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shais_mom
04-07-2011, 06:32 PM
I won't have the knack Phred did so I am going to c/p some of his previous.
:)
yup we are doing it again - and we are giving our Phriend Phred an official Pet Talk Send-off. Anyone with any ideas or suggestions for that - please shoot me a PM. :)
anyhooooo

We're Doin it Again! ~
Anudder *BIG* Pet Talk Gathurin!

Where? ~ Da Bark Park at FINDLAY, OHIO

When? ~ Memorial Day Weekend ~ ** SUNDAY **
The LAST SUNDAY in May ~
SUNDAY ~ May 29, 2011

Note: This is a 3-Day weekend - Saturday, Sunday,
and the Holiday is celebrated on Monday.

Time? First Arrivals can be 10AM or even earlier...
the Real Crowd starts forming between
11AM and Noon...
The DieHards stay till almost Dark.

What Goes On? ~ A REEL GUD TYME!!!!

Dawgs ~ Playin, Chasin, Rasslin, Runnin,
Jumpin, Eatin TREETS!!

Hoomins ~ Talkin, Socializin, Jabberin, Yappin,
Swappin Dawg Tails, EATIN GUD Food,
takin Photos, an Havin a GREAT Tyme!!

Who Should Come? **Ebberbuddie**
Grab yur Dawgs (some folks even bring da KAT! ),
load up some Treets & Grub, and motor on over!

We'll post some maps & directions later...
for now all ya need to know is we meet in Findlay, Ohio -
which is on InterState 75, South of Toledo, Ohio ~
in the North West corner of Ohio.

Y'all BEE THERE!! ~ SUNDAY ~ MAY 29thth

We're gonna have sum *Phunn*!!

PS:
No Dawg?? ~ NO Problem - we alluz have "Extra Dawgs"!
We can "loan" ya a Dawg fur the Day!

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
I'm not sure if we are going to do day 2 or not will have to get back on that.

shais_mom
04-07-2011, 06:33 PM
What's a "Gathurin"?? ... What's this all about ??


For the Newer Pet Talkers, and anyone else who hasn't seen the
sometimes "lengthy" posts devoted to Planning these Events,
and the always enjoyable "Reports" (complete with extensive
Photo Coverage) of the Events ~

Here's a capsule summary of What Goes On:

We "Gather" at the very nice Hancock County Park District "Dog Park" in the
north-western corner of OHIO.
Facilities include:

* A 2-acre fully fenced OFF-leash Dog Park - with picnic tables, running water,
a few shade trees, grass, a lil mud, a collection of toys & balls -
a fine place to let a Friendly Pooch *romp* with other dogs.

* And 100 feet away ~ An enclosed (on two sides) Covered Picnic Pavilion
with concrete floor, picnic tables to seat 90 or so, electrical outlets,
2 charcoal grills - and enough Food & Covered Dishes to feed a mid-sized army!
(We NEVER go away hungry!!)
We Reserve and Rent the Pavilion - so there's no risk of it being "occupied"
by anyone except our Pet Talk Gang.

* Within 500 feet - there are two CLEAN Rest Rooms ~ OK, they don't *flush* -
but they ARE "clean", have concrete floors, and locking doors!

* A large, paved parking lot is within sight of the Dog Park and Pavilion.

* Many wooded Trails through the beautiful Park are available, but most
Folks hang with the Gang in the Dog Park or at the Pavilion.

* Food is casual / picnic stuff - everyone brings a lil extra to share - and as
said before - ya won't be hungry when you leave!

We can't stress enough that EVERYone is More than Welcome!!
We were all "strangers" when we came to our "first one" -
and most everyone who has been to one keeps coming back!

NEW This Year ~~~
The Hancock Park District has DROPPED the requirement that the DOGS have to be "Registered"
to enter the Dog Park area, and NO Fees will be charged.
BUTT ~~~ PLEASE NOTE:
The Rules REQUIRING that ALL Doge have the following are STILL IN EFFECT:

1) COPY (originals won't be returned) of the Dog's
. . Annual Vaccination Record (including distemper) from the VET...
. . (A Copy of the Office Visit Receipt is fine if the SHOTS
. . are noted & has Vet's Name on it).
. . DATE of Shots needs to be within ONE Year of now.

2) COPY of RABIES Vaccination Receipt ...
. . DATE within 1 or 3 years - depending on the vaccine used;
. . Most Rabies Receipts show an EXPIRATION date for the shot -
. . Rabies Vacc must be "current" (not expired).
. . (Fido should be *wearing* the Rabies "Tag".)

3) All Dogs must also be "Licensed" by the City, Town, County,
or State where you LIVE. Fido should be *wearing* his/her License Tag.

You should make and carry COPIES of all these documents with you every time
you visit the Dog Park. If there's an "incident" (Fido is accused of *biting* someone) -
you'll be required to PROVE the above requirements have been met by Fido.

If you're still "not sure" about attending -
take a look at some of out Past Gathurins in these threads >>>

Last Year's Memorial Day Gathurin - May 24, 2009 >>>
http://petoftheday.com/talk/showthread.php?t=151867

2008's Spring Memorial Day Gathurin >>>
http://petoftheday.com/talk/showthread.php?t=138621

2007's Spring Memorial Day Gathurin - May 27, 2007 >>>
http://petoftheday.com/talk/showthread.php?t=124178

Spring Memorial Day Gathurin - May 28, 2006 >>>
http://petoftheday.com/talk/showthread.php?t=98411

How to Get MapQuest Directions TO the Findlay Bark Park
OK - Here's how to get your MapQuest "Directions" with Turn-by-Turn Instructions ...

Use the Click-Link (below) to get to the From and To page for MapQuest.
**WAIT** till the page fully loads - or you'll goof up the pre-filled data!!

When the page finishes loading - you'll have TWO big data blocks -
the one on the LEFT asking for your STARTING Location;
the one on the RIGHT >> Already FILLED IN < with the Dog Park Address.

If you have it - do NOT use Microsoft's "AutoFill" - it will put your home address
in BOTH blocks - erasing the pre-filled Dog Park Address!

JUST fill in your Home or "Starting" address in the LEFT (STARTING Location) Blocks. OverWrite any address that appears there.

Here's the "Revised for 2010" *Link* to MapQuest >>>
(The MapQuest directions are "usable" just as they print out from MapQuest.
They MAY NOT "match" landmarks I've posted in the past.

MapQuest Directions To: Findlay, OH ~ DOG PARK

-------------------------------------------------------------------

IF you want to use a GPS or another Mapping Service - here's the Dog Park Address:

16500 Township Road 208
-OR-
Township Road 207 AND Township Road 208
Findlay, OH 45840

GPS Coordinates: (WGS 84)
N. 41* 01.941'
W 083* 33.691'

The Dog Park is INside the Hancock Park District's "Riverbend Recreation Area";
about a half mile south of Ohio Route 568;
and just north of the North-East Corner of the big Findlay Reservoir.
The Reservoir is on most maps - and stands out because it is drawn as a
Big SQUARE Blue Lake; south-east of downtown Findlay.
If ANYONE has trouble with the Route to the Dog Park - PM "Cinder & Smoke"
with your E-mail and Home/Starting Address.
-------------------------------------------------------

OK - so what changed?

* BE PREPARED: No matter where you're coming from, Map Quest will probably
show a different route for the last 10 - 15 miles - different from last year's route.
Use whatever you're comfortable with or remember ... there aren't ANY roads or bridges
that are closed ... and I've driven ALL the various routes that MapQuest can suggest.
NO route is really much better than another --- miles are about the same
and drive time isn't drastically altered.

If you think your mapping program or GPS is really sending you around Robinhood's Barn -
send me a copy of the route and I'll look it over.

