
Johanna, his symptoms don't point to Pancreatis but Celiac's may be playing a part. His body cannot tolerate any kind of grains including rice and even gluten free dry food is a problem for him.

I now feed him on a canned food called Butchers tripe which he seems to tolerate very well.

[cassiesmom]

Oh Chris, I hope Bobby keeps comfortable and frisky for a while yet.

I hope so too! Fingers and paws crossed!

[Sowa]

Sorry to hear the news wasn't the best. I'm glad he's still in good spirits though. I hope he starts to feel better and puts on a little weight!

[ChrisH]

:(
Bobby has gone downhill very fast, over the last 24/48 hours. He can only walk a few paces and can hardly stand. That awful decision, the one all of us dread having to make, has been made, a vet will be here at my home to do the deed sometime after 10.30am UK time.

[robinh]

Oh Chris, I am so sorry to hear this. A tough decision for you, but one I know that you make totally out of love. Give Bobby a hug for me and take one for yourself too.

[cloverfdx]

Oh Chris i am sorry :(. Give your gorgeous boy a hug from me. As much as it hurts and breaks our hearts it's the least we can do for them after their years of friendship and love. Look after yourself.

[Killearn Kitties]

My thoughts are with you Chris. I wish I was too. :love:

[Varga]

I'm so, so sorry to hear that :( Wishing you all the best during this tough time.

[boomersooner]

God Bless you!

[Mellkat86]

I'm sorry to read about your Bobby. I hope you and your family cope with the sad time. Our Yorkie died last monday, (Boxing Day), so I know where you are right now.

[sasvermont]

Bobby, please have a smooth trip to Rainbow Bridge. You will have many friends there to greet you.

Chris, this must be an oh so difficult time. We all will be there some day, with our current pets. Be strong. You are doing the right thing.

Happy Trails Bobby dearest.

:love::love::love::love:

[kaycountrygal]

I am so sorry your Bobby couldnt get better. I know firsthand what it is like to have vet come to the house and "do the deed". It broke my heart years ago and I should have done it earlier. You love Bobby enough to let him go. I have tears in my eyes thinking about it. You are in my prayers. Kay in NC

[chocolatepuppy]

I'm so sorry.:( A day all of us furparents dread. {{{hugs}}}

[Cookiebaker]

Chris, my heart is breaking in two for you. Sending you lots of hugs and thoughts today!

[dab_20]

I am so sorry to hear that Bobby has gone downhill. It's a tough decision to make but our responsibility to keep our fur babies comfortable and know when the time has come.

(((hugs))) to you and Bobby. He is a much loved member of PT and I know dearly loved by you.

[lizbud]

Chris, I am so sorry that Bobby's time to leave you has come.:(
Please give him a kiss on his head for me. I will miss hearing about
your sweet boy.:( (((Hugs))) to you.

FROM FRIEND TO FRIEND
You're giving me a special gift,
So sorrowfully endowed,
And through these last few cherished days,
Your courage makes me proud.


But really, love is knowing
When your best friend is in pain,
And understanding earthly acts
Will only be in vain.


So looking deep into your eyes,
Beyond, into your soul,
I see in you the magic, that will
Once more make me whole.


The strength that you possess,
Is why I look to you today,
To do this thing that must be done,
For it's the only way.


That strength is why I've followed you,
And chose you as my friend,
And why I've loved you all these years...
My partner 'til the end.


Please, understand just what this gift,
You're giving, means to me,
It gives me back the strength I've lost,
And all my dignity.


You take a stand on my behalf,
For that is what friends do.
And know that what you do is right,
For I believe it too.


So one last time, I breathe your scent,
And through your hand I feel,
The courage that's within you,
To now grant me this appeal.


Cut the leash that holds me here,
Dear friend, and let me run,
Once more a strong and steady dog,
My pain and struggle done.


And don't despair my passing,
For I won't be far away,
Forever here, within your heart,
And memory I'll stay.


I'll be there watching over you,
Your ever faithful friend,
And in your memories I'll run,
...a young dog once again.



In Memory of Asta, Feb. 1997
(c) Karen Clouston

[Pinot's Mom]

"You take a stand on my behalf,
For that is what friends do.
And know that what you do is right,
For I believe it too....

Cut the leash that holds me here,
Dear friend, and let me run,
Once more a strong and steady dog,
My pain and struggle done."


Godspeed, dear one, and Peace to you, Chris.:love:

[cassiesmom]

Chris, my heart is breaking in two for you. Sending you lots of hugs and thoughts today!

