View Full Version : My sweet girl, Finae, is gone
jennielynn1970
07-07-2010, 06:56 PM
I came home to check on my kitties today to find that Finae had passed away during the past 4 days while I was gone. :(
I cannot express how horrible I feel that she has passed away, and that I was not there when she died. She was alone and I was not there for her in her time of need.
I have no idea why she died. She was always healthy, always had good vet checks, and was my meet and greet kitty in my house hold.
When I went to do my "head count" before I was leaving, I pulled out the treats and shook the bag, and everyone came but Finae. Finae ALWAYS comes for treats. I became frantic, and when I found her, she was curled up by my coat closet, looking peaceful. I hope her passing was peaceful, and I hope she had no pain.
Sleep my sweet girl. Mama misses you so terribly much. You were my sweet snuggly girl. My constant companion when I was home, just like a little doggie at my feet.
Play hard at the Bridge. I'll see you there one fine day.:love:
jenluckenbach
07-07-2010, 07:07 PM
Jennie I am so sad to hear this. :( It is always harder when they leave without "warning".
RIP Finae, stay by your meowmie's side, always.
Asiel
07-07-2010, 07:09 PM
Sorry about your cat Jen, I'm sure finding her like that was more than unsettling for you.
Nomilynn
07-07-2010, 07:13 PM
I am so sorry for your loss. *HUGS*
Play hard in the everafter, sweet Finae.
Cataholic
07-07-2010, 07:17 PM
I am so very sorry to read this, Jennie. My heart breaks for you. RIP, sweet Finae.
Karen
07-07-2010, 07:19 PM
Rest in peace, sweet Finae. Send your momma some purrs in her dreams so she knows you are okay now.
Freedom
07-07-2010, 07:56 PM
I am sorry to learn of Finae's passing.
Fun free at the Bridge, Finae!
Scooter's Mom
07-07-2010, 08:12 PM
I am so sorry for your loss.
Finae and Scooter Bug will be together forever now... I am sure he was there to greet his sweet Valentine when she arrived.
Taz_Zoee
07-07-2010, 08:33 PM
RIP Beautiful Finae. I found a picture of her and she is my Paizly's twin. I'm so sorry it happened this way Jennie. Big hugs to you. :(
http://i162.photobucket.com/albums/t261/jenn_librarian/Helloagain.jpg
Medusa
07-07-2010, 08:51 PM
I'm so sorry about this. RIP, sweet Finae. You will be missed.
jennielynn1970
07-07-2010, 09:00 PM
Thank you for the picture, Cindy, I don't have any of Finae on my laptop that I'm using. I miss her little face so much. She was my sweetie, and my badass, but god I loved her. I just can't stop crying. I feel so terrible that I wasn't there when she passed. I promised all of my guys I would always be there in their time of need, and I failed.
I miss you Finae. I wish you were here with me.:(
shais_mom
07-07-2010, 10:25 PM
big hugs to you
play hard Finae.
krazyaboutkatz
07-08-2010, 12:30 AM
Jenn, I'm so sorry to hear about Finae's passing.:( RIP sweet girl.:( Please take care. (((HUGS)))
Pinot's Mom
07-08-2010, 07:28 AM
Jenn, I am so very sorry about the passing of Finae and the way your heart is broken. {{{{hugs}}}} and prayers for peace to you.:(
RIP, sweet little Finae, play happy and free at the Bridge.:love:
Laura's Babies
07-08-2010, 08:04 AM
That is my biggest fear working like I do, this recent saga of that abscess with Boo drove that fear in really deep. How long had it been there, was she in pain? Would I have seen it and had it treated before it got that bad had I been home?(Given the location, it is highly unlikely that I would have ever seen it) Being 15 this year, I know her time could come anytime and it kills me that I may not be here for her when that time comes...
BUT, what can we do? The one comfort is that we know in our hearts that we LOVE them and have given them a good home and a great life. Something they may not have had if they had ended up somewhere else. She knew you loved her and she got to go to the bridge from her home where she felt safe and loved.
Try not to beat yourself up to much over this, she wouldn't want you to do that. ((((HUGS)))))
emily_the_spoiled
07-08-2010, 09:01 AM
I am so sorry that Finae has left you and gone to the RB. We never know when one of them is going to leave us unexpectedly. Please do not blame yourself because it could happen to anyone of us...
But she is now playing at the Bridge with all the others who have gone before her and she is now waiting for the time when she will see you again.
smokey the elder
07-08-2010, 09:40 AM
I'm so sorry about Finae. She was a beautiful cat.