As always, the PT Travel Bureau will be open all day on Sunday & Monday -
Just a cell phone away! We WILL get you to the Park!

k9krazee
04-07-2011, 07:50 PM
I'll be there :)

Karen
04-07-2011, 10:08 PM
We do not know yet whether we will be able to make it, but I promise we'll let you know when we know! And Staci, I'll PM you ideas for a Phred "memorial service" of sorts.

shais_mom
04-07-2011, 10:24 PM
thanks Karen and yay Ash! ;)

ramanth
04-08-2011, 09:21 PM
I'm planning on it! John may tag along this time. We'll see. :)

Bibette & Lulu
04-09-2011, 08:40 AM
Hi, all - must have been reading my mind. I was wondering when the event was going to happen. I have been working on plans to travel to Pgh/Ohio for that weekend.

Part of my trip will be to have some of Phred's ashes (Brother John as I refer to him) buried in Allegheny Cemetery in Pittsburgh in our family plot. That I am making plans for Friday, 5/27 (no time yet) if anyone in the Pgh area is interested in attending. I know that John had also wanted to have a spot in the cemetery in Berlin Center - but I'm not sure if Pat and Joan have worked anything out yet. And he also wanted some of his ashes in Findlay at the Dog Park.

I was wondering if anyone had come up with something that the Dog Park "needs" to have done as a memorial to Phred. I was also wondering about a stone with an inscription in his honor and his ashes buried under it. Maybe a tree planted along side. I am interested in helping with the costs if someone in the Findlay area can check into where it can be done - and if the stone could be ready by the weekend of the gathering. You can send me links to complete the deal.

I do plan to attend, barring any unforseen glitches. I'll fly into Pgh, spend a few days with friends there, and then drive to Ohio on Saturday. Get to Findlay on Sunday and head back to Pgh on Monday. Lots of traveling in a short period of time, but I kind of shot a big hole in my leave time at work with the events of the winter.

I want to thank everyone who was part of John's funeral gathering - I haven't been a very gracious sister and made individual acknowledgements (my mother is tsking me, I'm sure :o:o) - but I have thought often about that get together and have enjoyed getting to know some of Phred's other family. I'm looking foward to meeting more of you. And I'm going to be one who will need to "borrow" a dawg!!! Unless Joan and Pat come with their charges.

See you later in the spring (is it finally here?!?:)) Nancy (Phred's sister).

Cincy'sMom
04-09-2011, 09:33 AM
We'll be there!

MonicanHonda
04-10-2011, 08:04 PM
If it lasted later into the evening, I may be able to attend. I really want to because of the memorial for Phred, but there is a puppy match for the Dal club I am in that day. I'm hoping time will allow me to travel to Findlay... I dunno yet. *sigh*

Grace
04-12-2011, 10:40 PM
As it stands now, we will be there, and we will be bringing Pat (Phesina) with us :)

Karen
04-13-2011, 08:26 PM
Staci, I PM'd you ideas.

cyber-sibes
04-13-2011, 10:44 PM
I won't be able to attend, but I will be there in spirit with you all. I would like to contribute to whatever project you come up with as a Memorial for Phred. I'll try to keep an eye on this thread, but would appreciate if someone would also pm me or send me a message on fb so I can participate.

We planted a Kousa Dogwood in our front yard a couple weeks ago, and under it are ashes from Star, Sherman, Rosie, & Chow-Chow, plus a tasty dog treat. I think of Phred often, still admire the silk flowers he sent when Star crossed over. :love:

wolf_Q
04-15-2011, 09:11 PM
We're coming...my dogs won't be there but my friends dogs Cisco and Freyja will. :)

shais_mom
04-16-2011, 12:02 AM
That's awesome Amy! :)
Keegan won't be there either she had too many injuries lately - I won't risk it. But I will be bringing my "step-dog" Annie :)

Suki Wingy
04-17-2011, 01:06 AM
I've been wanting to make it to one of these for years but it looks like I won't be able to get off of work for it this year. :(

k9krazee
04-17-2011, 09:29 PM
We're coming...my dogs won't be there but my friends dogs Cisco and Freyja will. :)

Oh how exciting! :D :D

lbaker
04-18-2011, 02:43 PM
Count me in!!!! YEA!!!! May be bringing a buddy (just the 2-legger kind) or perhaps even my son and D-in-law. See ya'll then.

Laurie

RobiLee
04-22-2011, 07:42 PM
I've been told by a certain little girl in Utah that I better be there;).

I do plan on being there but I have to make sure things are ok with my dad (he had a stroke) before I go that far away from home.

Hope to see you all there!!

CountryWolf07
04-25-2011, 12:00 AM
*MIGHT* make a appearance! (along with Mike, too) Hank won't make the trip, though. I don't trust him around other dogs & plus, he tends to be not nice towards other dogs, so I'm not taking any chances. I actually will be back after my trip to California on the 27th so.. just in time. Will let you know!

MonicanHonda
04-25-2011, 06:28 PM
Dang, all these people coming... I better try and make an appearance. You guys better stay late and chit chat. Lol I want to see everyone :)

anna_66
05-04-2011, 05:28 PM
I've been so bad...I just seen this post:o

I knew we were having it, but I've been so caught up in things I haven't really been on PT much.

I plan on being there. Looking forward to seeing you all :)

shais_mom
05-09-2011, 10:19 AM
Does anyone need help with directions?
and

MENU?!

Main Dish/Meat
. . . .

Salads/Sides
. . . .

Munchies & Krunchies & Dips
. . . . . .

Desserts
. .
. .
. .
. .
. .

Drinks
. . Kooler & Ice wiff both HiTest an Diet Pops
. . Iced Tea & bottled water ??

Kitchen Suppliez & STUFF
. . KetchUp
. . Bar-B-Que Sauce
. . Brown Mustard
. . Yeller Mustard
. . Sweet Relish
. . Salt & Peppur
. . ChopUp a Unyin or two
. . 'Merican Cheeze fur Cheeze-Burgerz
. . Roll of Papur Towels
. . grill Tweezers & Spatchulas
. . couple extra Servin Spoonz
. . *Zip-Lok Baggiez* - fur Carry-Outz & Take-Homez

grill accessories? Carl and Diana - do you still have the stuff?

4 Dog Mother
05-09-2011, 11:36 AM
Oh, Forget Staci's last post (just remember Staci, Mom's just sometimes take over). We have to use Phred's old Menu.



OMG! What are we gonna EAT? Where's the Menue ??
What to Bring? ~ MENUE ~ for Findlay -
Memorial Day SUNDAY, May 29, 2011


~~ MENUE ~~~
Here's what has been promised so far >>>
(With some suggestions that have been *HITS* before)

Main Dish/Meat
. . HamBurgers & Round Buns (by Phred, Diana & Carl)
. . Brats w/ Cheese & Long Buns (by Phred, Diana &Carl)
. . Hot dogs & Long Buns (by Phred, Diana &Carl)
. .

Salads/Sides
. . Tater Salad (by Diana, 4DM)
. . Baked Beans ??
. . Coleslaw ??
. . Macaroni Salad ??
. . Pasta Salad ??
. . Taco Salad ??
. . Banana Bread ??
. .

Munchies & Krunchies & Dips
. . Veggies + Dip ??
. . Chips + Dip ??
. .

Desserts
. . Chawklit Chippie Cookies (by Phred)
. . Brownies (by Diana, 4DM)
. . Watermelon ??
. . Strawberry Pretzel Dessert ??
. .

Drinks
. . Kooler & Ice wiff both HiTest an Diet Pops (by Carl, Diana, & Phred)
. . Iced Tea & bottled water ??

Kitchen Suppliez & STUFF (by Phred, Carl & Diana)
. . KetchUp
. . Bar-B-Que Sauce
. . Brown Mustard
. . Yeller Mustard
. . Sweet Relish
. . Salt & Peppur
. . ChopUp a Unyin or two
. . 'Merican Cheeze fur Cheeze-Burgerz
. . Roll of Papur Towels
. . grill Tweezers & Spatchulas
. . couple extra Servin Spoonz
. . *Zip-Lok Baggiez* - fur Carry-Outz & Take-Homez

. . *plates & napkins & forks* = (by 4DM)
. . Bag a CharKoal (by Carl)
. . CharKoal Liter Juze (by Carl)


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"Current" as of: 5/9/2011 @ 12:34 pm

==================================================

If you can ADD something to the Menue -
"QUOTE" THIS (or the last & latest) post -
and "Edit In" whatever you'd like to bring.