^^^What Cookiebaker said (((HUGS))))

[Cataholic]

Dear Chris, our hearts do totally break with yours. I remember so many wonderful stories of Bobby, and those stories will be soft memories in your heart, to get you through these next weeks and months. It is "the deed", the one most fought against, the one most lovingly administered, and the ultimate act of selfless devotion. Bobby lived a beautiful life with you, here on earth, and will live forever in your heart, and ours, from here on out.

My sincerest sympathies.

Johanna

[Lilith Cherry]

Godspeed Bobby- enjoy the bridge. Hugs and sympathy for you Chris.

[Randi]

Goodbye dear sweet Bobby, I hope you had a smooth trip to the RB. Your friends will be waiting for you and show you around, but your mum will miss you so - we all will. :( You were SO special. :love:

Big hugs to you Chris, and my deepest sympathy.

[ChrisH]

My heartfelt thanks to you all ... I will make a memorial thread sometime soon but can't write anything more right now.

[K9soul]

Chris.. I am so, so terribly sorry. :( My thoughts are with you. Words are inadequate but my heart is with you.

[Bonny]

I am so sorry for you Chris & your Bobby. (((HUGS)))

[CountryWolf07]

So sorry to hear about Bobby. Bless you. :love:

[FurkidsMom]

I'm a bit of a lurker here but I absolutely remember your gorgeous boy and so sorry to hear this. I wish you both well.

[kaycountrygal]

I am so sorry for your loss. Your Bobby was beautiful. ((Hugs))

[Edwina's Secretary]

Godspeed my beloved Bobby.

Although I did not know you - I loved you so.

But nothing compared to the love from your devoted mum...

Travel well...

[krazyaboutkatz]

Chris, I'm so sorry.:( I know it's never an easy thing to do but he's telling you that it's time.:( My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. RIP sweet Bobby.:( Please take care. (((HUGS)))

[AdoreMyDogs]

I'm so deeply sorry for your great loss. Rest in peace, beautiful Bobby boy. You were such a good boy :( :love:

[dukedogsmom]

I'm just seeing this. So very sorry. Too many of us know the pain of loss.

[slick]

I'm crying buckets right now. :(:(Thank God I'm the only one left here at work. You know, we've expected this but somehow when I see it in writing that he's gone, well, it doesn't make it any easier to accept.

My heart is breaking for you Chris and I feel your pain. You know, I still have all the pictures and videos of Bobby you emailed me over the past number of years - and hanging on my wall is your sketch of Bob that you did for me - of yes, and I have a lock of his fur. I'll stop babbling now.

RIP sweet Bob. I wonder if you ever know how loved you were/are from all around the world.

{{{hugs}}} Chris. :love::love::love:

[RobiLee]

Ohhh, Chris, I am so so sorry. I'm so heartbroken by this news. {{HUGS}}

[wolf_Q]

I'm so sorry to hear this Chris. :( I know you loved him very much and did everything you could. He was a good boy and very loved. :love: :( {{HUGS}}

[carole]

I am so sad to read this post, please accept my sincere condolences at the loss of your beautiful furbaby,RIP Bobby, and play hard at the Rainbow Bridge.HUGS.:love::love:

http://i264.photobucket.com/albums/ii185/jewellnz/pet-loss-.gif

[cloverfdx]

RIP Bobby :(. Still sending lots of hugs and love your way Chris, you have been in my thoughts. XXXX.

[pomtzu]

There's nothing to say that hasn't already been said, but I wanted to let you know that you have prayers of healing going out to you. Now matter how long that our beloved furkids are with us, it's never long enough.

RIP Bob, and peace to you Chris. :love:

[ChrisH]

Thank you guys, your love, prayers and support are invaluable to me.

Today is especially hard because it's a day of 'firsts', first day in over thirteen years my boy was not there to say good morning, first day he was not there to hurry me to let him outside then make his breakfast ... the world seems to have shifted somehow.

[dukedogsmom]

*Tears* You will feel lost for a while. You lose some of yourself when they're gone. It never truly goes away but it does get easier.

[ChrisH]

Thanks Val.

In my time I've lost more than a few dogs though age and illness but losing Bobby is just that little bit harder. The difference between him and the others is not that they were less loved but more the fact that Bobby and I, have been together 24 hours a day, 7 days a week for over thirteen years. The only time spent apart have been for the odd hour or so when I've gone shopping, or visit family, doctors, ect. I think the longest times have been around 6 or so hours on my annual trip to the zoo.

Right now I thank God for my Ebby. She may not be a cuddle cat or indeed very loving but helping her to realise she has her home to herself now is a task that helps somehow.

