Very Bad News

[lizbud]

My 10yr old cat Punky has not be eating very well & just seemed to
want to go off by himself to sleep for the last few days. I took him to the
Vet today. The Vet suspects FIP (feline Infectious peritonitis). Took x-rays
of his chest, his body is full of fluid & could barely see the lungs for the
fluid.:( She tried to drain some of the fluid to test, but was unsucessful.
She sent us home with pills(diuretic) to get rid of as much fluid as possible
to help his breathing. The prognosis is bad, there is no cure.:(:(

Will try to make him comfortable as possible & if he seems to improve
any, will try the chest x-rays again in hopes of finding another cause
besides FIP, something operable. (A very long shot) I am devastated.:(:(

http://hubpages.com/hub/FIP-in-cats-is-one-of-the-most-mysterious-diseases

[mrspunkysmom]

SO sorry to hear about Punky. My prayers are with you and Punky.

[cassiesmom]

Prayers and (((HUGS)))) for Punky and Lizbud.

[3Catcondo]

Sending healing thoughts Punky's way....Prayers that he will feel better soon. :love:

[Taz_Zoee]

I'm sorry about Punky. Hopefully the meds will help and make him comfortable.

[Freedom]

Oh I am so very sorry to read this. I HATE FIP, as there is just nothing you can do. Prayers for your Punky to be comfortable.

[Karen]

Prayers for dear Punky.

[Prairie Purrs]

I hope it turns out to be something other than FIP, something treatable. Lots of healing thoughts for Punky.

[phesina]

Prayers from us for dear Punky.

[Sundance]

I'm so sorry to read your sad news about Punky. I pray that the long-shot that it's not FIP comes true. If it is FIP, there really isn't anything much you can do except make him comfortable until it's time to let him go. He's not an elderly cat, and I always think that makes it even more difficult to say goodbye because we expect many more years. Please keep us posted on your beautiful boy.


:love: Sending get well wishes, Punky! :love:

[Catlady711]

So sorry to hear that.:( Thoughts are with you and Punky.

[Catty1]

Many prayers for dear Punky. :love: I hope the diuretics work and there is something else very treatable causing problems.

Get well soon, Punky!:love::love:

[krazyaboutkatz]

I'm so sorry to hear this.:( Lots of prayers and positive thoughts are being sent Punky's way. Please take care. (((HUGS)))

[Barbara]

I am so sorry to hear this. I hope Punky will be comfortable at least.

[anna_66]

Liz this breaks my heart to hear:(
I'll be saying extra prayers for both you and Punky. (((HUGS)))

[Medusa]

So sorry to hear about Spunky. Prayers going up right now for him and you. Keep the faythe.

[Pinot's Mom]

I'm so sorry about Punky - I hope they can treat this and dear Punky can be well soon! :love:

[Cataholic]

{{{{{HUGS}}}} and lots of prayers that it isn't FIP, and that Punky will have many more years with you.

Johanna

[lizbud]

Thank you for your kindness. Punky is not much better this morning.
Would not eat anything, drank a little water though. He looked so pitiful
this morning.He came up to Blackie (his good buddy) and sat beside him.
Normally that's the signal for Blackie to start grooming him, but instead,
Blackie didn't even look at Punky, just got up and walked away from him.:(
Punky just drifted off to the spare bedroom to his favorite sleeping spot.

I don't see how he could have gotten so sick so fast.:(:( The Vet said
it was possible that the other cats could come down with FIP as well,
but if they show no signs yet, they probably won't. No promises.:( I feel
like I'm in a bad dream.

Here is a picture of Punky as I'm so bad about posting my kitties pictures
much. I want you to see how handsome he is. He is the gray & white cat
in this picture with Smokey(dog) and Joey.(other cat)


http://im1.shutterfly.com/media/47b7d736b3127ccec2768185329c00000010O08AZuW7Nm2ZtQ e3nww/cC/f%3D0/ps%3D50/r%3D0/rx%3D550/ry%3D400/

[Randi]

Oh Liz, I'm so very sorry to hear about Punky. :( He looks like such a sweet boy and is very handsome. I hope the treatment will help him, but if it doesn't I know you will keep him as comfortable as possible.

Fister and I are sending lots of healing thoughts and purrs to dear Punky. :love:

Big ((((Hugs))))

[Catty1]

What a handsome and beautiful boy Punky is! :love:

Prayers that the next few hours on the meds will make a difference.

Hang in there, Punky - you are very very loved.

