View Full Version : Have You Ever Had to Comfort a Grieving Dog
lizbud
11-30-2010, 12:45 PM
I read this story the other day & can't get this poor pup out of my mind.
It looks like she has a great family to care for her & that's good. Even after
they lost their own son, they continue to comfort Zelda too. How would you
comfort your dog or do you think we really can?
http://www.indystar.com/article/20101127/LOCAL/11270355/?odyssey=mod|dnmiss|umbrella
SWHouston
12-01-2010, 05:23 AM
What a touching story.
I've had lots of Dogs, and have always thought that the range and intensity of their feelings were absolutely NO different than those of humans.
An act of true compassion as the boy offered, wouldn't be forgotten any of us, and given how "focused" animals can be with attachments, I doubt if Zelda's grief will ever subside.
The Fence will keep her at home in body only.
Have a good Day ! :)
S.W.
anna_66
12-01-2010, 07:09 AM
What a heartbreaking story. I don't think anyone could replace his boy:(
When our chow Keisha died, our Angus grieved very much. We thought he was going to grieve himself to death. We tried to give him as much love as we could, but nothing could replace his girl...that was until we got Roxey.
He took to her right away and they became the best of friends.
chocolatepuppy
12-01-2010, 10:41 AM
What a sad story.:( When Mandy died, Lacey was very nervous without her, always watching the back door she last went out.:( I found Missy one day, weeks later, staring at Mandys toybox, as if to say "where are you Mandy?". Heartbreaking!:(
When Sassy died, Missy would look for her at mealtimes. Then one week after she died, Missy was searching my bedroom, looking high and low and crying, looking for Sassy.:(
When Lacey died, Layla didn't want to eat at mealtime, she kept waiting for me to fill Lacey's bowl. :(
I honestly feel that's one of the hardest things about losing a furkid, seeing another furkid grieve over the loss.:(
Taz_Zoee
12-01-2010, 03:06 PM
That story brought on the tears. :(
When my brothers dog, Digger, died Boo would not eat his food. He'd sit and look at us like "I'm waiting for Digger".
I also remember when Bruce's cocker, DJ, died Taz would look out the door for him. They had only been living together for less than 2 years.
I don't recall any grieving of anyone (besides myself) when Taz went.
K9karen
12-03-2010, 09:30 PM
I haven't looked up the details, but I've read that President Franklin Roosevelt's dog, Fala, grieved terribly, and sat by his (FDR) chair constantly. It's said that Fala died of a broken heart.
Hey, I know Logan misses me terribly when I'm gone. John said that even though he's home, it makes no difference. She'll lay with her head on her paws, staring at the door. I'm sure all your dogs do the same.
This story broke my heart. I hate when some researchers say dogs (animals) don't emote like humans. Yeah, right.
cyber-sibes
12-04-2010, 08:30 PM
very touching, and sad. I also think dogs grieve deeply. After Sherman died, Star would lie on "their" quilt, staring at the wall. She lost a quarter of her body weight as she wouldn't eat for days at a time. It was so sad. I had talked to Nancy Efusy and she said it would be very hard on star because she & Sherman were so very close. that's partly why we went & got jack so soon after, but it took a long time for Star to accept him. It all worked out, they became buddies and were good company for each other.
http://petoftheday.com/talk/showthread.php?p=2321042&posted=1#post2321042
Awesome article, thanks for that. *tear*
One of our pet talk friends has a dog with some strange grieving behavior, note the link above. I couldn't really think of much to help. If anyone can, please advise. Thanks.
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