[anna_66]

Oh my dear Chris,
It breaks my heart to hear this news:( He was such a special boy and will truly missed by us all.
Many (((HUGS))) to you

[lizbud]

The thing about being a Pet Talker is, over time, you get to feel like
you know and become attached to other members's pets.Sharing pics and
stories, we feel connected no matter that space or time separate us.

Thank you for sharing Bobby with us. He was much loved & will be missed.
The world is a different place without him. (((Hugs))) to you Chris & Ebby.

[ChrisH]

Thank you both.

[Karen]

Rest in peace, sweet boy. I know there's a meadow up there with butterflies for you to chase.

[Vermontcat]

Chris, I am so sorry to hear that your sweet Bobby boy has gone to the Rainbow Bridge.:(
I know you did everything you could for him, he had a long and wonderful life with you.
Sending hugs your way for you and Ebby.

[*LabLoverKEB*]

Chris please accept my deepest sympathies regarding sweet Bobby. :( I am so terribly sorry for your loss. Big big hugs to you during this difficult time :(

[shais_mom]

I'm so sorry that I'm so late to this. Please accept my sincere sympathy, Chris. Much love and hugs to you over the miles.

[ChrisH]

Thanks guys.

I will share some memories and pictures sometime in the future but I can't right now, I know you all understand.

[DriftyAlison0]

SS to hear the news. Do the memorial thread when your upto it. Whenever you do it, Bobby would love it. He is in doggy heaven awaiting the day when you come and get reunited with him. He is playing, running, and eating anything he wants and his stomach is no longer bothering him. No more diet and he is back to looking healthy. Your in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

http://www.petloss.com/rainbowbridge.htm

[dukedogsmom]

Petloss.com also has candle service in their chat every Monday. That helped me a lot when I lost Duke. Really nice guy there made me a memorial page, too. There are lots of nice people there and the chat is always open.

[Ginger's Mom]

Oh Chris, I am so sorry. *warm sincere hugs* Bobby was one of the first dogs I got to know and recognize on Pet Talk. His happy smiling face always left me feeling a bit lighter after seeing his threads. You were both so lucky to have each other. *hugs*

[ChrisH]

Thank you.

[ChrisH]

Memorial video.

http://youtu.be/XeG71gnrveI

[Felicia's Mom]

I am sorry to learn that Bobby is at Rainbow Bridge. May he R.I.P.

[lizbud]

Beautiful tribute to Bobby.:love:


In all his pictures he seemed to always have a sparkle in his eyes
and a waggy tail. God love him.:)

[K9soul]

What a lovely tribute to your precious boy. Such a happy soul.

[krazyaboutkatz]

What a nice tribute to your sweet Bobby boy. He sure was a very happy boy.:) RIP sweet Bobby.:(

[robinh]

Beautiful tribute!

[ChrisH]

Thanks so much Jess, {hug} Liz, Tracey, robinh and Nancy for viewing and for your kind comments.http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v11/CwmmawrJet/Smiles/grouphug.gif

In all his pictures he seemed to always have a sparkle in his eyes and a waggy tail. God love him.:)
Spot on, Liz, that's my Bobs to a T.

No Bob; to wake me in the morning, to give breakfast to, to hover around whilst I'm cooking in case I drop something, to let outside before bed, to be a pain in the rear when visitors call ... the list is almost endless. He was not a dog to be in the background, oh, no, full center in everything was his place.

My home is so empty. I'm lost.

[Digi]

I am so sorry I didn't find out sooner. I'm so sorry for your loss, I knew how much he meant to you, & I always stalked here once in a while to hunt for Bob threads.

Digi, Cam, Charlie, & myself give you our deepest sympathies *many hugs*

[SadButGrateful]

Sorry to be so ignorant but I'm fairly new here. How do I view the tribute to Bobbie? I would very much like to see it.

[dukedogsmom]

Memorial video.

http://youtu.be/XeG71gnrveI


Sorry to be so ignorant but I'm fairly new here. How do I view the tribute to Bobbie? I would very much like to see it.
It was on the previous page.

Beautiful video. He sure loved that kong, didn't he? Those videos must be a real treasure now. Just remember we will meet up again.

[Cataholic]

There were a couple of stills that I swear I could nearly feel him, the image was that clear. Like Liz, I see that sparkle in his eye. What a beautiful boy, and those memories will help, some day.

Hugs to you, Chris.
Johanna

[AdoreMyDogs]

Seeing his silly, playful self in that memorial video made me want to reach through my computer and hug him (and throw his kong for him too). I loved seeing his spunk. That's lovely that you captured how happy he was, so you will always be able to treasure those happy memories.