[momoffuzzyfaces]

Prayers on the way from me for you and sweet Punky!!! :love::love:

[katladyd]

I'm praying for Punky:love:

[lizbud]

Just a small update on Punky. Still not eating much of anything. A few
bites at best & then walks away. Had a soft & bloody stool this morning.:(
He sleeps a lot. He has found a bright sunny spot in the dining room floor
and he has settled there for now. He walks very slow & carefully, no running
no playing at all. One bright spot is he is very receptive to gentle tummy
rubs and he seems to enjoy that.:)

[Cataholic]

Oh, Liz. I am so sorry. Can you try warming up some wet food in the micro? It might temp him some. Still praying for Punky.

[Grace]

I was so sorry to read about Punky not feeling well. Prayers for all of you that it isn't FIP, and resolves soon :love:

[anna_66]

Poor sweet thing. Glad to hear he's still enjoying the tummy rubs though.

[Catty1]

More prayers heading out your way!:love::love:

[lizbud]

Oh, Liz. I am so sorry. Can you try warming up some wet food in the micro? It might temp him some. Still praying for Punky.


Johanna, He won't eat any wet food at all. Some of the canned stuff
with sauce, he will sniff the liquid part, but that's it. Punky is still showing
some interest in his favorite kibble, but only eats a few at a time. I do free
feed so it's always available if he wants it.

I know he's lost weight, but he still interested in watching (and reacting)
to the birds outside in the yard, or sleeping in the sunshine, or getting some
special attention from me. He acts good sometimes,othertimes he seems
very weak. He does not seem to be in any pain, but definately, not his old
bossy self. I might be naive, but I'm hoping he'll fool everybody & start
getting better any day now. Maybe the Vet was wrong about him.

[anna_66]

I know he's lost weight, but he still interested in watching (and reacting)
to the birds outside in the yard, or sleeping in the sunshine, or getting some
special attention from me. He acts good sometimes,othertimes he seems
very weak. He does not seem to be in any pain, but definately, not his old
bossy self. I might be naive, but I'm hoping he'll fool everybody & start
getting better any day now. Maybe the Vet was wrong about him.

I do hope this is the case! Prayers for the both of you.

[lizbud]

I know now that this is a fight that Punky won't win & I've scheduled
an appt. for 1:15 today at the Vets.:( Punky is getting weaker by the day
and his eyes are full of pain. I am just being selfish to want to keep him
with me, but it just kills me that his life has to end this way.:( He was a big
strong boy and he has become a shell of his former self. I cannot let him
suffer any more with no hope of ever getting better.:( My poor Punky.:(

[Grace]

I'm so very sorry, liz. Prayers for you and Punky :love:

[Medusa]

I'm truly sorry. We all know your pain. :love:

[Prairie Purrs]

I'm so sorry. My thoughts are with you and sweet Punky.

[Pinot's Mom]

I'm very sorry. Punky knows you'll do what's best. {{{hugs}}}

[Karen]

We'll be thinking of you both.

[krazyaboutkatz]

Liz, I'm so sorry to hear this.:( (((HUGS)))

[katladyd]

When you see the pain in their eyes that you know can't be made better, that's when it's time to show them how much you really love them. It is soo hard to do, but this is where LOVE has to guide you. Know I am praying and thinking of you today.:(

[phesina]

I am so very sorry.

[cassiesmom]

I'm so very sorry, liz. Prayers for you and Punky :love:

From me too :love:

[Catty1]

Hugs and prayers...:love::love::love:. I hope all goes peacefully.

[Sundance]

I'm so sorry to hear your latest news. Admitting it's time to say goodbye is the most difficult decision we have to make for our furry loved ones, but it's also the kindest decision when it comes to that point. You tried, Punky tried, but sometimes nothing can change the course of nature. I came across this poem when we had to say goodbye to our kitty, April, earlier this year. I hope it helps you cope with your sorrow, even a little bit. Punky will always have that special place in your heart.


Cat Poem

They will not go quietly,
the cats who've shared our lives.
In suptle ways they let us know
their spirit still survives.
Old habits still make us think
we hear a meow at the door.
Or step back when we drop
a tasty morsel on the floor.
Our feet still go around the place
the food dish used to be,
And, sometimes, coming home at night,
we miss them terribly.
And although time may bring new friends
and a new food dish to fill,
that one place in our hearts
belongs to them. . . and always will.

by Linda Barnes

:love: Rest in peace, Punky, and play gently at the bridge until that one fine day...:love:

[lizbud]

Punky is gone.:( He went to sleep easily & quickly and didn't fight the
procedure at all. Before he left I kissed his head & stroked his ears when
I told him about Rainbow Bridge. I told him to rest easy there & in time I
would be there too. I told him to wait for me & I would call to him when I
arrived. We would be together again.

