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MrsHoneyDew
11-19-2011, 06:44 PM
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Neko passed away this Tuesday on 11/15/11. She was only 5 years old.

Neko was incredibly special to me. She was my first cat and my best friend. I adopted her when she was 2 months old, a few months after my father passed away and I moved back to Chicago. I moved into a small apartment that looked over the lake and felt very lonely. When Neko came to live with me, she really brightened up my life. She woke me up every morning at 6am and we would sit near the window enjoying the view while I drank my coffee. That summer, I met my husband, Jeremy. When Jeremy and I moved in together, we were like a family and I always joked and said that she was our furry kitty child. :)
Actually, we were the only two people she seemed to like.

She always seemed pretty healthy, just a little on the small side. But in June '11, her health and weight dwindled. I was very concerned for her. I took her to the vet and they couldn't figure out what was wrong, but noted that she was anemic and that her red blood cell count was dangerously low. The doctors who saw her couldn't believe that she was still alive, one called her a "Miracle Kitty". They decided to give her a steroid shot to see if that would do anything. It did.
She went back to a normal weight, ate again, started to sleep with me again. Everything seemed fine for a few months until September-October, she started to slowly slip back to the way she was back in June. She went down to 4 pounds, hardly ate, and neglected her fur. I spent hours trying to groom her everyday. Then she started to make wheezing noises and her whole body moved as she tried to breath. I was extremely worried, and expected that they would suggest euthanasia.
I took her back to the vet and saw a different doctor who didn't seem worried as Neko writhed around from discomfort on the floor. She told me that it looked like there was a parasite attacking her red blood cells and that an antibiotic should take care of it. She said that I would see the results in just a few days, gave her a steroid shot, and sent us on our way.

Neko died the next day. I came home from work to give her her 2nd dose and my husband held her as I tried to get the liquid in her mouth. She fought so hard, we decided to give it a rest because we didn't want to hurt her. That's when she vomited on me. I set her down and she keeled over and started breath heavily. I didn't know what to do, I knew this was it, so I set her on a towel in the bathtub and went to clean up the mess in the kitchen. When I came back a few minutes later, she was gone. It was such a horrible experience, watching a being that I cared for die, and there was nothing that I could do to stop it. She was my family, my baby.

I miss her so much.

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phesina
11-19-2011, 07:35 PM
I am so very sorry.

What a beautiful cat she is. My deepest sympathy to you in your grief.

Love is eternal, and you and she are together always.

God bless you and be with you.

:love::love::love::love::love::love::love::love:,
Pat and cats

todd
11-19-2011, 07:40 PM
so sorry for your loss

Scooter's Mom
11-19-2011, 08:02 PM
I'm so sorry about Neko. From your story, she was extremely loved. She was beautiful!

krazyaboutkatz
11-19-2011, 08:26 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss.:( Neko was a very beautiful girl and was very loved. RIP sweet Neko.:(

moosmom
11-20-2011, 05:58 AM
I am so sorry for your loss. Neko was a stunner!! You did all you could for that precious baby. May your heart heal.:(

Pinot's Mom
11-20-2011, 07:11 AM
RIP sweet Neko, and Peace to your parents on earth. Godspeed to the Bridge where you'll be whole and healthy again as you wait for the day your family will reunite.

catmandu
11-27-2011, 12:15 PM
RIP neko, and My Black Cat Angels Ebony Beau Tubster , Tubby Two and Ebony Tubbette will be there to welcome you into your new place in Paradise.
You will be a memeber of Our Awesome Angels Army , and travel the World Over.
We know taht you will find just the right place, for you and your Dear Best Friend to be reunited in love again.
One Fine Day:love:

mrspunkysmom
11-27-2011, 02:35 PM
I am so sorry for your loss. Rest in Peace Neko

Craftlady
11-30-2011, 09:11 AM
So sorry for your loss. It;s so hard to watch them struggle and not beable to fix it. May Neko be playing hard at the RB Bridge with all the other kitties. I'm partial to black kitties. Neko reminds me of my Skinny but without white patch on his chest.

5Cats
12-02-2011, 11:37 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss of beautiful Neko :love: and for the traumatic ordeal you experienced in losing her. Although she left you much too soon, she was very fortunate in the time and love she had from you and your husband. I hope you will be able to always take comfort in the happy memories of all the love Neko gave to you.