Note:
Everything above are only "suggestions" of things that have been
"HITS" in the past ... If YOU like it, cook it & bring it --- someone will Eat it!

Note: There ARE Electrical Outlets available in the
Pavilion to power CrockPots, HotPlates, etc.

Cinder Sez:
Hey Gang ~ Pleeze don't furget da Dawggie *TREETz*!!

Bring either the "small" or "Byte-Sized" treets - mosta da Phunn fur
us 4-Leggers is the "GETTIN" da treet - a quick <munch> an we
can get rite back in line fur anudder wun ... kinda hate to have to spend
a lotta time <krunchin> up a BIG treat.

..

shais_mom
05-09-2011, 03:40 PM
LOL :D
well I did it that way so no one would feel obligated to bring stuff. (like you guys supplying all the meat)

wolf_Q
05-09-2011, 09:59 PM
I'll buy or make something when I get there can't really bring anything on the plane...I'll keep checking this and see what is still needed when the time gets closer so I know what to get when I'm there.

shais_mom
05-09-2011, 10:15 PM
that's fine Amy we will have plenty - where are you guys staying?

wolf_Q
05-10-2011, 06:13 PM
We're staying at my friend house in Fairport Harbor.

Freckles
05-10-2011, 06:55 PM
Don't forget your camera, fresh batteries and extra media cards for pictures.
Take lots of pictures.

neko1
05-11-2011, 04:35 AM
Wish we could go this year but I just can't leave Tama so soon after he crashed.


Take lots of pictures!:)

CountryWolf07
05-16-2011, 10:22 PM
Amy made it clear to "tie me up and throw me in the back of the car" to have me to make a appearance at the dog park! Kidding, kidding. :) I will be there! Mike will probably with me also. So I'm looking forward to it. I may be jetlagged for a day or two, though!

AdoreMyDogs
05-18-2011, 01:23 PM
I would love to come, but, sadly, I will have to be there in spirit. I loved Phred and want so badly to bid one last farewell to him, but money does not allow me to travel at that time.

Have a wonderful time, everyone.

Grace
05-18-2011, 10:24 PM
OMG! What are we gonna EAT? Where's the Menue ??
What to Bring? ~ MENUE ~ for Findlay -
Memorial Day SUNDAY, May 29, 2011



~~ MENUE ~~~
Here's what has been promised so far >>>
(With some suggestions that have been *HITS* before)

Main Dish/Meat
. . HamBurgers & Round Buns (by Phred, Diana & Carl)
. . Brats w/ Cheese & Long Buns (by Phred, Diana &Carl)
. . Hot dogs & Long Buns (by Phred, Diana &Carl)
. .

Salads/Sides
. . Tater Salad (by Diana, 4DM)
. . Baked Beans ??
. . Coleslaw ??
. . Macaroni Salad ??
. . Pasta Salad ??
. . Taco Salad ??
. . Banana Bread ??
. .

Munchies & Krunchies & Dips
. . Veggies + Dip - Gretchen (Grace)
. . Chips + Dip ??
. .

Desserts
. . Chawklit Chippie Cookies (by Phred)
. . Brownies (by Diana, 4DM)
. . Watermelon ??
. . Strawberry Pretzel Dessert ??
. .

Drinks
. . Kooler & Ice wiff both HiTest an Diet Pops (by Carl, Diana, & Phred)
. . Iced Tea
bottled water - Gretchen (Grace)

Kitchen Suppliez & STUFF (by Phred, Carl & Diana)
. . KetchUp
. . Bar-B-Que Sauce
. . Brown Mustard
. . Yeller Mustard
. . Sweet Relish
. . Salt & Peppur
. . ChopUp a Unyin or two
. . 'Merican Cheeze fur Cheeze-Burgerz
. . Roll of Papur Towels
. . grill Tweezers & Spatchulas
. . couple extra Servin Spoonz
. . *Zip-Lok Baggiez* - fur Carry-Outz & Take-Homez

. . *plates & napkins & forks* = (by 4DM)
. . Bag a CharKoal (by Carl)
. . CharKoal Liter Juze (by Carl)


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"Current" as of: 5/18/2011 @ 11:22 pm

Husky_mom
05-20-2011, 07:25 PM
I wish I could go physically.. cause in spirit IŽll be there..
:(

if I can contribute in any way to get some stuff.. please DO let me know where.. and IŽll send it..

Cincy'sMom
05-21-2011, 10:02 AM
OMG! What are we gonna EAT? Where's the Menue ??
What to Bring? ~ MENUE ~ for Findlay -
Memorial Day SUNDAY, May 29, 2011

~~ MENUE ~~~
Here's what has been promised so far >>>
(With some suggestions that have been *HITS* before)

Main Dish/Meat
. . HamBurgers & Round Buns (by Phred, Diana & Carl)
. . Brats w/ Cheese & Long Buns (by Phred, Diana &Carl)
. . Hot dogs & Long Buns (by Phred, Diana &Carl)
. .

Salads/Sides
. . Tater Salad (by Diana, 4DM)
. . Baked Beans (by Cincy'smom)
. . Macaroni Salad ??
. . Pasta Salad ??
. . Taco Salad ??
. . Banana Bread ??
. .

Munchies & Krunchies & Dips
. . Veggies + Dip - Gretchen (Grace)
. . Chips + Dip ??
. .

Desserts
. . Chawklit Chippie Cookies (by Phred)
. . Brownies (by Diana, 4DM)
. . Watermelon ??
. . Strawberry Pretzel Dessert ??
. .

Drinks
. . Kooler & Ice wiff both HiTest an Diet Pops (by Carl, Diana, & Phred)
. . Iced Tea & bottled water - Gretchen (Grace)

Kitchen Suppliez & STUFF (by Phred, Carl & Diana)
. . KetchUp
. . Bar-B-Que Sauce
. . Brown Mustard
. . Yeller Mustard
. . Sweet Relish
. . Salt & Peppur
. . ChopUp a Unyin or two
. . 'Merican Cheeze fur Cheeze-Burgerz
. . Roll of Papur Towels
. . grill Tweezers & Spatchulas
. . couple extra Servin Spoonz
. . *Zip-Lok Baggiez* - fur Carry-Outz & Take-Homez

. . *plates & napkins & forks* = (by 4DM)
. . Bag a CharKoal (by Carl)
. . CharKoal Liter Juze (by Carl)


--------------------------------------------------
"Current" as of: 5/21/2011 @ 11:02 am

For some reason it is telling me my message is too short...

Grace
05-21-2011, 11:36 AM
For some reason it is telling me my message is too short...

That's because your entire message was in quotes - until you wrote that last sentence.

And the quote doesn't get that I signed up only for bottled water - not iced tea. I don't drink tea, and wouldn't know what to buy :confused:


~~ MENUE ~~~
Here's what has been promised so far >>>
(With some suggestions that have been *HITS* before)

Main Dish/Meat
. . HamBurgers & Round Buns (by Phred, Diana & Carl)
. . Brats w/ Cheese & Long Buns (by Phred, Diana &Carl)
. . Hot dogs & Long Buns (by Phred, Diana &Carl)
. .

Salads/Sides
. . Tater Salad (by Diana, 4DM)
. . Baked Beans (by Cincy's Mom)
. . Coleslaw ??
. . Macaroni Salad ??
. . Pasta Salad ??
. . Taco Salad ??
. . Banana Bread ??
. .

Munchies & Krunchies & Dips
. . Veggies + Dip - Gretchen (Grace)
. . Chips + Dip ??
. .

Desserts
. . Chawklit Chippie Cookies (by Phred)
. . Brownies (by Diana, 4DM)
. . Watermelon ??
. . Strawberry Pretzel Dessert ??
. .