Rest in peace, sweetest Bob. You were such a lovely, happy, handsome boy :love:

[SadButGrateful]

What a beautiful tribute to a beautiful dog. I didn't even know him and now I miss him too! I just want to cry. I think that these wonderful furry friends of ours are temporary gifts from God. He lends them to us just for a little while to share their joy and beauty with us and then they go back to Him. Because they belong to Him after all. RIP, Bobbie. What a sweet soul you have!
"God has you in His arms, but I have you in my heart."

[captain]

Chris,
You know how much I loved that Bobby boy ........... he was such a lovely sweet-eyed soul. I loved seeing his pictures, and especially the ones where you had him holding a "message".

The Memorial video was beautiful, and I will hunt down the other videos you took of him in the past. You could just see the wiggly butt moving all over the camera, and the "look" he gave you when you asked him something - like "what? really?"

Huge huge hugs to you across the miles.
Love
Michelle and the Spotties

[ChrisH]

Heartfelt thanks to everyone for your kind words and thoughts. {{hugs}}

[wolf_Q]

The video was a beautiful tribute. You could just see what a happy, loving dog he was. I wish they could be with us longer. So sorry again for your loss. :( {{HUGS}}

[cloverfdx]

What a beautiful tribute the a great dog :love:. You have been in my thoughts Chris.

[ChrisH]

Thanks to you both. {{hugs}}

[lolli94]

So sorry to hear you lost him. I am new on here. Was Bobby a springer? The pic of him in the Santa suit looks just like my springer,Lolli.

[lolli94]

Just watched the memorial video. Almost made me cry

[ChrisH]

Thank you lolli94.

In answer to your question, yes, Bobby was English Springer Spaniel, albeit a rather large one with a bad home haircut.

[Randi]

Chris, your memorial for Bob was beautiful! It showed his character and how sweet and trusting he was. I will miss seeing him and hearing his stories, and I know you will miss him every day. :( I like to think that he is free of pain, and romping around at the RB now, getting to know his friends who left before him.

When you're up to it... how does Ebby react? Is she looking for him?

Take care, Chris! Sending lots of love and big hugs. :love: :love:

[*LabLoverKEB*]

Just wanted to let you know that you are still in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time, Chris.:love:

[ChrisH]

Just wanted to let you know that you are still in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time, Chris.:love:
Thank you, means a lot. {{hugs}}

Chris, your memorial for Bob was beautiful! It showed his character and how sweet and trusting he was. I will miss seeing him and hearing his stories, and I know you will miss him every day. :( I like to think that he is free of pain, and romping around at the RB now, getting to know his friends who left before him.

When you're up to it... how does Ebby react? Is she looking for him?

Take care, Chris! Sending lots of love and big hugs. :love: :love:
Thank you Randi. {{hugs}}

Ebby? At first she was wary, still watching and ready to get out of the way if Bob came bouncing about. Now she seems to have accepted he's gone and is spending a bit more time in the living room than she did, mostly sleeping on the sofa. I'd say she doesn't miss him, at all, not in a sad way anyway.

[K9soul]

((Hugs)) to you.

[ramanth]

Chris, I am so sorry I am just seeing this now. :( Bobby was such a handsome boy and I loved seeing his pictures and hearing his stories. The video is such a touching tribute. My heart and prayers are with you and Ebby. *hugs*

[Logan]

Something told me to check in here tonight. I have been away too long, but my heart is sad to know that you have lost your Bobby, Chris. Thank you for fighting so hard for him and being courageous enough to know when it was time. Much love to you and your kitty.
Logan

Just realized how out of date my signature is. :( Honey, Butter and Milly are in heaven with Bobby.

[Edwina's Secretary]

I admit it...your beautiful video made me cry.

He was wonderful...

[lolli94]

Again, SO sorry you lost him, but glad you had the courage to let him go. I know how much joy Springers bring. Praying 4 you!

[ChrisH]

Thank you all.

I'm walking, talking, eating, sleeping, even laughing sometimes, but somehow divorced from reality. Reality is Bobby dashing around being a pain, asking for his dinner, sitting waiting for his harness to be put on for a walk, making me mad one minute and laugh the next ... days feel so strange.

I brought his ashes home today. I'm hoping now he's home I can better go forward into this new life without my boy.

[sasvermont]

Chris, I suspect it will take some time before your daily routines modify. I know how much time it takes to maintain a dog and I hope you find a reason to get up all hours of the night, in all kinds of weather, to go outside. Now that I have a dog, I don't think I could live without one for very long. My dog keeps me active whether I want to or not!