He looked so peaceful & I hated to leave the room without him.:(:(
I spent some time with him afterwards & half expected him to wake up
again. I waited awhile until my mind was sure his spirit had left.:( I will
miss my little "timekeeper" kitty. Punky always reminded me when the cat
bowls became dangerously low.:)

[Cataholic]

I am just so sorry to hear this, Liz.

[Catty1]

I am glad to hear that Punky went peacefully...that poor little body couldn't go on any more. He has relief, and his spirit is free.

More hugs and prayers to you, lizbud.:love::love:

[phesina]

God bless you and Punky both.

[mrspunkysmom]

So sorry to hear about Punky.

[gini]

My heart goes out to you. I understand the pain and sense of huge loss that you feel. I am so sorry.

[bowlkat]

I know it's been on here before-- but: Note #10-

A PET'S TEN COMMANDMENTS.........
1. My life is likely to last 10-15 years. Any separation from you is likely to be painful.
2. Give me time to understand what you want of me
3. Place your trust in me. It is crucial for my well-being.
4. Don't be angry with me for long and don't lock me up as punishment. You have your work, your friends, your entertainment, but I have only you.
5. Talk to me. Even if I don't understand your words, I do understand your voice when speaking to me.
6. Be aware that however you treat me, I will never forget it.
7. Before you hit me, before you strike me, remember that I could hurt you, and yet, I choose not to bite you.
8. Before you scold me for being lazy or uncooperative, ask yourself if something might be bothering me. Perhaps I'm not getting the right food, I have been in the sun too long, or my heart might be getting old or weak.
9. Please take care of me when I grow old. You too, will grow old.
10 On the ultimate difficult journey, go with me please. Never say you can't bear to watch. Don't make me face this alone. Everything is easier for me if you are there, because I love you so.

You did what you had to do, for Punky- and you saw him through it all... he knows it and you will be together again. God bless and may your pain be lessened by the knowledge that SO MANY here know it and have shared it- self included, too many times - as we've had to for our closest and most loyal friends.

[Cinder & Smoke]

Oh Liz ~ I'm so teribly sorry that you had to let Punky go.

May he rest peacfully at The Bridge till you arrive.

You have my Deepest Sympathies.

/s/ :( Phred :love::love:

[Taz_Zoee]

I am so sorry. But Punky did have a big welcoming committee when he arrived at the bridge. All of the other PT pets were there to show him around. He is now free of pain.

Play hard at the bridge Punky. RIP

[Sundance]

Poor Punky, poor you :( He went peacefully because it was time and he was ready. As hard as it was for you, he needed you there with him as he slipped away and you were able to see how peaceful it was.


:love: RIP Punky. You will forever remain in the hearts of those who loved you. :love:

[krazyaboutkatz]

Liz, I'm so sorry that you had to let him go:( but now he's as peace and you'll both be reunited one fine day. RIP sweet Punky.:( Please take care. (((HUGS)))

[katladyd]

I can only say that my heart is breaking as I type this. RIP dear Punky. You were truly loved.:love:

[Barbara]

Liz I am so sorry Punky had to go- but they tell you don't they?
He is better now, poor boy, but your heart will need time to heal.

[Kirsten]

I'm very sorry, Liz! (((HUGS))) I lost a kitty to FIP, too, and I know what it means. Punky is free now, and no longer suffering. You will meet him again, one day...

R.I.P. little boy!

[Randi]

Liz, I'm terribly sorry you had to say goodbye to Punky. :( I think your sweet boy was ready to go and I'm glad you didn't let him suffer. Keep him in your heart and remember the good times you had together. :)

Rest in peace, Punky!

Big (((hugs))) :love:

[chocolatepuppy]

I'm very sorry for your loss of Punky. :(

[anna_66]

It's never easy to let them go is it? But you know you did the right thing and he is now in a better place with no pain.
RIP Punky

(((HUGS))) to you Liz

[Medusa]

I'm so sorry that it's come to this, the most painful thing we all have to do, part w/our beloved furkids whether we help them to the Bridge or not. Nothing but pleasure and good times for Punky now. RIP, sweet one and peace to you, Liz.

[smokey the elder]

I'm so sorry about Punky. What a sweet kitty.

[kitten645]

I'm so sorry about Punky. Hobbes is a recent arrival and a good welcoming komkittie. We will see them again and I hope that's a comfort. It's so hard. I know.

[lizbud]

I don't think I really realized till now, what a big part of my day, my life,
Punky was & I miss him so much.:( He was the one who lead the way every
day when I went downstairs to feed the kitty gang. He followed me around
when I refilled the bowls & was thrilled when I opened a new bag to pour.:)
He was my napping buddy, for those afternoon snoozes on rainy days.