Drinks
. . Kooler & Ice wiff both HiTest an Diet Pops (by Carl, Diana, & Phred)
. . Iced Tea
bottled water - Gretchen (Grace)

Kitchen Suppliez & STUFF (by Phred, Carl & Diana)
. . KetchUp
. . Bar-B-Que Sauce
. . Brown Mustard
. . Yeller Mustard
. . Sweet Relish
. . Salt & Peppur
. . ChopUp a Unyin or two
. . 'Merican Cheeze fur Cheeze-Burgerz
. . Roll of Papur Towels
. . grill Tweezers & Spatchulas
. . couple extra Servin Spoonz
. . *Zip-Lok Baggiez* - fur Carry-Outz & Take-Homez

. . *plates & napkins & forks* = (by 4DM)
. . Bag a CharKoal (by Carl)
. . CharKoal Liter Juze (by Carl)


--------------------------------------------------
"Current" as of: 5/21/2011 @ 12:38 pm

shais_mom
05-22-2011, 05:19 PM
I can't believe its only a WEEK away!

~~ MENUE ~~~
Here's what has been promised so far >>>
(With some suggestions that have been *HITS* before)

Main Dish/Meat
. . HamBurgers & Round Buns (by Phred, Diana & Carl)
. . Brats w/ Cheese & Long Buns (by Phred, Diana &Carl)
. . Hot dogs & Long Buns (by Phred, Diana &Carl)
. .

Salads/Sides
. . Tater Salad (by Diana, 4DM)
. . Baked Beans Cincy's mom
. . Coleslaw ??
. . Macaroni Salad ??
. . Pasta Salad Staci* (shais_mom)
. . Taco Salad ??
. . Banana Bread ??
. .

Munchies & Krunchies & Dips
. . Veggies + Dip - Gretchen (Grace)
. . Chips + Dip -Staci (shais_mom)
. .

Desserts
. . Chawklit Chippie Cookies (by Phred)
. . Brownies (by Diana, 4DM)
. . Watermelon ??
. . Strawberry Pretzel Dessert ??
. .

Drinks
. . Kooler & Ice wiff both HiTest an Diet Pops (by Carl, Diana, & Phred)
. . Iced Tea ~~Staci (shais_mom)
bottled water - Gretchen (Grace)

Kitchen Suppliez & STUFF (by Phred, Carl & Diana)
. . KetchUp
. . Bar-B-Que Sauce
. . Brown Mustard
. . Yeller Mustard
. . Sweet Relish
. . Salt & Peppur
. . ChopUp a Unyin or two
. . 'Merican Cheeze fur Cheeze-Burgerz
. . Roll of Papur Towels
. . grill Tweezers & Spatchulas
. . couple extra Servin Spoonz
. . *Zip-Lok Baggiez* - fur Carry-Outz & Take-Homez

. . *plates & napkins & forks* = (by 4DM)
. . Bag a CharKoal (by Carl)
. . CharKoal Liter Juze (by Carl)

anna_66
05-24-2011, 01:35 PM
Wish we could go this year but I just can't leave Tama so soon after he crashed.


Take lots of pictures!:)

I don't blame you at all. Take care of him and we'll take care of the pictures;)


I can't believe its only a WEEK away!

~~ MENUE ~~~
Here's what has been promised so far >>>
(With some suggestions that have been *HITS* before)

Main Dish/Meat
. . HamBurgers & Round Buns (by Phred, Diana & Carl)
. . Brats w/ Cheese & Long Buns (by Phred, Diana &Carl)
. . Hot dogs & Long Buns (by Phred, Diana &Carl)
. .

Salads/Sides
. . Tater Salad (by Diana, 4DM)
. . Baked Beans Cincy's mom
. . Coleslaw ??
. . Macaroni Salad Anna
. . Pasta Salad Staci* (shais_mom)
. . Taco Salad ??
. . Banana Bread ??
. .

Munchies & Krunchies & Dips
. . Veggies + Dip - Gretchen (Grace)
. . Chips + Dip -Staci (shais_mom)
. .

Desserts
. . Chawklit Chippie Cookies (by Phred)
. . Brownies (by Diana, 4DM)
. . Watermelon Anna
. . Strawberry Pretzel Dessert ??
. .

Drinks
. . Kooler & Ice wiff both HiTest an Diet Pops (by Carl, Diana, & Phred)
. . Iced Tea ~~Staci (shais_mom)
bottled water - Gretchen (Grace)

Kitchen Suppliez & STUFF (by Phred, Carl & Diana)
. . KetchUp
. . Bar-B-Que Sauce
. . Brown Mustard
. . Yeller Mustard
. . Sweet Relish
. . Salt & Peppur
. . ChopUp a Unyin or two
. . 'Merican Cheeze fur Cheeze-Burgerz
. . Roll of Papur Towels
. . grill Tweezers & Spatchulas
. . couple extra Servin Spoonz
. . *Zip-Lok Baggiez* - fur Carry-Outz & Take-Homez

. . *plates & napkins & forks* = (by 4DM)
. . Bag a CharKoal (by Carl)
. . CharKoal Liter Juze (by Carl)

k9krazee
05-24-2011, 06:59 PM
So here's the dealio. This weekend is supposed to be my weekend "on", and at this point we don't have anything going on Sunday so I'm 95% sure that I'll be able to come. I will, however, be dog-less but I guess that will give me more opportunity to take pictures ;) And I currently live kitchen-less, so any food that I bring will have to be bought on the fly.

anna_66
05-25-2011, 03:57 PM
So here's the dealio. This weekend is supposed to be my weekend "on", and at this point we don't have anything going on Sunday so I'm 95% sure that I'll be able to come. I will, however, be dog-less but I guess that will give me more opportunity to take pictures ;) And I currently live kitchen-less, so any food that I bring will have to be bought on the fly.

I do hope you'll be able to come!

ramanth
05-26-2011, 06:21 PM
I'm going to attempt to bake cookies, but they may end up being store bought. Forgive me Phred! :o :love:

Diana, do you need any help with the meats and supplies?




~~ MENUE ~~~
Here's what has been promised so far >>>
(With some suggestions that have been *HITS* before)

Main Dish/Meat
. . HamBurgers & Round Buns (by Phred, Diana & Carl)
. . Brats w/ Cheese & Long Buns (by Phred, Diana &Carl)
. . Hot dogs & Long Buns (by Phred, Diana &Carl)
. .

Salads/Sides
. . Tater Salad (by Diana, 4DM)
. . Baked Beans Cincy's mom
. . Coleslaw (Kim *ramanth*)
. . Macaroni Salad Anna
. . Pasta Salad Staci* (shais_mom)
. . Taco Salad ??
. . Banana Bread ??
. .

Munchies & Krunchies & Dips
. . Veggies + Dip - Gretchen (Grace)
. . Chips + Dip -Staci (shais_mom)
. .

Desserts
. . Chawklit Chippie Cookies (by Phred) (Kim *ramanth*)
. . Brownies (by Diana, 4DM)
. . Watermelon Anna
. . Strawberry Pretzel Dessert ??
. .

Drinks
. . Kooler & Ice wiff both HiTest an Diet Pops (by Carl, Diana, & Phred)
. . Iced Tea ~~Staci (shais_mom)
bottled water - Gretchen (Grace)

Kitchen Suppliez & STUFF (by Phred, Carl & Diana)
. . KetchUp
. . Bar-B-Que Sauce
. . Brown Mustard
. . Yeller Mustard
. . Sweet Relish
. . Salt & Peppur
. . ChopUp a Unyin or two
. . 'Merican Cheeze fur Cheeze-Burgerz
. . Roll of Papur Towels
. . grill Tweezers & Spatchulas
. . couple extra Servin Spoonz
. . *Zip-Lok Baggiez* - fur Carry-Outz & Take-Homez

. . *plates & napkins & forks* = (by 4DM)
. . Bag a CharKoal (by Carl)
. . CharKoal Liter Juze (by Carl)

Grace
05-26-2011, 06:41 PM
Diana, do you need any help with the meats and supplies?