I dread the thoughts of my Prue leaving this earth some day within the next 10 or so years (her life span) - it just doesn't seem like enough time to spend with my girl.

Bob will always be in your heart. He is at peace now and will no longer be uncomfortable. In order to do that, he had to break your heart.

Maybe you will be able to find some space in your heart, for another fur-faced pupster to come in ..... there are so many dogs that need good homes. Bob would approve, I'm sure.

Your loss has made me appreciate my Prue more these days. I treasure her puppy-like routines, knowing she will be a big girl some day and will slow down....and down.....

I am glad you are doing ok. :love:

[Killearn Kitties]

Your video was beautiful Chris.

It doesn't quite seem real to me either that Bobby has gone. I will miss his photos and his wonderfully soulful eyes. No dog could ever hold a Happy Birthday card like our Bobby. :love::love:

Hugs to you and Ebbs tonight.

[ChrisH]

Thank you Karen. {{hugs}}

Chris, I suspect it will take some time before your daily routines modify. I know how much time it takes to maintain a dog and I hope you find a reason to get up all hours of the night, in all kinds of weather, to go outside. Now that I have a dog, I don't think I could live without one for very long. My dog keeps me active whether I want to or not!

I dread the thoughts of my Prue leaving this earth some day within the next 10 or so years (her life span) - it just doesn't seem like enough time to spend with my girl.

Bob will always be in your heart. He is at peace now and will no longer be uncomfortable. In order to do that, he had to break your heart.

Maybe you will be able to find some space in your heart, for another fur-faced pupster to come in ..... there are so many dogs that need good homes. Bob would approve, I'm sure.

Your loss has made me appreciate my Prue more these days. I treasure her puppy-like routines, knowing she will be a big girl some day and will slow down....and down.....

I am glad you are doing ok. :love:
A lot of your post resonates. Thanks sas {{hug}}

[ChrisH]

Too soon?

I've applied to adopt a dog.

I've almost idly looked though many, many, rescue websites over the last week and have seen hundreds of dogs I would love to home but only one that 'ticks all the boxes'.

It's fine to think if he's been taken there will be others, there is plenty of time, and that is most probably true and I would wait except ... time, I'm all too aware of it ticking away, slowly through the afternoon and evenings, so tired but sleep not refreshing, sunny, walking days wasted. Lonely.

This boy and I can share our days, learning from each other, having fun. Lonely no more.

The adoption procedure is exacting and thorough, as it should be, and I may not pass muster. I'll let you know.

Please try not to think ill of me.

[lizbud]

Too soon?

I've applied to adopt a dog.

I've almost idly looked though many, many, rescue websites over the last week and have seen hundreds of dogs I would love to home but only one that 'ticks all the boxes'.

It's fine to think if he's been taken there will be others, there is plenty of time, and that is most probably true and I would wait except ... time, I'm all too aware of it ticking away, slowly through the afternoon and evenings, so tired but sleep not refreshing, sunny, walking days wasted. Lonely.

This boy and I can share our days, learning from each other, having fun. Lonely no more.

The adoption procedure is exacting and thorough, as it should be, and I may not pass muster. I'll let you know.

Please try not to think ill of me.



Oh Chris, that would never happen.:) I adopted my Smokey just 3-4 weeks after Buddy passed away.
I think I could not stand the loneliness & quiet of my house with out him. I cried every day, I missed
him so much. Figured another dog who needed a home would force me to keep moving forward. I'll
never forget my heart pup Buddy, but Smokey also now has his own spot in my life & my heart.

You are right, another dog is waiting for a loving home to call his own. Make it yours.:love:

[ChrisH]

Thank you Liz, {{hug}} you'll never know how much your understanding means to me right now. {{hug}}

[robinh]

You are the only one who can decide when is the right time. No one else has the right to tell you when and who.

I think Bobby would not want you to be alone. Have you ever thought maybe he's whispering in your ear "Mama, you are lonely...and someone else needs you as much as I did."

Robin

[ChrisH]

Gosh, that made me cry ... but in a good way, if you know what I mean. Thank you Robin. {{hug}}

[robinh]

If you decide it's time, make sure to post pictures. We're here for you. {{hugs}}

[cloverfdx]

Chris only you can decide if you are ready for another gorgeous dog to enter your home. It sounds as though it would do you good though to have another walking buddy and to fill the lonely days. And i am sure your new friend would be forever grateful to spend his days with you, being spoilt and most of all loved :).

[cassiesmom]

Too soon?

I've applied to adopt a dog.

I've almost idly looked though many, many, rescue websites over the last week and have seen hundreds of dogs I would love to home but only one that 'ticks all the boxes'.