Prairie Purrs
07-08-2010, 09:52 AM
I'm so sorry. What a terrible shock for you! She was a lovely girl.
RIP, sweet Finae.
Barbara
07-08-2010, 11:44 AM
I am sorry that pretty Finae had to leave you too soon.
phesina
07-08-2010, 12:41 PM
I am so very sorry. How heartbreaking for you, Jennie.
Rest in peace, beautiful Finae.
catmandu
07-08-2010, 03:15 PM
That is the saddest way to find that a Cat Companion has become an Angel.
I found My Poor Bo Bo under a cellar stair after I had make a Vet appointment for her Doctor to examine her and put her to sleep if neccesary.
Finae , sadly had run out of time and Our Awesome Angels Companions Army had a job for her that would not wait.
Finae does not want you to be sad Jenn, you gave her a great life together, and your friendship is not over, just interupted as Finae , a Dear Little Cat goes on to Paradise.
And Finae and Scooter Bug are a Cat Couple now and will together find a place for their Beloved Meeowmies to meet again in love.
One Fine Day:love:
Sonia59
07-09-2010, 07:26 AM
I am so sorry:( RIP pretty Finae
prechrswife
07-09-2010, 02:33 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss.:(
jennielynn1970
07-26-2010, 08:02 PM
Missing you so much, my sweet girl.
Hope you are playing with Tazzer up there and found Scooter Bug too.
I love you so much Finae, I am so sorry that I was not there for you.
Sundance
07-26-2010, 09:04 PM
Jenn, I'm so sorry for your loss of Finae, especially when it was unexpected and she was alone. Please don't blame yourself for not being there. Like people, sometimes our pets will wait to die alone, so even if you had been home, she might have hidden away knowing her time was up.
She was a beautiful girl, much like our Chloe. Finae will be waiting for you at the Rainbow Bridge, and in the meantime, she's playing with all our furry friends who have gone before us.
Felicia's Mom
07-27-2010, 10:06 AM
I'm sorry Finae has gone to the Bridge.
AdoreMyDogs
07-27-2010, 10:01 PM
Jennie, I'm so sorry for your loss, and so sorry I didn't see this earlier. Rest in peace, Finae. You were very loved.
momtomany
08-03-2010, 07:30 PM
Rest in peace sweet one.
jennielynn1970
08-24-2010, 12:53 PM
It's been a month and a half since you are gone, Finae. I have the kitten you sent to me, and he has been a blessing, but I still miss you like crazy.
I hope that you are well and are playing at the Bridge. Wait for me, sweetie, I will be there with you, One fine day.
jennielynn1970
02-12-2011, 09:33 PM
Was thinking about you again tonight, my sweet girl. I miss you so much. I wish I would have been here when you were crossing the bridge, or would have known that you were sick. It makes me feel so bad.
I love you, my darling girl.
PS... Sebastian is growing so much. Some times he does things that I swear he would have learned from only you. He even walks a bit like you at times. He makes me smile, but he's still not you. Love you, Mom.
phesina
02-13-2011, 09:20 AM
I'm sure Sebastian is channeling her! That is her way of letting you know that she is still with you and will be always.
rg_girlca
02-16-2011, 08:43 PM
I am so sorry on the loss of your precious girl Finae. Maybe she wanted to spare you the pain of having to make the decision yourself to have her PTS, even though it hurt more to find her that way. Take comfort in knowing that some cats will just go off on their own to pass peacefully in their sleep.
{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}
May you find peace and comfort in the fond memories that you made together.
Rest in Peace dear Finae. You were so loved and will never be forgotten.
jennielynn1970
07-08-2011, 12:05 PM
It has been a year, my dear girl, and not a day goes by without me thinking about you.
I do have a surprise for you! I adopted a new boy, in your memory, on the one year mark of the day of your passing. His name is Calloway, and he is such a good boy. He is a lovie, and a talker, and just wants to be velcroed to my side, lol. I think you'd like him a lot.
I hope all is well up there and that you are having fun and playing with your brother, Taz. My mom and dad miss him terribly as well.
I love you baby girl, I hope to see you again, one fine day!
phesina
07-08-2011, 01:59 PM
My deepest sympathy to you, Jennie, on the occasion of this sad anniversary. She is with you, always by your side in spirit, and is awaiting that grand reunion One Fine Day.
And what a wonderful memorial to make to Finae, adopting Calloway!!! She and he are both rejoicing.
:love::love::love::love::love::love::love::love:
Love from us all.
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