A question I was also going to ask. I've got lots of plastic forks, spoons, knives - and paper napkins. Just sitting in the cupboard waiting to be invited to a party :)

4 Dog Mother
05-26-2011, 10:39 PM
I received a phone call from the Park Director late this afternoon. Right now the roads to the Dog Park are flooded. The river was suppose to crest tonight so if all goes well and there is not any more significant rain it should be down enough by Sunday to have the roads open. However that still means the dog park is probably pretty muddy so be forewarned. I am sure it also means mosquitoes as they don't spray that area for them.

I have also decided to bury a small box under the rock with a few items in memory of Phred. Like a small fire truck and I am not sure what else. If anyone wants to add something, bring it along. Just make sure it isn't too big. I was thinking of finding a cookie tin type box so it won't be that big.

As far as needing help with some of the stuff, I would be glad for help, Grace and Kimmy. Grace, I think I have enough "utensils" but the napkins would be great. I'll check tomorrow morning to be sure that is correct. Maybe you could pick up some paper plates too. I am pretty sure we are low on them.

Kimmy if you could pick up a small bottle of catsup, mustard, mayonnaise, relish and whatever else you think people would like on their sandwiches, please do.

Thanks to both of you. Sunday is coming quickly. We spent the evening cleaning the leaves and broken plants and limbs out of the yard and there is still some clean up to do. I am suppose to pick up the rock in Toledo tomorrow and Saturday, I will be making potato salad, brownies and maybe a few cookies. I am probably going to have to repot some stuff too from the yard as many of my pots are broken.

Looking forward to seeing everyone on Sunday.

Karen
05-26-2011, 11:00 PM
We are sorry to tell you all that we will not be able to make it out this time. We have always had a wonderful time all the years that we went out to Findlay, and would so love to be able to be with you all, especially the new folks. I have promised Staci I will write up something for Phred's little memorial service-of-sorts, and I will do that before Sunday, I promise.

We have been in the process of selling our house, and things kept getting delayed by this or that, but we finally had the closing just a few days ago. We have been extremely busy cleaning it out, and still have a few more things to move. As we are in an apartment for now, we have some things in a rented storage place, some in Paul's mom's basement, and our mower and gardening tools are spending their "summer vacation" in my Dad's garage. So there's just no way we could take the time away right now. If it had happened as originally planned, it all would have been done a few weeks ago, but ... anyway, that's why.

We will miss you all, and miss the chance to meet Phred's sister, and give hugs to everyone. And my dog-shaped cookie cutters are all packed away in a box right now, too, and I am sure certain canines would be expecting their dog-safe people tasty cookies.

We will be thinking of you all on Sunday, and will certainly be with you in spirit, I promise! Please, please, take lots and lots of pictures, okay?

And, Diana? There haz to be a chocca-chip cookie in that box, okay?

Grace
05-27-2011, 07:35 AM
Napkins and paper plates - no problem :)

Karen
05-27-2011, 10:05 AM
I know we always ask, but could someone be sure to take lots of pictures, especially of everyone with their respective dogs? I sooo wish we could be there, but just cannot this time. And be sure to get one of Phred's sister with the Smoke-mutt and crew, too, okay?

cyber-sibes
05-27-2011, 03:45 PM
We'll be there in spirit, sure wish it wasn't so far away now. (not even close to the 2 mile drive it used to be, lol!) I've been thinking about Phred a lot lately, sure miss his posts and phone calls.

Could someone please take a picture of the two trees & the bench in the back corner? (A little bit of Sherman is resting there too). And maybe a couple of the Memorial trees? Hope the park dries out & you have a gloriously sunny day!

k9krazee
05-27-2011, 04:11 PM
I do hope you'll be able to come!

It's official, I'll be there! :D

Karen and Pat, I will make it my personal mission to take lots of photos. Wish you both could be there.

Karen
05-27-2011, 04:52 PM
Thanks, Ashley! We will never forget all Jack's impressive tricks he showed off for us when we were there! Give him a hug from me, okay?

And Kimmie, I hope someone brings watermelon, just so a certain canine of your can munch the rinds!

Husky_mom
05-27-2011, 05:36 PM
if you need me to chip in.. do let me know.. I can paypal you my contribution..

IŽd rather be there.. but it will have to be some other time :( ..

cyber-sibes
05-27-2011, 07:43 PM
It's official, I'll be there! :D
Karen and Pat, I will make it my personal mission to take lots of photos. Wish you both could be there.
Thanks Ashley! Hugs to all your pack, and a big snooter kiss for the amazing Jackie Loo. I miss watching him perform, too. He's a hoot!

MonicanHonda
05-27-2011, 08:05 PM
I'm still up in the air as to if I am going to be there or not. Zac's family is apparently having a cook out that day and he hasn't seen his family in a long time... and I'll be taking up the rest of his weekend so I kind of feel like he should have a say in what we do ONE day...

The dog park has actually been doing a pretty good job draining itself and staying relatively clean, so hopefully there won't be a problem.

ramanth
05-28-2011, 02:26 AM
Kimmy if you could pick up a small bottle of catsup, mustard, mayonnaise, relish and whatever else you think people would like on their sandwiches, please do.
Can do! :)

anna_66
05-28-2011, 10:40 AM
And Kimmie, I hope someone brings watermelon, just so a certain canine of your can munch the rinds!
I'll be bringing the watermelon! Good thing I know about the rinds now or I would have thrown them away:eek:

Ashley I'm glad to hear you'll be coming!

Monica I hope to see you, but if not I totally understand.

See you all tomorrow!

4 Dog Mother
05-28-2011, 09:12 PM
Carl and I and the grandkids were out to the dog park this morning. There was still water over the roads in a couple of spots but the roads weren't closed and you just had to drive slowly. When we got to the dogpark, everything seemed fine. It was a little wet but not bad. The kids played with a dog name Elsie and were running and having a great time. However it is raining now, so I would recommend comfortable shoes that will keep your feet dry. There was no sitting water so the dogs were not getting muddy like mine have been known to do in the past.

All the rain is sure to bring out the mosquitoes so if you have bug spray you better bring it too. Didn't notice any this morning but it was a little cool when we were out there. Tomorrow is suppose to be warmer.

Can't wait!

Karen
05-28-2011, 10:02 PM
I so wish we could be there with you all! We'll miss you, but be thinking of you!

zippy-kat
05-28-2011, 10:42 PM
I will be thinking of you guys tomorrow. My heart hurts to think I won't be there to share in the service of our dear friend. I know he and Bowser will be there amongst you and it wouldn't surprise me if he even sent a fire truck. (If he can send one across the states to a certain BBQ, I'm sure he can send one to the dog park.:) )

gini
05-28-2011, 11:52 PM
How I would love to be there - because I am sure that Phred's spirit will be right there all day.

I will stop and say a prayer for Phred and tell him how much we all miss him. I would love it if my phone rang and it was Phred just like the old days. You never know what you have until it is gone. All of us are so lucky to have known him.

:love::love: for all of you.

Fett
05-29-2011, 11:10 AM
I would have enjoyed being there to see the official PT send-off for Phred as well, so I am thinking of you guys and looks like the weather should be great for you all today. :)

slick
05-29-2011, 03:34 PM
I called Staci's cell phone and had a chance to speak to a few people. (interrupted picture taking apparently :o)

Was it two years ago that Mz Gini and I partied in downtown Dayton???:D

Wish I could be there again so see all of you. I'm looking forward to seeing all the pictures when they are posted.

Love you all :love:

Grace
05-29-2011, 04:34 PM
We just got home. As we drove through town the Tornado Sirens went off. So we're huddled in here. Had a great time. Took no pictures, but many were taken.