It's fine to think if he's been taken there will be others, there is plenty of time, and that is most probably true and I would wait except ... time, I'm all too aware of it ticking away, slowly through the afternoon and evenings, so tired but sleep not refreshing, sunny, walking days wasted. Lonely.

This boy and I can share our days, learning from each other, having fun. Lonely no more.

The adoption procedure is exacting and thorough, as it should be, and I may not pass muster. I'll let you know.

Please try not to think ill of me.

"Lonely no more" -- strikes the nail right on the head! Fingers and paws crossed that either this will work out, or you will meet another dog you would love to give a home to!

[Edwina's Secretary]

My mother, who is in her 80's, lost her dog earlier this year. She could not bear to think of life without a dog to take care of. I was worried she might not qualifiy for adoption. Not only was she able to adopt - she was given a special "senior" discount. Both she and the dog are considered senior. The dog, a cocker spaniel, is also blind -- or nearly so.

My parents moved into assisted living last month. It had to be a place that would accomodate Cody.

My mother is so happy - I hear about something cute every Sunday when I call, the dog is happy and my dad - well...I think he is happy too.

[ChrisH]

Heartfelt thanks guys for the understanding and support. {{hugs}}

My son and eldest granddaughter understand but my youngest granddaughter, the one I've been closest to, doesn't, which is somewhat upsetting and a little puzzling. For even though she grew up with Bob around and spent more time in his company then the other members of my family, she was never close to him, she never bothered with him at all, so it is not sentiment. But high-ho, maybe one day..

No dog could ever take the place of my Bobs, there was none like him, nor could there ever be. The one who may become my companion is radically different to Bob, deliberately so. If I pass the home check and then can go bring home I will then introduce him to you all in his own thread.

{{hugs}}

[Bonny]

Heartfelt thanks guys for the understanding and support. {{hugs}}

My son and eldest granddaughter understand but my youngest granddaughter, the one I've been closest to, doesn't, which is somewhat upsetting and a little puzzling. For even though she grew up with Bob around and spent more time in his company then the other members of my family, she was never close to him, she never bothered with him at all, so it is not sentiment. But high-ho, maybe one day..

No dog could ever take the place of my Bobs, there was none like him, nor could there ever be. The one who may become my companion is radically different to Bob, deliberately so. If I pass the home check and then can go bring home I will then introduce him to you all in his own thread.

{{hugs}}

The youngest granddaughter probably doesn't maybe understand death? We had a kitten die this fall that was our grandsons. He kept talking about the kitten & I said it had gone over the rainbow bridge to heaven where all animals go & won't be coming back. He said to me can't we at least talk about Little Bear even though he is gone. So he still brings up Little Bear & we talk about him. So deep down inside maybe she is hurting & doesn't know how to deal with it?

I hope you find another dog or another dog finds you. :)

[SadButGrateful]

Many years ago I had a pure black and totally beautiful cat. He looked like a miniature panther (his name was Stevie) and I dearly loved him but couldn't keep him because my living situation abruptly changed. So I took him to a Cat Protection Society and they adopted him out after only two weeks. He was two years old. I thought of him often and quite honestly, I felt like I failed him. A few years after that I was in a situation to have a cat and that's when Rusty and I found each other. (He passed away Christmas Eve after 13 years). He was just a kitten and I was very happy with him, but I found myself divided, like I couldn't give him my whole heart because a piece of it still belonged elsewhere and I kept thinking about the other cat. But one morning I looked at Rusty's face and it dawned on me that he didn't deserve only "half". He didn't do anything wrong and he deserved ALL of it, without guilt on my part. And I realized I could do that without diminishing my love for Stevie. From that moment on I didn't "short-change" him anymore, he got all I could give. Thankfully I had him less than a week before I came to that realization and I can honestly say I cherished every moment with him after that, right until his passing. That was the tough part for me about getting another pet. Maybe this is part of the issue with your grand daughter. I don't know. Just thought I'd share this, maybe it will help. Good luck with your adoption! He or she is going to be one lucky dog!

[ChrisH]

Thanks Bonny and SBG for your thoughts and input.

Bonny, she does understand about the death of a pet. She is 16, and over time she and her family have lost both a beloved dog and two cats, one a kitten that she loved very much. You could be right about a deep down hurt though, perhaps related to how she never showed Bobs how much she cared when he was here. I don't know. Thanks for the good wishes. {hug}

SBG, over the years I have lost and owned, or rather been owned by, 5 dogs, 6 with Bobs, and I understand totally everything you wrote. I was able to love each one of my dogs for themselves and will do so yet again. Thanks for the good luck wishes. {hug}

I spoke to my granddaughter on the telephone about adopting another dog maybe when I see her in person I will get more of an idea of what she thinks/feels. Though I have an idea it is about the time gap. Something I suspect a number of people may have a problem with, maybe one day they, and she, may understand. I hope so.