You might think one cat, out of a total of five, wouldn't change things so
radically, but it sure does. I miss my little guy so much, even though I would
never want him back to suffer so.:( Rest easy Punky wunky, I won't forget
you, ever.:( See you again at Rainbow Bridge baby.

[AdoreMyDogs]

I'm so sorry for your loss, Liz :(

[phesina]

I am so very sorry for your loss.

You and your beloved boy Punky are joined in love forever. God bless you both and give you peace.

[catmandu]

Punky had arrived at the Rainbow Bridge and has his wings of Silver and Gold now, and he has joined Our Awesome Angels Army in the Balkans , and will have his first dinner with them at the finest restaurant in the region.
Punky will tour the World with all Our Animal Angels and will drop in from time to time to see that you re all right.
He will find a place that you will both love where you will be reunited in love.
One Fine Day.

[Karen]

Rest in peace, Punky.

[3Catcondo]

I'm so sorry for your loss. RIP Punky. :love:

[Catlady711]

So sorry that you had to let your baby go.:( Glad to hear things went peacefully though and now he's probably playing at the RB with my Dusty and many other PT kitties. We all know how heartbreaking the decision is and what you are going through and we all are here for you.


You might think one cat, out of a total of five, wouldn't change things so radically, but it sure does.

It doesn't matter how many cats you have, each one is special on his/her own. When I had to put Dusty to sleep I had 8 cats that morning, and 7 that evening, and I cried for 2 days. I still miss her an awful lot 3 years later, even though I still have the other kitties here with me yet and love them too. There will never be another cat like Dusty.

[momoffuzzyfaces]

I'm so sorry Liz. I know how hard it was for you to let Punky go. Try and take comfort in that he is in no pain now. I firmly believe you will be together again someday. :love::love:

[lizbud]

Hi,

I just wanted to take this chance to thank everyone who expressed their
sympathy, wrote comforting words & shared their thoughts & experiences
of RB kitties. It has been a great comfort to me & has helped so much to
not feel so alone at such a sad time. I appreciate it more than I can say.

Thanks so much,
Liz

[Squeak's Mom]

Liz, I'm so sorry about Punky. I've had many cats and it never gets any easier to let them go on without us. Punky was so very blessed to have you as his owner. You gave each other joy and love. You will see him again as I believe we will all see our blessed furbabies! Much love and comfort, Kris

[lizbud]

Just when you think it's over.:(:(

Punky loved chedder cheese. I sometimes have the cheese cubes & crackers
as a snack in the evenings.Punky cold be in the basement,yet hear when I
opened the package of cheese cubes, and come running to get his piece.
He would either eat it on the spot, or bat it around like a toy. Either way,
he loved them.:)

The other day I was cleaning dust from behind the stairwell when I found
a old,stale cheese cube sitting there on the floor. I knew where it had come
from. My heart sank in my chest.:( I didn't want to throw it away, but I did.

I miss you Punky.:(

[gini]

"The other day I was cleaning dust from behind the stairwell when I found
a old,stale cheese cube sitting there on the floor. I knew where it had come
from. My heart sank in my chest.:( I didn't want to throw it away, but I did."

I know how you felt when you found the cheese. You look at it with some wonderment - like it would still have a part of his soul in it because he had played with it.

But then the tears come and the pain takes over and you have to turn away - the loss is too fresh.

[Medusa]

I can relate and sympathize, Liz. Boo didn't have a favorite toy or anything but just sitting here typing now w/o him on my lap is so sad. I feel as though Boo was snatched from me, stolen even. It does get better w/time but right now, we grieve together. :love:

[Anikaca77]

I'm so sorry to hear about Punky. I lost Ziggy to FIP and it was very hard even though I didn't have him for very long it was a hard thing to go through.

You will never forget them, it just gets easier as time passes on and then you'll think about it again and you will cry but you will remember the good times.

My prays,
Melissa

[phesina]

I can understand how that made you feel. Today I got together some more things I had gotten for Christofur to take them to the Salvation Army. Every time I saw any of them would pierce my heart again.

Hugs to you and lovely memories of your beautiful Punky.

[rg_girlca]

Liz, I am so sorry on the loss of your beloved Punky. You did all that you could for him. He was deeply loved and knew it.

I know it is difficult to say goodbye to a pet you held so dear. I pray and hope that you find comfort and peace in the fond memories you made together.

Rest in Peace handsome Punky. Your were so loved and will be sorely missed.

[Cataholic]

Oh, Liz. That is so sad. I know the feeling. Yesterday, as I took the Christmas Tree out of the box, I found one of Allie's fave little black puff ball toys. It made me cry.