Signing off until the storm is over.

ramanth
05-29-2011, 07:26 PM
Just got home myself. Ashley and I got caught just outside of Findlay with a downpour and hail and the winds!! :eek:

There was a tornado warning for Lansing around 5, but my house is okay. Talking to my parents, it sounds like Eaton Rapids got a lot of trees down.

Had a great time today and will have my photos up soon. :D

k9krazee
05-29-2011, 08:08 PM
I had a great time, as usual! :D Turned out to be a gorgeous day up until the drive home, but I enjoyed seeing the sun while it lasted!

I'll post a couple pictures here, the rest are in the album: http://s1186.photobucket.com/albums/z361/ashalee13/Pet%20Talk%20Meeting%202011/

Karen, I didn't any posed photos of people with their dogs, or one of Nancy with Cinder and Smokey :o But I think Anna was doing a good job of getting pictures of everybody!

http://i1186.photobucket.com/albums/z361/ashalee13/Pet%20Talk%20Meeting%202011/IMG_0181-1.jpg?t=1306716765

http://i1186.photobucket.com/albums/z361/ashalee13/Pet%20Talk%20Meeting%202011/IMG_0130-1-1.jpg

Staci read the piece that Karen wrote up, and Carl and Diana shared a few stories of Phred as well <3
http://i1186.photobucket.com/albums/z361/ashalee13/Pet%20Talk%20Meeting%202011/IMG_0116-1.jpg

http://i1186.photobucket.com/albums/z361/ashalee13/Pet%20Talk%20Meeting%202011/IMG_0113-1.jpg

The entrance to the dog park, the bench, the muddy pool area and the bench & trees,
http://i1186.photobucket.com/albums/z361/ashalee13/Pet%20Talk%20Meeting%202011/IMG_0163-1.jpg

http://i1186.photobucket.com/albums/z361/ashalee13/Pet%20Talk%20Meeting%202011/IMG_0127-1.jpg

Some of the dogs :
http://i1186.photobucket.com/albums/z361/ashalee13/Pet%20Talk%20Meeting%202011/IMG_0129-1.jpg?t=1306717304

Grace
05-29-2011, 08:30 PM
Ashley, your photos are fantastic :) I especially like all the shots of the dogs - they all had a wonderful time.

Karen
05-29-2011, 08:33 PM
Thanks for the pictures, Ashley, and I look forward to Kimmie's and Anna's and everyone else's too!

shais_mom
05-29-2011, 08:58 PM
i got just a few photos. Not sure how good they are.
It was an emotional day for sure.
But fun with friends and loved ones and dogs. :) I know Phred was there in spirit!

shais_mom
05-29-2011, 09:57 PM
http://share.shutterfly.com/action/welcome?sid=9Qas2bFs1Ujtw

Here's my few pics with some pics of my cats who were there in spirit. :) ;)

captain
05-29-2011, 10:30 PM
Hi everyone,
What a wonderful, wonderful thing to do to commemorate Phred.

I was thinking of him over the weekend, and of all of you at the "bash".
Thanks so much for the pictures - as being in Australia, it would have been a HELL OF A DRIVE to come and take part.

Huge spottie kisses to everyone.
Michelle

Taz_Zoee
05-30-2011, 12:02 AM
Aww man, I'm crying all over again. That was beautiful! I'm so glad the weather held out long enough for you all to enjoy the day. :)

cyber-sibes
05-30-2011, 12:53 AM
The Memorial marker is gorgeous! How very special! Thanks for posting a bit of the goings-on, will go thru the albums when I have more time.
God Bless Phred forever!

pomtzu
05-30-2011, 07:24 AM
http://share.shutterfly.com/action/welcome?sid=9Qas2bFs1Ujtw

Here's my few pics with some pics of my cats who were there in spirit. :) ;)

Who's who in the group photo? :confused:

Cincy'sMom
05-30-2011, 07:37 AM
Who's who in the group photo? :confused:

Across the front, 4 Dog Mother with Dominic on her lap. Jasmine is on the table (Dakota's Mommy's kids). Joan and Pat are next, Phred's friends from Berlin Center (the ones who often watched Cinder and Smoke, and who have Callie and Molly that Phred often watched). Grace is poking her head between them. I am on the ground next to Pat, with my husband (Sadie'sDad) behind.

Standing (l to r) is Phred's sister Nancy, Dakota'sMommy, k9krazee, Robilee, Angus'sDad and Anna_66, Doug (Grace's husband), ramanth, shais_mom, 5 Dog Dad, wolf_q and her husband Corby.

Husky_mom
05-30-2011, 08:17 AM
waterworks full on.. :Ž)

Phred was most definitely there.. IŽm sure he organized everything for you to have nice weather..

adorable tribute!!.. couldnŽt be better..

miss you Phred.. take care of our own up there.. weŽll see yaŽll later..

RobiLee
05-30-2011, 08:59 AM
Enjoyed the photos, Ashley and Staci. Good job! Ashley, I really liked how you set up the collages. I'm going to save those.

I had a really good time yesterday. It was so nice to see everyone. I was touched by sadness when I first pulled up because it was usually Phred that was always there to greet me. It was really great to meet his sister Nancy and his friends, Joan and Pat. Staci read Karen's tribute to Phred and it was very touching and the memorial stone was beautiful. Loved seeing all the dogs and chatting with friends!

Wish I would have taken more picture and tried to at least get one of each person and dog but I was just too busy enjoying the day. Here's the photos that I did get.

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v154/Robilee/Pet%20Talk%20Gathering%20May%202011/IMG_2567.jpg

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v154/Robilee/Pet%20Talk%20Gathering%20May%202011/IMG_2571.jpg

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v154/Robilee/Pet%20Talk%20Gathering%20May%202011/IMG_2572.jpg

Dakota and Chipper
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v154/Robilee/Pet%20Talk%20Gathering%20May%202011/IMG_2578.jpg

Amy and Corby
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v154/Robilee/Pet%20Talk%20Gathering%20May%202011/IMG_2579.jpg

Phred's sister, Nancy
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v154/Robilee/Pet%20Talk%20Gathering%20May%202011/IMG_2580.jpg
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v154/Robilee/Pet%20Talk%20Gathering%20May%202011/IMG_2581.jpg

My boy, Zack
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v154/Robilee/Pet%20Talk%20Gathering%20May%202011/IMG_2583.jpg

Cincy
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v154/Robilee/Pet%20Talk%20Gathering%20May%202011/IMG_2584.jpg

Dazzi
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v154/Robilee/Pet%20Talk%20Gathering%20May%202011/IMG_2587.jpg

RobiLee
05-30-2011, 09:00 AM
Amy
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v154/Robilee/Pet%20Talk%20Gathering%20May%202011/IMG_2589.jpg

Chipper
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v154/Robilee/Pet%20Talk%20Gathering%20May%202011/IMG_2591.jpg

Kia
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v154/Robilee/Pet%20Talk%20Gathering%20May%202011/IMG_2592.jpg

Kimmy on the phone with Slick
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v154/Robilee/Pet%20Talk%20Gathering%20May%202011/IMG_2593.jpg

Nancy and Ashley
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v154/Robilee/Pet%20Talk%20Gathering%20May%202011/IMG_2594.jpg

Jasmine and Dominic
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v154/Robilee/Pet%20Talk%20Gathering%20May%202011/IMG_2598.jpg
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v154/Robilee/Pet%20Talk%20Gathering%20May%202011/IMG_2599.jpg

Ashley
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v154/Robilee/Pet%20Talk%20Gathering%20May%202011/IMG_2600.jpg

Roxey
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v154/Robilee/Pet%20Talk%20Gathering%20May%202011/IMG_2602.jpg

Staci, who can eat and wave at the same time!
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v154/Robilee/Pet%20Talk%20Gathering%20May%202011/IMG_2603.jpg

RobiLee
05-30-2011, 09:01 AM
Christy, Dominic and Jasmine
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v154/Robilee/Pet%20Talk%20Gathering%20May%202011/IMG_2605.jpg

Joan with Cinder and Smokey
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v154/Robilee/Pet%20Talk%20Gathering%20May%202011/IMG_2606.jpg
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v154/Robilee/Pet%20Talk%20Gathering%20May%202011/IMG_2607.jpg

Carl getting ready to start the memorial for Phred
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v154/Robilee/Pet%20Talk%20Gathering%20May%202011/IMG_2570-1.jpg

Staci reading Karen's tribute
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v154/Robilee/Pet%20Talk%20Gathering%20May%202011/IMG_2575-1.jpg

anna_66
05-30-2011, 11:59 AM
What a great day we had! We missed all of you who couldn't be there, but I know you were all there in spirit:)

Like Robin said, it's strange not having Phred there to welcome us as he always did, but there was a wonderful tribute to him that had been set up.