[lolli94]

You alone know when the right time is. I have often wondered how long it would take me to be ready to get another dog if Lolli ever died. I think it wouldn't take long at all. I am planning to pick Buddy up tonight so now I have two dogs and I probavly wouldn't be as quick to get another dog if Lolli died because I would still have one. But I hope everything goes well and good luck.

[ChrisH]

Thank you for your understanding. {{hug}}

[lizbud]

I spoke to my granddaughter on the telephone about adopting another dog maybe when I see her in person I will get more of an idea of what she thinks/feels. Though I have an idea it is about the time gap. Something I suspect a number of people may have a problem with, maybe one day they, and she, may understand. I hope so.


Chris, I wouldn't be to overly concerned with your youngest grandaughter's reaction.
Some lessons are best learned with time and personal experience. One day she will
understand it better.:)

[krazyaboutkatz]

Too soon?

I've applied to adopt a dog.

I've almost idly looked though many, many, rescue websites over the last week and have seen hundreds of dogs I would love to home but only one that 'ticks all the boxes'.

It's fine to think if he's been taken there will be others, there is plenty of time, and that is most probably true and I would wait except ... time, I'm all too aware of it ticking away, slowly through the afternoon and evenings, so tired but sleep not refreshing, sunny, walking days wasted. Lonely.

This boy and I can share our days, learning from each other, having fun. Lonely no more.

The adoption procedure is exacting and thorough, as it should be, and I may not pass muster. I'll let you know.

Please try not to think ill of me.

Chris, I think that this is wonderful news and I sure hope that everything will go well so that you can adopt this new dog.:) From my own experience, it's always helped me to get through the grieving process by adopting another pet. Good luck.:)

[ChrisH]

Chris, I wouldn't be to overly concerned with your youngest grandaughter's reaction.
Some lessons are best learned with time and personal experience. One day she will understand it better.:)
Wise words Liz, thanks. http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v11/CwmmawrJet/Smiles/icon15.gif It wasn't mentioned by either of us when she here this afternoon and best left that way I think.

Chris, I think that this is wonderful news and I sure hope that everything will go well so that you can adopt this new dog.:) From my own experience, it's always helped me to get through the grieving process by adopting another pet. Good luck.:)
Thanks Tracey. :)

[ramanth]

I concur with everyone else. I think you alone know the best time to open your heart and home to another. I think Bobby will guide you to that one. *HUGS*

[carole]

you know when i lost my first kitty, he was very young and the heartache was terrible,i did not adopt my lexie until three months later, for me it was a mistake and i learn't from that,(should have done it sooner) when lexie arrived i had something else to focus on, did not mean i had forgotten my Sooti, far from it,it just helped ease the pain and i think you to will find this when you find your little companion,however in hindsight if i had adopted sooner i would have missed out on my lovely little lexie, and i am so glad i didn't, thinking of you and i know exactly how you are feeling. HUGS

[ChrisH]

Thank you Kimmy and Carole.

[ChrisH]

I thought you may like to see these two photos. (Sorry they are not very clear)

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v11/CwmmawrJet/Bobby%20Boy/Bob%202011/DSCF2034.jpg

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v11/CwmmawrJet/Bobby%20Boy/Bob%202011/DSCF2011.jpg

I still find it hard to believe he's gone. :( I wake up expecting him to be there, head on the bed, sometimes with a toy in his mouth "Come on mum!" ...

[ChrisH]

Life still feel strange without my Bobby, it's kind of like I'm living a different one if that makes any sense.

I'm beginning to love little Alfie, especially I think because he and Bob are like chalk and cheese. Don't know if I'm weird but I feel like if I can't have my Bob back I don't want him replicated in any way at all.

Love you Bobs, there will never, ever, be another dog like you.

[carole]

Oh as i read your post , i feel tears coming, i know exactly how you are feeling, life just is not the same for me either since Ellie left, i had so much interaction with her, as she was so ill, and she was always there, to be honest i feel lost and lonely without her, if that makes sense, so my heart goes out to you,none of them are replaceable, just having a new pet ,just helps ease the pain a little and makes us focus on that, but our hearts still ache and it will just take time.

Sending you a lots of hugs and know that i and many here understand completely what you are saying, take care.:love:

Bobs memoriam is just beautiful,he was such a pretty dog.