We had a very nice memorial around 2 and everyone shared their special stories. It was touching and heartbreaking. Carl, Diana & Staci did a great job and the stone is beautiful. I know Phred would have approved...the dogs sure did:D

Little miss Huney decided to rest by it. Phred was one of her most favorite people...he always had the good cookies:D

I think our group photo turned out pretty good!

A photo of the trees and bench was wanted. The trees have gotten HUGE!

We had a great time!

I'm having problems with the picture site so I'll just add them as attachments.

But if you want to see them all here is the album....share.shutterfly.com/action/welcome?sid=9QZtWbhy0YUY
Enjoy the pictures as a slideshow in full screen...much better!

Freckles
05-30-2011, 12:16 PM
Loved all the pictures and happy the weather was good. Karen, could you please copy your tribute to Phred to this thread?

Karen
05-30-2011, 12:47 PM
Loved all the pictures and happy the weather was good. Karen, could you please copy your tribute to Phred to this thread?


John Morris, a.k.a. Phred was more than a beloved member of Pet Talk, he was a pillar of the community in many, many ways. He was a worrier about the youngsters on the board, a sucker for a pooch in need, and - not everyone will know this - the only other member of Pet Talk that we ever allowed to be a moderator. He and one other person that we later had to ban were asked and took on the task in October of 2001, when Paul and I were traveling to Beijing for a week, and unsure what Internet access we'd have. He did a great job, but I don't think he got a lot of sleep that week, he was so concerned about keeping everything going, so once we were back home, he asked to be demoted again pretty quickly.

You all know what a great and often wry sense of humor he had, and self-deprecating doesn't even begin to cut it. But what you may not know is how much he cared even off the board for members. He was known to get directions to the lost, help a wayward member with car trouble on a cross-country trip, and spend the time to call folks he felt were missing, or might need a phone call. I got several calls when he was worried about one person or another over the years, and as his health deteriorated, I became the one to call him instead. I remember the first time he was hospitalized with serious heart trouble, and I was calling the hospital to check on him. I knew other Pet Talkers had likely already called, and I figured they'd only believe so many "I'm his ex-wife" claims, so when the nurse on the desk said, in a brisk, faintly disapproving manner, "Are you a relative?" I answered, "Not really, but he calls me "Mom" even though I'm a good bit younger than he is ..." and she changed her tone, chuckled and put me through.

He was an organizer - of these gatherings, of the bench and memorial, and other quieter gestures. We still have the silk flowers he sent us when Miss Hoppy died, they are on the mantle of our new apartment. And "Stoney" the rabbit he sent us one Christmas is in the living room - it's theoretically a garden ornament, but never went outside or got dirty.

His unique take on posting in Cinder and Smoke's vernacular will forever be a part of Pet Talk, and certain threads of his will be remembered forever. He left is mark on us all, and left the world a better place than it likely was before he to came this ol' dirtball. And although he passed away, he remains one of us, because as I have said before,

Death does not win
Love lives on
In stories and memories
In gestures and phrases
Long after our bodies have failed,
Love lives on.

We miss him, but smile thinking of the raucous greeting he surely got that day, when he arrived at The Rainbow Bridge, to be greeted not only by Boots, and Bowser, but by all the animals he loved over the years.

And we'll see him again some day when we get there, too, and look forward to that hug.

Husky_mom
05-30-2011, 02:50 PM
lovely words Karen.. really lovely and heartwarming :Ž)

phesina
05-30-2011, 03:46 PM
What a lovely, wonderful gathering it sounds like it was! So nice to look at the pictures and read the reports.

I had been planning to come with Gretchen and Doug but had been fighting off a cold for a few days. Yesterday morning I woke up woozy and hot and stuffed up, so I thought I'd best stay home.. if I was getting a virus, I didn't want it to go viral (among all the PTers)!

I'm glad you all had such a fine time and that the weather was good for the celebration. And what a time Phred and all our friends at the Bridge must have had with you all there too!

:love::love::love::love::love::love::love::love: from Pat and cats

cyber-sibes
05-30-2011, 06:34 PM
Thanks for sharing the pics & memories of this wonderful day with those of us who couldn't be there. I'm so glad the weather turned out well, you bet Phred had a word with the Almighty's Weatherman! That is a beautiful letter, Karen, thanks for posting it. The rock is truly touching - looks like its on that little rise at the far end? The dogs all loved that little hill!

I combined the silk bouquets Phred sent us when we lost Star and then Tori so soon afterwards. They are a constant reminder of what a caring person Phred was, always extending himself to others. We live just up from the Naval Fire Fighting School, and I always think about Phred when I go by. He was one of a kind, for sure!

Thanks for the bench photo - those trees have gotten really big! Spent many happy hours on that bench!

MonicanHonda
05-31-2011, 11:19 AM
I'm so sorry I couldn't be there. I really want to go see his rock. <3 It's gorgeous. And now everyone who goes there will wonder who this man is... but only a select few will truly know what a wonderful guy he was. If I ever return, I only hope someone asks if I know who he is so I can tell of a great man. The tribute is just wonderful... I truly was amazed at how much he cared for people... that's one of the first things I recognized about Phred. It amazed me that people cared that much, even for people he knew mostly over the internet. We need more people in this world like Phred.

I can't wait to see everyone over Labor Day weekend, I am hoping I will be able to come if my new job allows it. :-D

Freckles
05-31-2011, 07:58 PM
Where is the final resting place of the rock?

RobiLee
06-01-2011, 06:46 AM
Love your pictures, Anna and Karen your tribute was wonderful!

shais_mom
06-01-2011, 11:34 PM
Where is the final resting place of the rock?

in the back of the park there is a small area (grove?) of trees, and they put it b/n two trees so as to not interfere with the mower.

Everyone's pics were great. We missed those that weren't there, but were glad of those that were there!

wolf_Q
06-04-2011, 08:36 AM
Nice pics everyone! It was great to see all of you again. It was strange for Phred to not be there though. :( The memorial service was very touching. I'll try to get my pics up soon knowing me it will probably be a while though.

ramanth
06-05-2011, 11:00 PM
Here are my photos: :)

http://www.flickr.com/photos/ramanth/sets/72157626771111227/

gini
06-05-2011, 11:24 PM
Kimmy, your photos are terrific. Thanks so much for posting them. They are so good because you get to see everyone including pictures of the actual park so you get a real sense of where thiings are.

I think Phred will be very happy there............he can keep an eye on things now. Things are sure different now that he is gone. I didn't think that I would miss him as much as I do. But he had become a very dear friend and I valued that so much. I know that there are many who feel exactly the same way I do.

His pups look great - and they look happy,,,,thanks again Diana and Carl.......for giving them a loving home.

4 Dog Mother
06-06-2011, 03:01 PM
It's taken awhile but I finally got my pictures on shutterfly. I had planned to take so many and I don't know what happened but there are hardly any! Oh, well, we had a good time and Phred was there in spirit. Cinder and Smokey were so glad to see his sister Nancy and friends, Pat and Joan as we were. It was great that Amy and Corby came all the way from Utah and of course, Nancy came all the way from Maine.

Anyway here are my pictures.

Smokey and Cinder in their usual spot to greet everyone.

http://im1.shutterfly.com/media/47a1d827b3127ccefd18443de25700000030O08JZOGrlm1B7e fAg/cC/f%3D0/ps%3D50/r%3D0/rx%3D550/ry%3D400/

A funny one of Cinder
http://im1.shutterfly.com/media/47a1d827b3127ccefd1915e3827500000030O08JZOGrlm1B7e fAg/cC/f%3D0/ps%3D50/r%3D0/rx%3D550/ry%3D400/

Taggert in his summer haircut
http://im1.shutterfly.com/media/47a1d827b3127ccefd1916a2c2ad00000030O08JZOGrlm1B7e fAg/cC/f%3D0/ps%3D50/r%3D0/rx%3D550/ry%3D400/

4 Dog Mother
06-06-2011, 03:05 PM
The "kids" welcoming their Aunt Nancy and Joan
http://im1.shutterfly.com/media/47a1d827b3127ccefd18153423de00000030O08JZOGrlm1B7e fAg/cC/f%3D0/ps%3D50/r%3D0/rx%3D550/ry%3D400/

http://im1.shutterfly.com/media/47a1d827b3127ccefd19871d03f200000030O08JZOGrlm1B7e fAg/cC/f%3D0/ps%3D50/r%3D0/rx%3D550/ry%3D400/

Smokey cooling off his feethttp://im1.shutterfly.com/media/47a1d827b3127ccefd191db2031000000030O08JZOGrlm1B7e fAg/cC/f%3D0/ps%3D50/r%3D0/rx%3D550/ry%3D400/

Group Shot
http://im1.shutterfly.com/media/47a1d827b3127ccefd19954603a000000030O08JZOGrlm1B7e fAg/cC/f%3D0/ps%3D50/r%3D0/rx%3D550/ry%3D400/

4 Dog Mother
06-06-2011, 03:56 PM
Another picture of the "kids"

http://im1.shutterfly.com/media/47a1d827b3127ccefd18bf12a29d00000030O08JZOGrlm1B7e fAg/cC/f%3D0/ps%3D50/r%3D0/rx%3D550/ry%3D400/

And the rock

http://im1.shutterfly.com/media/47a1d827b3127ccefd19c6a543f200000030O08JZOGrlm1B7e fAg/cC/f%3D0/ps%3D50/r%3D0/rx%3D550/ry%3D400/

I had a kind of rough week leading into the weekend. First the place I bought the stone called and said that with the weather being bad they didn't know if they could have it ready. I said I paid extra to have it ready and I had people coming from all over to see this rock and I HAD to have it. Then on Thursday she called and said that the rock was too big for their box whatever that meant so did I trust her to pick a different one. What could I say after I told her that I HAD to have a rock.

She did okay but it was half the size of the one I chose. I was disappointed but Carl was happy because moving it became less of a problem. On Friday the Director of the park called and said it was against the law to bury any ashes in a public park so that is why I came up with the memory box which is yet to be buried. I will have to get at it soon before the Ohio soil becomes brick.

But after all the worry with the rain, change in rocks, change in what would be buried under the rock everything came off wonderfully well. I am sure Phred was up there saying, Relax, everything is okay - everyone is talking and having a good time and what more can I ask for for a memorial tribute?

On a different note and I hate to bring it up, but since my sister put up half of the money for the rock, I could use a few more contributions to the cost of it. It cost over $200 and I have just over half of it. If you can even send $5 or $10, it would really help us out.

Freckles
06-06-2011, 04:15 PM
Check is in the mail. Incidentally, how much does the stone weigh?

shais_mom
06-06-2011, 07:00 PM
Check is in the mail. Incidentally, how much does the stone weigh?



about 78 pounds Carl guessed that day.

Freckles
06-06-2011, 07:16 PM
Well, that shouldn't walk off by itself.

4 Dog Mother
06-07-2011, 08:46 AM
Obviously they have to weigh the stone to know how much to charge. I guess that probably isn't too obvious if you have never bought large stones before. Anyway, they charge by the pound, different rocks cost different amounts. The first rock I chose weighed 200 lbs. It wasn't as sparkly but no one could really walk away with THAT stone. I knew this weighed less than half when she told me what she chose. She had said this weighed 78 lbs. A man could pick it up and take it but it would be a heavy load and the gate is pretty far from where it is.

This one is prettier - it has some shiny bits of rock in it - but the other was one no one could move on their own. But I am sure it will be safe at the dog park. In fact since it is not close to the gate, I am sure a lot of people won't even know it is there. Many people stand close to the gate and never venture around the dog park at all. They let their dogs run or play for a while and then leave. Which makes the spot even nicer. Any one who wants to go spend quiet time with "Phred" can do so and be almost unseen by others near the gate. I am really grateful to the Park Director for suggesting that spot because it is away from the gate and is quiet and peaceful. And I can remember many a time we set at the picnic table with Phred to talk and be out of the sun.

pomtzu
06-07-2011, 04:19 PM
Here in Delaware there are specific places you can and can't bury cremains. Even at sea, it is supposed to be 5 nautical miles from land. But they also turn their heads - don't ask/don't tell seems to work - and who is to know???

MonicanHonda
06-07-2011, 04:25 PM
Staci, I will contact you and send you a check.

Bibette & Lulu
06-12-2011, 04:37 PM
I've just viewed the pictures for the first time since getting home. I so appreciated all that was done to honor my brother's memory and his participation in the Pet Talk Family. Karen, your words are beautiful. Diana and Staci - your hard work and planning paid off!!! And Carl's cooking was the best.
You all were his adopted family, just as the members of the fire department were his second family for many years. I enjoyed meeting everyone and hearing your stories of Phred. He was and will be so special to me and I'm proud of his life and contributions to the lives of others - both 2 and 4-footed!!! Thank you all again for honoring him in such a wonderful and moving way. He would have pshawed the hoopla but enjoyed the commaraderie and all those good eats!!!! He definitely would have approved of the barbeque!!!
Love to all - Nancy

wolf_Q
07-07-2011, 12:30 AM
Better late than never? :o



Cinder and Smoke
http://i601.photobucket.com/albums/tt95/wolfQU2/Ohio%20trip%202011/pettalk13.jpg
Huney
http://i601.photobucket.com/albums/tt95/wolfQU2/Ohio%20trip%202011/pettalk12.jpg
Anna with a mastiff
http://i601.photobucket.com/albums/tt95/wolfQU2/Ohio%20trip%202011/pettalk11.jpg
Tori
http://i601.photobucket.com/albums/tt95/wolfQU2/Ohio%20trip%202011/pettalk10.jpg
Chipper with the stone
http://i601.photobucket.com/albums/tt95/wolfQU2/Ohio%20trip%202011/pettalk07.jpg
Robin
http://i601.photobucket.com/albums/tt95/wolfQU2/Ohio%20trip%202011/pettalk06.jpg
http://i601.photobucket.com/albums/tt95/wolfQU2/Ohio%20trip%202011/pettalk05.jpg
Freyja trying to get Kia to chase her
http://i601.photobucket.com/albums/tt95/wolfQU2/Ohio%20trip%202011/pettalk04.jpg

wolf_Q
07-07-2011, 12:30 AM
Freyja and I
http://i601.photobucket.com/albums/tt95/wolfQU2/Ohio%20trip%202011/pettalk03.jpg
Cisco
http://i601.photobucket.com/albums/tt95/wolfQU2/Ohio%20trip%202011/pettalk02.jpg
http://i601.photobucket.com/albums/tt95/wolfQU2/Ohio%20trip%202011/pettalk01.jpg
Roxey
http://i601.photobucket.com/albums/tt95/wolfQU2/Ohio%20trip%202011/petalk09.jpg

RobiLee
07-07-2011, 04:35 AM
Well, its about time, Amy! You are right though, better late than never!

Enjoyed the pics, except that one of me...Yuck! LOL

I was so happy to see you again, Amy and to meet your hubby. I really hope we can get together again someday and spend more time together. {{HUGS}}