[ChrisH]

Carole, thank you for your kind words and understanding. {{hugs}}

[captain]

Chris -that is so beautiful!!!!

Hugs to you and Alfie :)

[ChrisH]

Thanks. {{hugs}} back.

[Cataholic]

Oh, God, Chris. It is nearly unbearable at times, isn't it? When I lost Tex, my tuxie'ist all of tuxedos, a bit of my heart went forever with him. I felt such a resistance to loving my other cats fully. As if I could stop the pain. Eventually, the love comes, but I am not sure it is the same. When I let RB Binx go, it was forever before I loved another dog. With Jasper, who I have had close to a year now, or is it two?, I really don't remember...I love him, but, my heart belongs to Binx. :(

[ChrisH]

Johanna, {{hugs}} yes, it is bad at times. I can't look at photos or videos of Bobs without breaking down ... just thinking of him brings tears to my eyes. He was not a easy dog and he caused me a whole lot of stress but seeing that waggy tail and happy face would make me forget all the trouble he caused ... what can I say, all my life I've been a sucker for the bad boys,:)

I remember your Binx well and how you sought high and low to find a solution to his condition and when you couldn't, even though it was the right and loving thing to do, how hard it was for you to let him go. {{hugs}} & love.

[ChrisH]

I love my 'new' little boy Alfie, he has made his own space in my heart and I wouldn't be without him now, but I still miss my Bobby SO much. His ever wagging tail, his happy face, his big brown eyes, even his naughtiness. What would have been his 14th birthday is coming up soon, the 20th ... anyone remember how he would hold a sign saying it was his birthday? .. my heart is in pieces.

[Cataholic]

I am crying with you, Chris. Sometimes, time isn't the great healer that we hope for. I am glad you have Alfie. I do remember how Bob would hold the sign for his birthday. I am sure he will have a heck of a birthday up at the RB! {{hugs}}

[Randi]

Who could ever forget Bob sitting there with his birthday sign - he was such a sweetie! :love: We all miss seeing him here and hearing what he was up to.
(((hugs))) to you, Chris. :love:

[ChrisH]

Thanks guys.

[captain]

Oh Chris,
I remember him holding signs not only for HIS birthday, but for MINE!!! He was such a beautiful boy - you know how much I loved seeing all your posts with Bob *sigh* .... overloaded from the cuteness.

Alfie sure is a cute little guy. You know Bob is looking down and loving the fact that you are not alone, and is looking after you still.

HUGE hugs
Michelle

[Edwina's Secretary]

I too, remember Bobby signs...for his birthday, for my birthday and sometimes just because.

He was such a special boy and I was...in love with him! (like THAT was a secret!)

[ChrisH]

So glad you remember Michelle & Sara, thank you. {{hugs}}

[ChrisH]

Feeling sad and missing my Bobby even more today.:( For the first time for 14years I will not be making his birthday burger & chips, giving him ice-cream for afters and no getting out the camera for his birthday photo shoot. :( It's so hard.

[gini]

Chris, how my heart goes out to you. I know that gawdawful feeling too well after losing my kitties one by one.

I can't help but believe the others are right - Bobby is still very close to you and looking over you and taking care. He loved you too much and also remembers how special his birthdays were at your house.

Chris, I send you a warm hug.

[ChrisH]

Thank you gini. {{hugs}} back.

[ChrisH]

My heart is heavy. I still miss you so my Bobs.

[pomtzu]

We never stop missing them, do we Chris? {{{Hugs}}}

[captain]

Oh Chris :(
Huge hugs to you. They hold such special places in our hearts - always.

[ChrisH]

Thanks both, {{hugs}}, as you both know only too well, some days/times are harder than others. For some reason I've been having a lot more of those 'miss you' days just lately.

[ChrisH]

One year ago today ... still very much missing you and your waggy tail Bobby boy.

[pomtzu]

{{{Hugs}}} Chris. :love: Time seems to drag when remembering dates such as this - it seems like forever, and not just a year. I feel your pain. Give Alfie lots and lots of extra hugs today - that will help.

[ChrisH]

Thank you. Alfie and I will be sharing a cuddle later on for sure, it and he helps.

[anna_66]

Time passes by so quickly doesn't it. I know I'll never forget that beautiful boy of your.
Many (((HUGS))) to you Chris.

[ChrisH]

Just as I won't forget the perfect Rottie personified in your dear sweet Angus. Thanks Anna. {hugs}

[carole]

My heart goes out to you,we never forget them even as time goes by and our hearts heal,they will always have a special place there,hugs to you at this time,as sadness is still with you and I so know how it feels .

[ChrisH]

I know you do Carole {{hugs}} thank you.